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The loneliest thing I have ever done is losing my virginity to a guy from tinder. My whole losing my virginity story reeks desperation.

Posted Mar 23, 2019 05:15 by anonymous
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  • Commented Jan 9, 2021 13:39 by anonymous

    You can improve your situation. But you did not provide enough information for me to say how. Your story is about losing your virginity, but the underlying issue is one of social isolation. Why are you socially isolated? Are you socially awkward? Do you not like your looks or your body's size and shape? Are you extremely shy? What is the root of your social isolation. Or do you have social interactions but they are just superficial? If you can address the social problem, a relationship will likely come along.

    I also suggest that you stop having sex with the Tinder guy. Even though he doesn't sound great, he is satisfying enough of your needs that you may not be looking as hard as you can for another alternative.

    Another thing to consider,is that finding someone is easier for women than for men. Finding someone perfect may be just as hard for women as for men, but finding someone better than the Tinder guy is much easier for women than for men.

    Finally, I wanted to comment about something you said. You said "...but I wonder why out of all the guys on tinder I got a guy who had no respect for my boundaries." It's a sex app, and I'm thinking that would be typical for someone that you find on Tinder. That's not to say that everyone would be like that, but I'm guess that probably 80% or more of the guys you find on there would probably not respect your boundaries. It's up to you to filter them out, and it's up to you to be more clear about saying no. But I think that you should be able to do better than this guy without too much effort.


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