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What do people actually expect from them catcalling me?

Posted Sep 12, 2018 19:54:47 by anonymous
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  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 10:46:45 by anonymous

    Cat calling is verbal rape. If these guys could rape they would rape you instead.

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 10:47:50 by anonymous

    I once saw a guy in a truck yell at a little girl, Hey baby, call me when you're legal. She was just a kid. These guys are fucking morons. I carry and I would love to gun them down right in the crotch and watch them bleed out.

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 14:23:27 by anonymous

    “Cat calling is verbal rape. If these guys could rape they would rape you instead. ”

    Ok, I hate catcalling but don't compare it to rape. You sound melodramatic.

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 15:07:39 by anonymous

    You need to start flipping them the bird

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 15:11:15 by anonymous

    I've only done it a few times. One time I got drunk and did it outside of a nightclub. I was pretty wasted, the girl responded, and I asked for her number. My friend thought I was being naive, but I copied it down. It turned out to be real, and we dated a few times. Maybe that's a rarity, but for me it worked.

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 15:39:48 by anonymous

    “Ok, I hate catcalling but don't compare it to rape. You sound melodramatic.”

    To almost all women, yes it is verbal rape. They hate it and they hate the fucking morons who do it. if they could they would cut the nuts off every guy who does it.

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 15:51:57 by anonymous

    You should feel flattered and maybe flash a tit in return.

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 16:02:09 by anonymous

    Cat callers are dumb. They don't realize that yelling "nice tits!" is not the same as smiling and saying "hello." I'm also a firm believer that none of them grew up with mothers or sisters.

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 16:11:28 by anonymous

    I think chicks should pull out a gun and kill them. If I was on the jury I would NEVER convict you.

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 16:21:12 by anonymous

    “To almost all women, yes it is verbal rape. They hate it and they hate the fucking morons who do it. if they could they would cut the nuts off every guy who does it.”

    You do not speak for all women and I am a woman and catcalling is not similar to rape. I absolutely loathe catcalling. It's stupid and annoying but I bet if you asked any woman who had been raped and also catcalled, they would say that calling catcalling verbal rape is ridiculous. Rape screws people up for life. Catcalling is annoying and it can be scary but don't compare it to rape.

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 16:59:42 by anonymous

    “You do not speak for all women and I am a woman and catcalling is not similar to rape. I absolutely loathe catcalling. It's stupid and annoying but I bet if you asked any woman who had been raped and also catcalled, they would say that calling catcalling verbal rape is ridiculous. Rape screws people up for life. Catcalling is annoying and it can be scary but don't compare it to rape.”

    Yeah I agree, they definitely aren’t the same, especially since you can’t really do anything about a cat-caller other than telling them off or ignoring them whereas rape is a punishable offense. But I do think on some occasions there are cat-callers who have more violent tendencies might end up committing sexual assault or rape if they don’t take rejection well and make no effort to curb their behavior.

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 17:24:10 by anonymous

    Anal?

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 17:38:07 by anonymous

    “I think chicks should pull out a gun and kill them. If I was on the jury I would NEVER convict you.”

    Wow, that seems a little extreme. Telling the guy to fuck off would probably be a more reasonable reaction.

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 17:45:10 by anonymous

    I think when guys see an attractive woman they should just clap their hands, then maybe give her a tip.

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 18:24:57 by anonymous

    I'm a man and I will admit some of us do stupid shit. Like a dog chasing a car even if we caught it we
    wouldn't know what to do with it. I believe it's the idea or dream they have that it might impress
    you and they might score but like Beavis and Butt-Head they never score. I personally like to watch
    women, people watching. Learn their likes dislikes by watching people interact with others you
    get to see how they would act toward you and the kind of person they may be. But back to you
    you have men and you have boys although age doesn't define them, maturity does. The nice
    guy will take the time to talk face to face not from a car.

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 21:14:56 by anonymous

    they're desperate. they get zero attention from women. the way it's meant to work is that women catcall at men, but you aren't doing it, so what do you THINK was gonna happen?

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 21:55:58 by anonymous

    “I suppose you think you added a valuable piece to this thread. thanks for wiping up your own drool.”

    Ahhh, is the little low-rent loser butthurt? Too bad, dipshit. The real men get the trim. You get to sit there and cry. Bitch.

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 21:56:55 by anonymous

    “Get lost old man. ”

    Wah. Another snowflake loser snivels out a response. God, I love that it triggered you little queers. :D

  • Commented Sep 13, 2018 22:08:30 by anonymous

    I'll tell you what the catcallers want. they want you to drop what you are doing, run up to them, and say something like. Wow, I liked the way you whistled/harassed/patted my butt, etc.. lets have sex. So next time you get catcalled, now you know what to do.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 01:43:23 by anonymous

    “Ahhh, is the little low-rent loser butthurt? Too bad, dipshit. The real men get the trim. You get to sit there and cry. Bitch.”

    explain low rent.


    Is this the new trending nigger term?

    did you feel cool using it because you though whoever used it before you became cool to you?


    Can you explain it at all?

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 01:48:31 by anonymous

    “Wow, that seems a little extreme. Telling the guy to fuck off would probably be a more reasonable reaction.”

    But murder would cause a lot of other people to think twice

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 01:50:23 by anonymous

    “no, but your post made me laugh.”

    I still wanna get it on baby... licky your kitty long time.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 06:04:42 by anonymous

    They don't expect anything. They just like to pay people compliments and they happen to not be very good at it.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 10:52:21 by anonymous

    “Wah. Another snowflake loser snivels out a response. God, I love that it triggered you little queers. :D”

    You can die now, old man. No one even looks at you - that's why you have to yell at chicks. Fucking pathetic loser.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 10:52:37 by anonymous

    I expect a blowjob. You should know that

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 13:10:25 by anonymous

    “You can die now, old man. No one even looks at you - that's why you have to yell at chicks. Fucking pathetic loser.”

    LOL! Old? Hardly loser-boi. Enjoy your screwed up little life.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 13:12:33 by anonymous

    “explain low rent.


    Is this the new trending nigger term?

    did you feel cool using it because you though whoever used it before you became cool to you?


    Can you explain it at all? ”

    Sure, I can explain it to you: you are a complete and utter fool who lacks the ability to understand basic communication, no could muster a coherent reply. Eat shit! :D

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 16:58:24 by anonymous

    When you hear a catcall/catcalls, they are simply telling you that you are good looking. You should say thank you and tip him/them at least a dollar.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 17:06:35 by anonymous

    “When you hear a catcall/catcalls, they are simply telling you that you are good looking. You should say thank you and tip him/them at least a dollar.”

    I’d never thank a complete stranger for saying stuff about my body or looks if I’m walking about just wanting to go to whatever destination I need to go. I don’t like or need that sort of attention, especially when catcalling is way too suggestive or aggressive to be doing out in the open with other people in earshot.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 17:08:44 by anonymous

    It's about one thing. Little dicked, inscure men looking for attention from their little dicked, insecure buddies.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 17:14:08 by anonymous

    Why don't women try cat-calling us men every once in a while we'd love and appreciate it even if the ladies
    don't like it.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 17:54:04 by anonymous

    “Why don't women try cat-calling us men every once in a while we'd love and appreciate it even if the ladies
    don't like it. ”

    Because women catcalling men is pathetic and sad. It makes women look desperate. it's different when guys cat call because they are ALL desperate.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 18:06:04 by anonymous

    You people need to get out more. Guys catcall because sometimes it works. It's no different than if you're at a party, and go from woman to woman, chatting them up, and then asking them to sleep with you. Most will say no, but some will say yes. Stop it with the sensitivity bullshit, it works.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 18:08:24 by anonymous

    “You people need to get out more. Guys catcall because sometimes it works. It's no different than if you're at a party, and go from woman to woman, chatting them up, and then asking them to sleep with you. Most will say no, but some will say yes. Stop it with the sensitivity bullshit, it works.”

    You know someone who actually got action from catcalling?

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 18:11:10 by anonymous

    “You know someone who actually got action from catcalling?”

    Hell yes. Twice. Three separate guys with three separate women. I don't do it often, but it worked for me a grand total of once.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 18:11:23 by anonymous

    Fucking white trash losers. I guarantee you all the cat callers voted for Trump.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 18:14:11 by anonymous

    Twice wasn't counting me of course. One of the three was a fraternity guy who did it all the time, and he always hit up on girls at parties, during his fraternity days and after. He got shot down often, but then he also so much more tail than most of the cocksmen I've ever known. The other guy was someone I worked with, a black guy who was soft spoken. I picked up a girl that way, I was there and kind of amazed.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 18:16:39 by anonymous

    Mine was on a night of drinking with the fraternity bros after graduation. We were a bit wild, and I saw two sweet things. I catcalled, both laughed like hell, and they joined us for drinks. I scored that night.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 18:16:51 by anonymous

    “Twice wasn't counting me of course. One of the three was a fraternity guy who did it all the time, and he always hit up on girls at parties, during his fraternity days and after. He got shot down often, but then he also so much more tail than most of the cocksmen I've ever known. The other guy was someone I worked with, a black guy who was soft spoken. I picked up a girl that way, I was there and kind of amazed.”

    I guess some women are more desperate than others.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 18:23:53 by anonymous

    “I guess some women are more desperate than others.”

    Yeah, I was digging at the bottom of the barrel. She was just a pretty UCLA student. Good times.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 18:52:47 by anonymous

    “You people need to get out more. Guys catcall because sometimes it works. It's no different than if you're at a party, and go from woman to woman, chatting them up, and then asking them to sleep with you. Most will say no, but some will say yes. Stop it with the sensitivity bullshit, it works.”

    There’s a huge difference though because a party is the type of social environment where people are mingling and open to finding a partner. If someone catcalls at another person who is walking to work, however, that’s creepy and unnerving to have some stranger suddenly approach in that way in that context.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 19:26:37 by anonymous

    “There’s a huge difference though because a party is the type of social environment where people are mingling and open to finding a partner. If someone catcalls at another person who is walking to work, however, that’s creepy and unnerving to have some stranger suddenly approach in that way in that context.”

    It wasn't at a party. You wouldn't catcall someone at a party, you'd just approach her. You catcall outdoors.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 19:28:48 by anonymous

    “I’d never thank a complete stranger for saying stuff about my body or looks if I’m walking about just wanting to go to whatever destination I need to go. I don’t like or need that sort of attention, especially when catcalling is way too suggestive or aggressive to be doing out in the open with other people in earshot.”

    Thanks for responding. You must be so hot!! Personally I never catcall. I think it's crude and boorish. Do you have a boyfriend to look out for you? On a friendly note, most catcallers aren't going to anything else but whistle, or say something. They know chicks don't stop and talk.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 19:49:08 by anonymous

    “Thanks for responding. You must be so hot!! Personally I never catcall. I think it's crude and boorish. Do you have a boyfriend to look out for you? On a friendly note, most catcallers aren't going to anything else but whistle, or say something. They know chicks don't stop and talk. ”

    I have no interest in a partner, so no, but I think that not acknowledging the existence of the catcallers is pretty effective, although if it comes down to telling them to fuck off, I’ll do that if it gets to a certain point like if I end up being followed or feel unsafe.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 19:58:33 by anonymous

    The overall sense I get from these comments is that women who ask "what do you expect from catcalling" do not actually give any kind of a shit what the answer to that question is, and the catcallers know that and therefore see no point in answering it truthfully.

    The real question seems to be "why do both men and women always try as hard as they can to make communication between them worse?"

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 20:01:55 by anonymous

    I love catcalls when I'm on the catwalk, and I do my little turn on the catwalk, yeah. I'm too sexy for my shirt. Too sexy for my shirt. So sexy it hurts.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 20:02:15 by anonymous

    “The overall sense I get from these comments is that women who ask "what do you expect from catcalling" do not actually give any kind of a shit what the answer to that question is, and the catcallers know that and therefore see no point in answering it truthfully.

    The real question seems to be "why do both men and women always try as hard as they can to make communication between them worse?"”

    OR catcallers actually don’t have a real answer as to why they do it, but try to justify their behavior anyways even though it’s not something any decent human being would or should do.

  • Commented Sep 14, 2018 20:18:08 by anonymous

    “The overall sense I get from these comments is that women who ask "what do you expect from catcalling" do not actually give any kind of a shit what the answer to that question is, and the catcallers know that and therefore see no point in answering it truthfully.

    The real question seems to be "why do both men and women always try as hard as they can to make communication between them worse?"”

    No, I'm a commenter and I sincerely want to know what guys get out of catcalling. How does it benefit them? Or do they think it's somehow going to benefit us? What is the purpose of it?

  • Commented Sep 18, 2018 15:57:45 by anonymous

    When you're a guy, you catcall to have fun. Yeah, hard to imagine on a site dedicated to social misfits, but most guys do it for fun and have no expectation.

  • Commented Sep 18, 2018 16:17:43 by anonymous

    To answer your question, those guys have actually given up on being real. The best you can do is ignore them. A guy that is self-confident and genuine will not catcall because he wants a woman that is self-confident and respects herself. Of course, a woman that has those qualities would not respond to a catcall. Keep ignoring, there will always be ignorance in this world. Keep in mind some ladies do not get the attention you get and you should keep them in mind. They have different challenges to face. When you can, help one of them with a positive comment. We are interconnected. Help where you can and ignore ignorance. Good for you that you have a vibrant presence. Use it in a positive way. And, you are right, you should not need to clarify that you are not being provocative. The sign of our times that you felt you had to say that. Went women get to a place that they are equal to men our society will be so much better. I know this and I am a guy! The worse sign of our times is Trump and his feckless leadership. Only weak men would follow him.

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