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Unreasonable husband

Posted Aug 2, 2020 08:59 by anonymous
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  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 09:12 by anonymous

    Your husband is a child like you, any man I know would be happy to see his wife masturbate

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 09:26 by anonymous

    “Your husband is a child like you, any man I know would be happy to see his wife masturbate”

    Why would you call me a child? I'm not a child at 32 I'm just a woman who wants some alone time and not to be made to feel guilty for it.

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 09:33 by anonymous

    Give him a blowjob, all the way to completion in your mouth - just like the porn girlies do - he'll forget what he was angry about, I guarantee you.

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 09:35 by anonymous

    Wife is same when she is alone she masturbate with her toys. She will forget her toys are still out. I don't say anything but I got a hidden camera setup I love watching her masturbate. I didn't know she can be wild watching her I masturbated myself.

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 09:39 by anonymous

    Yes, he's being selfish. He should be happy that you know how to take good care of yourself. He should masturbate too and not feel guilty about it. Do not apologize. Tell him, "If you give me a hard time about this, I guarantee you will live to regret it."

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 09:40 by anonymous

    “Why would you call me a child? I'm not a child at 32 I'm just a woman who wants some alone time and not to be made to feel guilty for it.”

    Hes selfish , we all deserve our own time for some solo pleasure . I'm 55 and been married over 30 years but still enjoy my private time. He doesn't have a clue and I dont tell him .

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 09:41 by anonymous

    Bitch you got time to masturbate, you got time to fuck. Spread your legs you whore.

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 09:44 by anonymous

    “Yes, he's being selfish. He should be happy that you know how to take good care of yourself. He should masturbate too and not feel guilty about it. Do not apologize. Tell him, "If you give me a hard time about this, I guarantee you will live to regret it."”

    I agree, my husband goes fishing every Wednesday morning with our young son to give me a break he he knows I masturbate when they are gone and is ok with it he says everybody needs time alone.

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 09:54 by anonymous

    Love and sex are of course different but some men don't see it that way.
    If you want to spend the rest of your life hiding what's natural you're going to end up miserable and I suggest you keep looking for a man that understands you to not want a cheese burger for dinner for the rest of your life. Maybe you want a taco one night, or maybe you want a huge watermelon one night, and he's got to get over it because that's a sexual urge which is JUST SEX.

    Get a new man.

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 10:03 by anonymous

    I bet you turn him down for sex more often than you think. That is why he is mad.

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 10:06 by anonymous

    Women who get angry at their men for jerking off or watching porn occasionally have the same kind of selfishness problem.

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 10:08 by anonymous

    “I agree, my husband goes fishing every Wednesday morning with our young son to give me a break he he knows I masturbate when they are gone and is ok with it he says everybody needs time alone.”

    I'm 42 I wish my husband was as reasonable I have been sneaking in personal time for twelve years. My husband is very religious and calls fornication a sin. He is a beautiful man but for me this is non-existent negotiable.

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 10:18 by anonymous

    “I agree, my husband goes fishing every Wednesday morning with our young son to give me a break he he knows I masturbate when they are gone and is ok with it he says everybody needs time alone.”

    I feel lucky like you. My husband takes boys to baseball practice twice a week, he sinks gives me kiss and says enjoy yourself. I love him for this.

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 10:22 by anonymous

    Cut your husband off from sex until he watches you mastubate. "You can fuck me only after you sit quitely and watch me finger my pussy for ten minutes first."

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 10:46 by anonymous

    Tell him you want to be able to come when he is coming your mouth. You need your fingers for that. My husband and I do this sometimes. He strokes himself as I finger myself. We get our timing right and I madly suck the cum out of his beautiful cock right at the moment my pussy spasms in orgasm.

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 11:11 by anonymous

    He is being childish, have you ever cheated on him?

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 11:13 by anonymous

    You clearly aren't giving him enough sex, otherwise the matter would not have arien. You thinly veiled attempt at covering up that fact may have fooled other readers but your comment "it's not like we never have sex" is evidently telling. Clearly you had sex at least twice since you have two kids. He viewed your actions as selfish because since you are not engaging him in sex, he viewed your masturbatory session as selfish, which is exactly what it was.

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 11:18 by anonymous

    When older men masturbate it takes them longer to recover, but if your a woman you should be able to masturbate and give him sex and still get pleasure. Even so, you should be able to finger fuck yourself whenever you want to.

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 19:29 by anonymous

    My husband buys me my dildos and vibrators he takes the key da to his moms every Monday from 1 pm to 9 at night he says it's my time to myself.

  • Commented Aug 2, 2020 21:51 by anonymous

    I've been married 38 years and from my perspective it seems you are not telling the whole story. Your husband died not own you, but it sounds to me as though you tell him you don't feel like sex, yet he caught you. So you look like you are lying. It's not about your alone time, it's about you bring full of shit!

  • Commented Aug 3, 2020 00:56 by anonymous

    I bet he pulls his own cock, he's a hypocrite. He sounds controlling and child like. Find somebody new.

  • Commented Aug 3, 2020 01:33 by anonymous

    OP you are not responding so I guess it doesn't matter, but this is pretty simple really. You are coming across to him as preferring to play with your own pussy and not involve him. Did you try explaining what you wrote in here to him? Sounds like an unfortunate case of bad timing to me. Unless you really do prefer to finger fuck yourself than fuck him. That's a bigger issue.

  • Commented Aug 3, 2020 09:35 by anonymous

    Note the comments with the highest votes. Take heed, OP.

  • Commented Aug 3, 2020 13:59 by anonymous

    I would love to have caught you doing that- but I would have just stat and enjoyed watching you finish

  • Commented Aug 3, 2020 16:26 by anonymous

    what good are you to him then.

  • Commented Aug 3, 2020 16:33 by anonymous

    My husband acted like that before. So now I keep my private sex life a secret. I was just masturbating and watching gangbang porn. But he didn't like it so now.. I have sexual secrets.

  • Commented Aug 3, 2020 17:06 by anonymous

    My wife and I don't have a lot of sex anymore. We tend to fight about it, but nothing seems to work. She always waits for me to bring it up. Sometimes, i do and she's not in the mood. She has told me to take care of my problem myself. The other night we did have sex, and laying there naked, she admitted that she masturbates when she get's horny. I got mad, considering what had been going on between us. I still love her, and she claims to love me dearly. I know our lovemaking has lost all of it passion. She does not seem to want to get it back. She is not willing to try toys, do anything but vanilla sex. Her on her back, and me doing my thing on top of her. I am sure there are more married people out there who could comment on this.

  • Commented Aug 3, 2020 17:12 by anonymous

    “My wife and I don't have a lot of sex anymore. We tend to fight about it, but nothing seems to work. She always waits for me to bring it up. Sometimes, i do and she's not in the mood. She has told me to take care of my problem myself. The other night we did have sex, and laying there naked, she admitted that she masturbates when she get's horny. I got mad, considering what had been going on between us. I still love her, and she claims to love me dearly. I know our lovemaking has lost all of it passion. She does not seem to want to get it back. She is not willing to try toys, do anything but vanilla sex. Her on her back, and me doing my thing on top of her. I am sure there are more married people out there who could comment on this.”

    Probably the biggest sexual problem in marriage. No one likes to admit it, but its like food. Even your favorite food gets old, if that's all you get to eat. Men admit this more than women, but it isn't a gender specific problem. I am disappointed the OP is not following up on her original post.

  • Commented Aug 3, 2020 17:15 by anonymous

    “My husband acted like that before. So now I keep my private sex life a secret. I was just masturbating and watching gangbang porn. But he didn't like it so now.. I have sexual secrets. ”

    And we would love to hear them, please share. Wife secrets is such a hot topic!

  • Commented Aug 3, 2020 18:48 by anonymous

    You should be taking care of your husbands sexual needs. He's totally correct to be angry with you. There is nothing wrong with you wanting alone time and masturbating but refusing your husband's sexual advances is wrong.

  • Commented Aug 3, 2020 20:27 by anonymous

    I don't know but maybe he's mad because he didn't have sex? Did you expect him to be happy? The reason men get mad is because we have to tune out that little voice in our subconscious left over from the caveman days that says no need to ask just grab her by the hair and drag her into the cave. Actually if more guys did that the women wouldn't say no. My bad

  • Commented Aug 4, 2020 04:49 by anonymous

    “I bet he pulls his own cock, he's a hypocrite. He sounds controlling and child like. Find somebody new.”

    Of course he does, she refuses to touch him. If she took care of his needs, there wouldn't be an issue.

  • Commented Aug 5, 2020 12:08 by anonymous

    “OP you are not responding so I guess it doesn't matter, but this is pretty simple really. You are coming across to him as preferring to play with your own pussy and not involve him. Did you try explaining what you wrote in here to him? Sounds like an unfortunate case of bad timing to me. Unless you really do prefer to finger fuck yourself than fuck him. That's a bigger issue.”

    Update: we avoids each other for two days before we had a huge arguement. You were right he was angry that he thought I would rather masturbate than have sex with him. We had a frank discussion and I explained that it was not the case but that it is difficult for me to be relaxed because I spend all my time having demands out on me from children and him and it takes me time to switch off. I explained that sex on demand is not always enjoyable. We both cried and agreed to have a babysitter at least once every two weeks to spend time alone. He said he would continue to take the kids out so I could masturbate. I told him that don't just want time alone to masturbate every time I just want time without demands. We both got very emotional and ended having loving sex. I think we needed to get this out in the open. Thanks for all of your cooment.

  • Commented Aug 5, 2020 12:53 by anonymous

    “Update: we avoids each other for two days before we had a huge arguement. You were right he was angry that he thought I would rather masturbate than have sex with him. We had a frank discussion and I explained that it was not the case but that it is difficult for me to be relaxed because I spend all my time having demands out on me from children and him and it takes me time to switch off. I explained that sex on demand is not always enjoyable. We both cried and agreed to have a babysitter at least once every two weeks to spend time alone. He said he would continue to take the kids out so I could masturbate. I told him that don't just want time alone to masturbate every time I just want time without demands. We both got very emotional and ended having loving sex. I think we needed to get this out in the open. Thanks for all of your cooment.”

    Im glad for you, and thank you for taking the time to update. I like happy endings.

  • Commented Aug 15, 2020 02:00 by anonymous

    I also caught wife masturbating.

    I now sleep around, she is happy, and I am super happy.

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