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The reality of changing from guy to girl.

Posted Oct 20, 2020 17:24 by Han2b
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  • Commented Oct 20, 2020 17:38 by Han2b

    Sorry if this offends anyone.

  • Commented Oct 20, 2020 17:58 by anonymous

    Fuck off you sick freak

  • Commented Oct 20, 2020 18:03 by anonymous

    I find #8 hard to believe. What kind of work do you do? I find it hard to believe that you now earn less in the same job. Your boss gave you a pay cut because of your surgery?

  • Commented Oct 20, 2020 18:07 by Han2b

    “I find #8 hard to believe. What kind of work do you do? I find it hard to believe that you now earn less in the same job. Your boss gave you a pay cut because of your surgery? ”

    I admit that the pay thing is just what I’ve heard from other people who have transitioned. I’m a student, so it hasn’t affected me...yet.

  • Commented Oct 20, 2020 18:17 by anonymous

    I'm 20 male and always wondered what life would be like if I were a woman. Having guys flirt with me instead
    of me hoping a girl wants to go out. Always wondered what sex felt like to women what it feels like when a
    woman has an orgasm. Pms the whole monthly cycle and pregnancy. It just looks like women have so much
    more fun with friends than guys do.

  • Commented Oct 20, 2020 18:21 by Han2b

    “I'm 20 male and always wondered what life would be like if I were a woman. Having guys flirt with me instead
    of me hoping a girl wants to go out. Always wondered what sex felt like to women what it feels like when a
    woman has an orgasm. Pms the whole monthly cycle and pregnancy. It just looks like women have so much
    more fun with friends than guys do. ”

    Having a cute guy flirt with me is definitely fun! Being asked out by the cute guy is a “YAY ME” moment.
    I haven’t had a big orgasm yet, so I can’t expla that. And since I don’t have a uterus, I can’t say anything about periods.

  • Commented Oct 20, 2020 22:35 by anonymous

    Please talk more about number 4.

  • Commented Oct 20, 2020 22:56 by Han2b

    “Please talk more about number 4.”

    The Real Life Test...It’s probably the hardest part, since it’s really when you have to figure out if you are capable and willing to live 24/7 as a woman.

  • Commented Oct 20, 2020 23:05 by anonymous

    gender dysphoria is real, the wage gap isn't

  • Commented Oct 20, 2020 23:08 by Han2b

    “gender dysphoria is real, the wage gap isn't”

    Obviously I agree about gender dysphoria... I’ll have to get back to you about the wage gap though.

  • Commented Oct 21, 2020 17:06 by anonymous

    Explain how ridiculous some of society is toward women

  • Commented Oct 21, 2020 17:22 by Han2b

    “Explain how ridiculous some of society is toward women

    Some guys talk down to you like you are stupid. Some of the fashion stuff is just silly. And some of us just play along with it because it’s easier than fighting it.

  • Commented Oct 21, 2020 17:27 by anonymous

    Society is ridiculous towards men in some ways.

  • Commented Oct 21, 2020 17:28 by anonymous

    Has your bf been able to, do everything with you that a man and woman can do?

  • Commented Oct 21, 2020 17:47 by anonymous

    “I find #8 hard to believe. What kind of work do you do? I find it hard to believe that you now earn less in the same job. Your boss gave you a pay cut because of your surgery? ”

    His 4) is also hard to believe. Women have it easier, it’s average men who play life on hard mode. He didn’t experience life as a woman but as a tranny degenerate and that isn’t the same.

  • Commented Oct 21, 2020 18:05 by anonymous

    I transitioned 3 years ago and it is hard work, a lot of pain and adjustment. But so much worth the effort, I find life so much better and easier as a female. As for earning less this is bullshit.

  • Commented Oct 21, 2020 22:47 by Han2b

    “Has your bf been able to, do everything with you that a man and woman can do? ”

    Not yet.

  • Commented Oct 21, 2020 22:49 by Han2b

    “I transitioned 3 years ago and it is hard work, a lot of pain and adjustment. But so much worth the effort, I find life so much better and easier as a female. As for earning less this is bullshit.”

    Awesome! I think it’s worth the effort too. Please don’t think I’m complaining, but pointing out the not so fun stuff that people aren’t really told before. I HOPE you are right about not earning less. :)

  • Commented Oct 23, 2020 17:59 by anonymous

    Another thing to consider is that you can't actually change your gender

  • Commented Oct 23, 2020 18:02 by anonymous

    “Another thing to consider is that you can't actually change your gender

    Well they can slice you up and install an artificial vagina.

  • Commented Oct 23, 2020 18:06 by anonymous

    If I could be a hot looking woman for a week I would play with myself for the first few hours. Then go out and
    be a total slut having sex with girls and guys.

  • Commented Oct 23, 2020 18:14 by anonymous

    You're not transitioning to anything. You will just be a disfigured male. You can change the plumbing, but you can't change nature. Find a good psychiatrist.

  • Commented Oct 23, 2020 19:02 by anonymous

    All my life I have been thin and Feminine and girls never wanted me and boys hit on me. So when I was 20 a man 35 asked me out and I said ok. It was a great night we had dinner and drinks at his house we did kiss but that was it that night. He called me the next day to tell me how much he liked seeing me and if he could see me again.

    I had never had sex with a man, and only was with 2 women in my life and one did not go good. The other was a much older women when I was 16 she was 48 a friends mom who did everything to me.

    So he wanted to make e dinner and we had sex and when he put his manhood inside me I knew this is what I wanted and what my body wanted. He and I became lovers and he was the one who got me to dress like a women and let my hair grow long. I started putting makeup on and he had me taking hormone pills. I was never a hairy person to start with, when I started going out like a women no one ever knew I was a man. After 3 years together I fond out he was seeing and fucking his ex girlfriend. So I ended things with Hm.

    He tried for months to get me back but I was done. One night I wanted to do something so I got dressed up and stop ta a club. Guys got me drinks and I could not tell you how many men walked by me and rubbed my ass. Then one man started talking to me and we ended up at his place. When he seen I had a dick he hit me aD called 2 of his friends over and they raped me over and over for over 7 hours. I could not walk for 3 days it hurt when I pooed.

    Thank god I got to meet the ice of my life and we have been together for 12 years and I live Ike a women

  • Commented Oct 23, 2020 19:12 by anonymous

    “You're not transitioning to anything. You will just be a disfigured male. You can change the plumbing, but you can't change nature. Find a good psychiatrist.”

    She can be whatever she wants she has the freedom to do that.

  • Commented Oct 23, 2020 19:13 by anonymous

    “She can be whatever she wants she has the freedom to do that. ”

    He

  • Commented Oct 23, 2020 19:14 by anonymous

    “Well they can slice you up and install an artificial vagina. ”

    That doesn't change anything but the appearance. The biology stays the same. It's sad that you don't see that.

  • Commented Oct 24, 2020 01:09 by Han2b

    “Another thing to consider is that you can't actually change your gender

    That’s funny, since according to the government I have. Your approval isn’t required.

  • Commented Oct 24, 2020 01:56 by Han2b

    “She can be whatever she wants she has the freedom to do that. ”

    Thank you

  • Commented Oct 24, 2020 16:54 by anonymous

    You'll make a wonderful woman, you have the whining down already

  • Commented Oct 24, 2020 23:37 by anonymous

    “That’s funny, since according to the government I have. Your approval isn’t required. ”

    Government also believes in god so....not exactly something worth trusting.

    And no, you dont need his approval. Just know that youre just giving into a dellusion and completely wrong. Other than that, stop lying :D

  • Commented Oct 25, 2020 00:04 by Han2b

    “You'll make a wonderful woman, you have the whining down already”

    I’ll take that as a compliment

  • Commented Oct 25, 2020 00:09 by Han2b

    “Government also believes in god so....not exactly something worth trusting.

    And no, you dont need his approval. Just know that youre just giving into a dellusion and completely wrong. Other than that, stop lying :D”

    A delusion? That I changed my sex? How about you read a medical journal sometime?

  • Commented Oct 25, 2020 00:14 by anonymous

    I would never think a woman is stupid just because she may not be educated on some particular subject. There are plenty of subjects I am not educated on, that doesn't make me stupid.

    Women can wear anything they want and no one says a thing about it. If a guy does that he is a freak.

  • Commented Oct 29, 2020 13:24 by Han2b

    “I would never think a woman is stupid just because she may not be educated on some particular subject. There are plenty of subjects I am not educated on, that doesn't make me stupid.

    Women can wear anything they want and no one says a thing about it. If a guy does that he is a freak.”

    Yes, we can wear anything we want. It’s definitely a perk!

  • Commented Oct 29, 2020 16:41 by anonymous

    “She can be whatever she wants she has the freedom to do that. ”

    You have a right to believe you are Papa Smurf, I have the right to think that you are delusional. Trannies aren’t the sex they hope to be. That’s wishful thinking only.

  • Commented Oct 29, 2020 17:17 by anonymous

    Just seems like so much trouble. If you aren't originally insane or neurotic about feeling you are the other sex, it seems neurotic to want to take on so much of a burden of surgery and hormones and discrimination for little gain. There could also be complications and risks for any surgery. It is masochistic in itself to put oneself through that. I've heard that some people are much happier afterwards, but life is so full of suffering and difficulties already, without adding all this to the list. I'm happy that I just happen to like being a heterosexual male and didn't have to go through all this. I certainly wouldn't want to discriminate against someone who does do this - they must have some pretty deep-seated reasons and feelings. But it does seem weird that anyone would put themselves through this. A woman presenting as a man would seems to be a lot less trouble but, of course, I don't know. I have sympathy for anyone who does this sort of thing but I don't think it really leads to happiness, which is elusive for all humans.

  • Commented Oct 29, 2020 20:12 by anonymous

    You can't change from guy to gal or gal to guy, you mentally ill fuck.

  • Commented Oct 29, 2020 23:18 by Han2b

    “Just seems like so much trouble. If you aren't originally insane or neurotic about feeling you are the other sex, it seems neurotic to want to take on so much of a burden of surgery and hormones and discrimination for little gain. There could also be complications and risks for any surgery. It is masochistic in itself to put oneself through that. I've heard that some people are much happier afterwards, but life is so full of suffering and difficulties already, without adding all this to the list. I'm happy that I just happen to like being a heterosexual male and didn't have to go through all this. I certainly wouldn't want to discriminate against someone who does do this - they must have some pretty deep-seated reasons and feelings. But it does seem weird that anyone would put themselves through this. A woman presenting as a man would seems to be a lot less trouble but, of course, I don't know. I have sympathy for anyone who does this sort of thing but I don't think it really leads to happiness, which is elusive for all humans.”

    That’s just it, to me, it was absolutely worth the trouble. The point of the post was to illustrate that it isn’t easy, and it shouldn’t be. For me, it was absolutely the right decision, and I am completely happy with how I look, how I feel, and how I get to live the rest of my life. For people who think you just decide to become a girl (or a boy), for whatever reason they might have, it’s meant as a reality check. Thank you for not being a judgmental jerk.,

  • Commented Oct 30, 2020 04:01 by anonymous

    Women make more money on OF than men.

  • Commented Oct 31, 2020 05:29 by anonymous

    “Obviously I agree about gender dysphoria... I’ll have to get back to you about the wage gap though. ”

    Can you say a little bit about gender dysphoria - how it feels, what you experience? Also, what about HRT? What are some of the changes you experienced?

  • Commented Oct 31, 2020 16:44 by Han2b

    “Can you say a little bit about gender dysphoria - how it feels, what you experience? Also, what about HRT? What are some of the changes you experienced?”

    For me, gender dysphoria was horrible. I woke up every morning feeling that my body wasn’t like it should be. I felt like a fraud trying to fit in as a male. HRT....The first changes were more of the emotional variety, like being happy one moment, and crying my eyes out the next...and not understanding why!

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