So last night I tried to break up with my GF. She got hysterical, started crying and begging and for UNKNOWN reason I took it all back. She's asking me now if I want to go out tomorrow and I'm sitting here wondering what the hell is wrong with me.
Posted Nov 2, 2019 11:36 by anonymous
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I'm not the one for short titles.
So I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost 2 years. Couple of weeks ago I figured out that I got too bored and that we don't really have that many things in common. We then went out A LOT that week (i've no idea why, just one of those weeks) and I realized I felt suffocated, I needed some space. And decided to end it. I do love her and she's a really good person, but I just can't imagine being with her anymore and want something new.
Oh the last night was fun. I came prepared, told her why I want to breakup, and then all hell broke loose. She started crying, blaming herself like "what's wrong with me", telling me she will change, promising she won't do any things I complained about again... Retroactively I should've left there and then. But nah I stayed since I do have feelings for her and didnt want to leave her in that state. Sure, she calmed down at the end, but only when I said to forget about it and we'll talk some other time. Why the \*\*\*\* did I do that you're wondering? I have no f\*\*\*\*\* clue.
I got home at 2AM, woke up at 10AM the next day. Message was waiting for me from her: "do you want to go out tomorrow there's a really good Chinese place someone told me about"... Holy shit, literally one thing I don't want to do again is go out with her.
Honestly I thought I was mature enough to end this on good means. Guess I'm soft as \*\*\*\*. So there. Go ahead. Tell me how cringe this is and how stupid I look right now.
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Commented Jan 6, 2020 08:32 by anonymous
Give it a little time and see if you still feel that way, then be decisive and let her know. Don't yo-yo her around, be a man about it. You got this
Commented Jun 10, 2020 09:25 by anonymous
Go the Sam Kinison route. Start doing mountains of coke and then she'll leave you instead.
Commented Jul 7, 2020 07:41 by anonymous
Try dating someone from a family of personality disordered freaks. I dated a German Catholic girl and she was okish out of the bedroom but very very boring in the bedroom and because I'm from a upper middle-class family that is asset rich her mom didn't want me to split up with her daughter and literally offered to do the stuff I wanted sexually with her and stay her daughter's boyfriend. It worked for a while even my girlfriend liked the relationship but it dawned on me if I had kids with my girlfriend they would be blood relatives to incest freaks I would be the only one not actually being truly incestuous I didn't want my daughter's thinking sharing cock with mom was ok. I rode the relationship for all it was worth my exes mom was a fantastic German Catholic slut with no sexual boundaries but I didn't want to raise my future kids like that. Yes it's super cool having car trips when the girlfriend is driving and your fucking her mom in the arse on the backseat chatting like it's normal, face fucking your girlfriends mom to get you hard for normal sex with your girlfriend is hot, having your girlfriend boring wank you hard for her mom's exciting arse pussy and mouth is all fantastic when it's just you and them but the realization of knowing they are incest freaks hits hard when they start talking about marriage and kids. When I first tried splitting up her mom was convinced if she became more slutty I would come back to her daughter and it worked four or five times before I finally said enough was enough. The straw that broke the camel's back was when my girlfriends mother went to talk to my mom about keeping me and my girlfriend together and told my mom everything even showing her some of the homemade porn of her sharing my cock with her daughter. My mom is very controlled and let my exes mom tell all without freaking out and watched every second of the porn even letting my exes mom play with herself as she watches the porn then when I was alone with mom she put me straight and reminded me of how insane my relationship actually was. The most dangerous part of dating insane women actually is staying long enough to have kids with them THEY WILL ABUSE YOUR KIDS AS MUCH OR MORE THAN THEY ABUSE YOU GET RID OF THEM BEFORE THEY GET PREGNANT ON PURPOSE THEY ARE CHILD ABUSERS WITHOUT KIDS DONT GIVE THEM A CHILD TO ABUSE.
Commented Jul 7, 2020 11:50 by anonymous
tell her you want to watch her do your firneds and get her fucked by all of them
Commented Aug 20, 2020 18:20 by anonymous
Usually I just act like an asshole until they can't stand it anymore and they break up with me.
Commented Sep 1, 2020 06:04 by anonymous
I had a very clingy GF much like this. She would not go away, no matter how often I "broke up with" her. She would beg and plead, apologize for all her shit, go completely mental and threaten suicide, smash my shit, fuck up my car. So I did what I had to do... I called the police and had her committed. I then called her family and had them pickup all her shit from my place, changed all the locks, got a new cell number and even traded in my car and started parking on the other side of the building away from my apartment.
Commented Oct 17, 2020 10:50 by anonymous
Going through the same.thing basically when i try ans break up she wants to kill herself and shit threatning me then i take it all back and shes like notjint happened... basically im waiting for her to cheat on me so i can take that step and not feel guilty if she kills herself
Commented Apr 4, 2021 10:56 by anonymous
Research “Borderline Personality Disorder”
Commented Apr 4, 2021 10:58 by anonymous
Grow some balls and tell her it’s over. Otherwise you are going to be miserable as shit.
Commented Aug 20, 2021 08:44 by anonymous
I had a gf do the same thing to she would lie she was in love with me she a reminds of a cheating girl that is mentally not stable and will only stay with you till you have nothing to offer her if let's say for forbid I became sick she wouldn't even care about you don't worry he smart don't feel sad trust me she's a freak so don't let her make her believe she did stud now she's tucked make her do something very uncomfortable and smutty she just a hot if I know correctly
Commented Sep 8, 2021 02:06 by anonymous
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Commented Sep 8, 2021 03:19 by anonymous
Promising her to change afterwards is a little late, huh?
And that change is only short-lived, if she manages it again, she will fall back into the old pattern.
Time to move on!
Commented Jun 6, 2022 04:53 by anonymous
I went through the same process a few years ago. But she would sense what was coming and would just undress, get on her knees, and give me a fantastic blowjob. I stayed and realized that she wasn't so bad after all.