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Posted Aug 9, 2018 05:05:22 by anonymous
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  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 05:13:18 by anonymous

    Sorry you’re gong through this sir .. I know nobody ever plans to get into the forbidden lifestyle but circumstances tend to push people there ..

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 05:17:46 by anonymous

    What’s up brother, I understand how you will, and it’s not your fault, women are irrational.

    Try eating her pussy out, that’ll get her aroused and she’ll demand ur dick, don’t settle for just her sucking your dick, for most women it is a turn off. If that doesn’t work, then yeah, screw her, get a flesh light :D

    Best luck, remember, you are the chad, women go crazy for confidence and strong-will in a man, even when we fake the confidence.

    Peace bro

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 05:17:56 by anonymous

    MWM...AGE 63...I suspect that menopause has taken your wife's pussy
    away from you more than any other reason.
    It happened with my wife and myself...I have become quite fond of
    masturbation on a daily basis !!!

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 05:39:09 by anonymous

    Yep 61 here same thing here. I found another guy in the same boat as me. We started having gay sex and I love it as he dose to. It's way better than your hand. He has even started fucking me I love it.

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 05:47:08 by anonymous

    “Sorry you’re gong through this sir .. I know nobody ever plans to get into the forbidden lifestyle but circumstances tend to push people there .. ”

    Thank you. I suspect she has been asexual all along...

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 05:48:19 by anonymous

    Go and find a glory hole or a cruising place there are plenty of guys who would love to help you

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 05:53:41 by anonymous

    Time to go to the local Asian Massage parlor. Get yourself a cute little slant eyed honey to clean your tubes out 4times a month.
    You will be happiest guy on your block . !! I know I am ...

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 05:54:59 by anonymous

    My wife played the old bait and switch. Plenty of freaky sex before marriage, absolutely nothing since we said our vows over 2 years ago. Like you, I provide, and have never abused her. I've stopped even trying.women shouldn't be allowed to deny their husbands sex.

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 06:05:22 by anonymous

    Get yourself a side girl. My wife is going through some medical issues. So in turn we haven’t had sexual in over a year. I have a side girl. Cute. Young. Wife has no idea but men have to be men. And before anyone judges me my wife actually told me not long ago that she wouldn’t be mad at me if I went and got laid. She said just don’t fall in love

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 06:13:01 by anonymous

    This described my life to a T....and it SUCKS!!!!

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 06:35:12 by anonymous

    “My wife played the old bait and switch. Plenty of freaky sex before marriage, absolutely nothing since we said our vows over 2 years ago. Like you, I provide, and have never abused her. I've stopped even trying.women shouldn't be allowed to deny their husbands sex. ”

    This is the oldest trick in the women's playbook
    Find a nice stooge to marry me , and put him on ice after he days
    I DO. Knock his socks off before marriage with deep throat blow jobs, anal , and nut sucking . Then after they serve the wedding cake
    He is cut off . I feel sorry for you ,dude . Now you will be so ATM machine on 2legs until you find a way to get rid of her
    And don't ever marry again . Watch Al Bundy if you ever get that feeling

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 06:36:02 by anonymous

    Well said, im married 22 year and before we got married she was the horniest wee slut in Ireland now she is like a fucking nun, sex doesn't happen she will sit up and watch TV while go to bed knowing I start work at 5 am, so by the time she comes to bed in sound asleep, she NEVER once in or married life made sexual advances to me, I always had to make the first move.....I feel I have been lead into marriage on false pretences.

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 06:37:27 by anonymous

    “This described my life to a T....and it SUCKS!!!!”

    Sneak off to nudie bar a couple of times a week
    Should help

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 06:41:53 by anonymous

    “Well said, im married 22 year and before we got married she was the horniest wee slut in Ireland now she is like a fucking nun, sex doesn't happen she will sit up and watch TV while go to bed knowing I start work at 5 am, so by the time she comes to bed in sound asleep, she NEVER once in or married life made sexual advances to me, I always had to make the first move.....I feel I have been lead into marriage on false pretences.”

    You have !! , it's called giving you the freeze. Two choices
    Either dump her or
    Find out where nearest whore house is and life will be fun again
    You will be whistling U-2 songs and doing Irish jig again !!!

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 07:25:54 by anonymous

    “Yep 61 here same thing here. I found another guy in the same boat as me. We started having gay sex and I love it as he dose to. It's way better than your hand. He has even started fucking me I love it.”

    I know how you feel. After 35 years with the same woman sex is now nonexistent. Menopause definitely was the culprit. Many sexless years passed and I could no longer take it. I too found another guy on Craigslist that was looking for other guys. Somehow sex with another guy didn't seem like it would be cheating. We met and fucked each other. It was great, I had no idea that two guys could have this great sex together. Call me bi, fag or whatever but it is better than jacking off alone for ever.

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 08:13:49 by anonymous

    “I know how you feel. After 35 years with the same woman sex is now nonexistent. Menopause definitely was the culprit. Many sexless years passed and I could no longer take it. I too found another guy on Craigslist that was looking for other guys. Somehow sex with another guy didn't seem like it would be cheating. We met and fucked each other. It was great, I had no idea that two guys could have this great sex together. Call me bi, fag or whatever but it is better than jacking off alone for ever.”

    Instead of becoming an ass bandit , butt pirate which I came understand, why not find a desperate young honey that needs money for rent, food etc. Or go to local massage parlor and buy
    a hot young chick . I could never get that horny to want to plug or be plugged by a flaming fag

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 08:14:57 by anonymous

    “Instead of becoming an ass bandit , butt pirate which I came understand, why not find a desperate young honey that needs money for rent, food etc. Or go to local massage parlor and buy
    a hot young chick . I could never get that horny to want to plug or be plugged by a flaming fag”

    Typo , that was I can't understand being a butt pirate.

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 09:47:56 by anonymous

    Peri menopause woman here. I know many men like to blame menopause for their woman’s lack of desire but 85% of what makes a woman horney is going on in her head. Dryness is an issue but that’s what lube is for. Have you had a good talk with her about this? Have you talked honestly without the hostility? Truthfully most woman get bored with sex because they often get the same old-same old from their husbands. I went through a time where I would have rather done cleaning or gardening (I hate both) before having sex but it wasn’t for lack of wanting, I was bored out of my mind. Had a good long (several friggin months long) conversation with my husband about which direction our sex life needed to go in order to keep me stimulated. For us, it was a shift in dynamics. I had always been fairly submissive but seeing as I was getting the same old, that dynamic was impossible and I got bored not having my preference fulfilled. Finally, the hubby jumped on board and now things are great! Like I said, 85% is in her head. We don’t work the same way. A man can see a woman and get hornet, a woman needs her brain stimulated for that to happen. Maybe you are not doing that. Woman will ALWSYS love a man in charge (even if they don’t admit it) Msybe it’s time to grab her hair, bend her over the dining room table and fuck her senseless through her protests! Million bucks says she’ll love it! At this point...what do you have to lose? Good luck friend xo

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 09:53:17 by anonymous

    Oh and she could consider using an IUD, they help regulate her lacking hormones in menopause.

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 11:20:42 by anonymous

    “Peri menopause woman here. I know many men like to blame menopause for their woman’s lack of desire but 85% of what makes a woman horney is going on in her head. Dryness is an issue but that’s what lube is for. Have you had a good talk with her about this? Have you talked honestly without the hostility? Truthfully most woman get bored with sex because they often get the same old-same old from their husbands. I went through a time where I would have rather done cleaning or gardening (I hate both) before having sex but it wasn’t for lack of wanting, I was bored out of my mind. Had a good long (several friggin months long) conversation with my husband about which direction our sex life needed to go in order to keep me stimulated. For us, it was a shift in dynamics. I had always been fairly submissive but seeing as I was getting the same old, that dynamic was impossible and I got bored not having my preference fulfilled. Finally, the hubby jumped on board and now things are great! Like I said, 85% is in her head. We don’t work the same way. A man can see a woman and get hornet, a woman needs her brain stimulated for that to happen. Maybe you are not doing that. Woman will ALWSYS love a man in charge (even if they don’t admit it) Msybe it’s time to grab her hair, bend her over the dining room table and fuck her senseless through her protests! Million bucks says she’ll love it! At this point...what do you have to lose? Good luck friend xo”

    In this metoo movement a woman is telling you to sexually assult your wife. Women you can't have it both ways

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 11:30:07 by anonymous

    “My wife played the old bait and switch. Plenty of freaky sex before marriage, absolutely nothing since we said our vows over 2 years ago. Like you, I provide, and have never abused her. I've stopped even trying.women shouldn't be allowed to deny their husbands sex. ”

    While she is denying you, she has another guy she is fucking on the side (maybe several).

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 11:48:12 by anonymous

    “Peri menopause woman here. I know many men like to blame menopause for their woman’s lack of desire but 85% of what makes a woman horney is going on in her head. Dryness is an issue but that’s what lube is for. Have you had a good talk with her about this? Have you talked honestly without the hostility? Truthfully most woman get bored with sex because they often get the same old-same old from their husbands. I went through a time where I would have rather done cleaning or gardening (I hate both) before having sex but it wasn’t for lack of wanting, I was bored out of my mind. Had a good long (several friggin months long) conversation with my husband about which direction our sex life needed to go in order to keep me stimulated. For us, it was a shift in dynamics. I had always been fairly submissive but seeing as I was getting the same old, that dynamic was impossible and I got bored not having my preference fulfilled. Finally, the hubby jumped on board and now things are great! Like I said, 85% is in her head. We don’t work the same way. A man can see a woman and get hornet, a woman needs her brain stimulated for that to happen. Maybe you are not doing that. Woman will ALWSYS love a man in charge (even if they don’t admit it) Msybe it’s time to grab her hair, bend her over the dining room table and fuck her senseless through her protests! Million bucks says she’ll love it! At this point...what do you have to lose? Good luck friend xo”

    I would bang you so hard and deep your head would be bouncing off the headboard !!. Then I would shove it in your mouth so your tonsils would feel it . Then flip you back over for some anal action
    Then we could invite one of your girlfriend over for a hot 3way

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 11:48:54 by anonymous

    “While she is denying you, she has another guy she is fucking on the side (maybe several).”

    The hubby is always last to know

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 13:05:07 by anonymous

    Fucking A man

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 13:32:03 by anonymous

    The guy has to get himself together and find a good whore house
    on outskirts of town and visit every 2weeks

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 13:39:51 by anonymous

    “I would bang you so hard and deep your head would be bouncing off the headboard !!. Then I would shove it in your mouth so your tonsils would feel it . Then flip you back over for some anal action
    Then we could invite one of your girlfriend over for a hot 3way ”

    BBBOOOIIINNNGGG

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 19:40:59 by anonymous

    52 MM here. Glad to hear I’m not alone. After 24 yrs of marriage, Feels like I’m more intimate with my hand than the wife. Got tired of it and had a one night stand and got caught (not good at this sort of thing). When she asked why, Intold her because I wanted to feel like a man again. Now we’re considering a separation. Feel horrible but I’d rather be alone than in a sexless marriage.

  • Commented Aug 9, 2018 20:58:11 by anonymous

    “52 MM here. Glad to hear I’m not alone. After 24 yrs of marriage, Feels like I’m more intimate with my hand than the wife. Got tired of it and had a one night stand and got caught (not good at this sort of thing). When she asked why, Intold her because I wanted to feel like a man again. Now we’re considering a separation. Feel horrible but I’d rather be alone than in a sexless marriage. ”

    You already were alone , my friend.
    Good luck to you , everything will work out

  • Commented Aug 10, 2018 01:43:58 by anonymous

    “While she is denying you, she has another guy she is fucking on the side (maybe several).”

    I know for a fact she isn't cheating with anyone else. She just has no libido. I'm just pissed about the bait and switch routine.

  • Commented Aug 10, 2018 01:53:59 by anonymous

    “I know for a fact she isn't cheating with anyone else. She just has no libido. I'm just pissed about the bait and switch routine. ”

    Dude you don’t know she isn’t cheating, you hope she isn’t cheating. Well I was like you and it turns out the once a month sex with me for 15 years was because she was fucking other guys (many others). Don’t be me, wake up and move on if she doesn’t come around very soon.

  • Commented Aug 10, 2018 02:57:53 by anonymous

    “Peri menopause woman here. I know many men like to blame menopause for their woman’s lack of desire but 85% of what makes a woman horney is going on in her head. Dryness is an issue but that’s what lube is for. Have you had a good talk with her about this? Have you talked honestly without the hostility? Truthfully most woman get bored with sex because they often get the same old-same old from their husbands. I went through a time where I would have rather done cleaning or gardening (I hate both) before having sex but it wasn’t for lack of wanting, I was bored out of my mind. Had a good long (several friggin months long) conversation with my husband about which direction our sex life needed to go in order to keep me stimulated. For us, it was a shift in dynamics. I had always been fairly submissive but seeing as I was getting the same old, that dynamic was impossible and I got bored not having my preference fulfilled. Finally, the hubby jumped on board and now things are great! Like I said, 85% is in her head. We don’t work the same way. A man can see a woman and get hornet, a woman needs her brain stimulated for that to happen. Maybe you are not doing that. Woman will ALWSYS love a man in charge (even if they don’t admit it) Msybe it’s time to grab her hair, bend her over the dining room table and fuck her senseless through her protests! Million bucks says she’ll love it! At this point...what do you have to lose? Good luck friend xo”

    Thanks for your comment. You will understand that I am slightly confused.
    Are women the only ones who get bored? Do you think men don`t get bored with the same woman?
    Yet we don`t abscond. Here is an very real issue, should I follow your advice, I could very easily be accused of rape!
    Yes, married men do get accused of such things. It really is a no- win situation.

    In the back of my mind I have considered if she could have been a closet lesbian. However as mentioned earlier, I believe the most accurate description is asexual.

    Yes I have tried to engage in a discussion, however, she is simply does not want to hear what I say.
    If I push then I become the hard-hearted demanding oaf.

    The truth is women have society on their side. It does not matter that they have shifted the goal posts since tying the knot. The husband always comes out the loser!

    In honesty, it makes me feel less than the man I am supposed to be; but then again is that not what women want? To bring men down a notch?

    You say a woman wants a man who can take charge, yet women want to be equal?
    Well you can have it both ways!

    Now let me tell you lady-folk out there something.
    Men also want to be wanted.
    It is damn nice when another younger woman give you a second look or a compliment.

    Even King David in scripture stopped sleeping with his wife when she disrespected him. Go and read.
    She remained childless for the rest of her life. David would not touch her!

    Unlike David I don`t have other wives.
    So she can have her celibacy. I am done trying,
    Being lonely while in a relationship is really not good, my conscience is clear.

    The decline has been steady throughout the years. This is not a sudden thing.
    When we were just married we`d have sex twice a week.
    Then by year 2 it would be once a month.
    By the time we were married 12 years, she`d moved out of the bedroom because my snoring was too much she said. We then had sex perhaps twice a year.
    By the time we were married 20 years sex was once a year.

    I remember the first year there was no sex.
    When I informed here she was shocked. She argued that we had had sex, she was sure!
    No, we did not!

    Its been two years now. I am done.

  • Commented Aug 10, 2018 03:12:02 by anonymous

    I confronted my wife about her never engaging in sex. Asked her what I had to do to get some. She told me getting some help around the house would make her more friendly. Now I trade chores for sexual favors like a hand job, blow job, or fuck if I do some thing like wash the dishes, vacuum the rugs, or clean the toilet.

  • Commented Aug 10, 2018 03:27:47 by anonymous

    Unfortunately it is just a fact of life that sex loses its appeal and importance to a lot of woman later in life especially after they had kids. My wife did as well and despite being keen to try and keep things going including trips to the doctor and taking up yoga and reading about sex etc. it just didn't happen and I found myself just getting pity fucks from her.

    The arrangement we have now is, we have sex only when she instigates, about once every three months, which is typically quite passionate and very enjoyable. But I seek additional sex elsewhere.

    I was always curious about sex with another man and for the last 5 years I have become good friends with a guy of my age and we have sex 2 or 3 times a week.

  • Commented Aug 10, 2018 05:39:10 by anonymous

    She was still getting it. She was married to your pocket is all. Should have stayed with young pussy. Kept slaying it for the longest time and still can pull them in. Women want sex. But they prefer the dick that they compete for, not stuck with. I luckily found a wife later on that enjoyed me fucking other women because she knew that she’d be fuck craved hearing my escapades. When I got her pregnant, other women went batshit crazy for my dick, even my boss! But I was also in the military so that does make a difference.

  • Commented Aug 10, 2018 06:16:19 by anonymous

    “Unfortunately it is just a fact of life that sex loses its appeal and importance to a lot of woman later in life especially after they had kids. My wife did as well and despite being keen to try and keep things going including trips to the doctor and taking up yoga and reading about sex etc. it just didn't happen and I found myself just getting pity fucks from her.

    The arrangement we have now is, we have sex only when she instigates, about once every three months, which is typically quite passionate and very enjoyable. But I seek additional sex elsewhere.

    I was always curious about sex with another man and for the last 5 years I have become good friends with a guy of my age and we have sex 2 or 3 times a week.”

    Why sex with guys ? Maybe wife doesn't want sex because she always felt deep inside that you were a closet homo ?
    I don't care how horny I got , I would never turn into a fucking butt
    pirate !! No, way . And would wife ever have sex with you again
    if she knew you were a fudge packing homo ?? Couldn't you just go to local nudie bar ? You may have always been a closet ass bandit

  • Commented Aug 10, 2018 06:19:19 by anonymous

    “Why sex with guys ? Maybe wife doesn't want sex because she always felt deep inside that you were a closet homo ?
    I don't care how horny I got , I would never turn into a fucking butt
    pirate !! No, way . And would wife ever have sex with you again
    if she knew you were a fudge packing homo ?? Couldn't you just go to local nudie bar ? You may have always been a closet ass bandit”

    I think you have some deep seated issues.

  • Commented Aug 10, 2018 06:20:51 by anonymous

    “I confronted my wife about her never engaging in sex. Asked her what I had to do to get some. She told me getting some help around the house would make her more friendly. Now I trade chores for sexual favors like a hand job, blow job, or fuck if I do some thing like wash the dishes, vacuum the rugs, or clean the toilet.”

    So you are basically her maid . Driving Miss Daisy
    That is a humiliating situation.
    Time to start ducking out to local massage parlor 3or 4times a month, give her the toilet brush and vacuum back trade it for a piece
    of young , tender , pussy

  • Commented Aug 10, 2018 06:24:48 by anonymous

    “I think you have some deep seated issues.”

    He is having sex with guys, and I have issues ?
    Are you also a butt pirate fag ?

  • Commented Aug 10, 2018 08:28:39 by anonymous

    What is with a lot of these men on RC sharing cock with other men ?
    And rump wrangling homos ? If my wife / girlfriend stopped putting out the last thing I would do is pack another man's ass. Could you see if your neighbors or buddies on softball team found out you were a salami sucking flag? You would be a laughing stock of the century.

  • Commented Aug 10, 2018 08:38:26 by anonymous

    “I think you have some deep seated issues.”

    No , that guy doesn't have issues , loving a good piece of pussy
    is healthy and normal male behavior. Sucking and slurping another
    males ass and balls ? Now that is a person with issues and psychiatric problems . That person is a twisted freak.

  • Commented Aug 10, 2018 13:56:04 by anonymous

    Any man that lives in this situation and takes it is a sad excuse for a man .As Bob Dylan said " and except it and SOON you'll be drenched to the bone " ....A man picks up his gunny sack and hits the road , a wimp dies 1,000 deaths , a brave man just 1

  • Commented Aug 10, 2018 21:48:07 by anonymous

    Similar story. But she squirts like a fountain when she masturbates, always with me there. We talk dirty and she cums harder. I am not a player. She has a close friend that offered a dude to her. She declined but I don't like that dynamic one bit.

  • Commented Aug 11, 2018 09:39:15 by anonymous

    “52 MM here. Glad to hear I’m not alone. After 24 yrs of marriage, Feels like I’m more intimate with my hand than the wife. Got tired of it and had a one night stand and got caught (not good at this sort of thing). When she asked why, Intold her because I wanted to feel like a man again. Now we’re considering a separation. Feel horrible but I’d rather be alone than in a sexless marriage. ”

    Women plan well and are sneaky
    They look for real dumb guys like "Howdy Doddy "
    That they can trick into a marriage ,then they sock it to em
    Sex cut off
    Over spending
    No cooking , no cleaning
    Nothing they feel like doing , and the "stooge " finds himself doing
    everything she wants to do
    All of a sudden , he can't watch sports , drink , go out with buddies
    He loses who he is and become an extension of her
    Men in this situation would be better , leaving , getting own place ,
    a little doggie , and eventually finding a little honey to clean your tubes out 1-2 times a week

  • Commented Aug 11, 2018 20:42:39 by anonymous

    “No , that guy doesn't have issues , loving a good piece of pussy
    is healthy and normal male behavior. Sucking and slurping another
    males ass and balls ? Now that is a person with issues and psychiatric problems . That person is a twisted freak.”

    Thought everyone knew 2 men sucking each other's hairy ass hole
    was insane . They are called butt pirates for a reason
    In high school we would beat them up and throw them in the trash can. It was hilarious !!

  • Commented Aug 12, 2018 19:59:15 by anonymous

    Lol, I’m a woman who is “not like that as you put it,”. but that’s because I know better than to get married. To me, relationships just aren’t worth the time and effort, so I’ve been happy without that sort of structure.

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