I have been lending huge amounts of money time to time to a friend from 3 years ( because of his personal needs and expenses as he was out of job for few months and had issues with family.) I even went a step further and took a loan and gave some more money. Recently I got myself into financial crisis and still did not ask him to pay. I came to know from a mutual friend that his wife is saving up money and they are looking to buy a house.

How can they save money on one hand and use my money for their Loans(depriving me from investing my own money ). This totally broke my heart. He used me. Lesson learnt .