My close friend is having an incredible struggle living right now. She has been for years. She has dips and stabilizes a little bit, then it’s another dip and she comes back but lower than before.

I know her depression isn’t something I can fix. But I’m uncomfortable with how obsessed I’ve become over finding her solutions.

Yesterday she spent the early morning into the late night manically going through and applying to job postings.

I’m trying my best to focus on me but as soon as I get home I can’t focus on anything else and feel guilt for going on about my own life.

I don’t want to shit talk her with our mutual friends but her anxiety over not having a job is all over the apartment.

I feel awful going home and I know she feels awful all of the time.

The last thing you do to someone experiencing depression is ditch them. I remember and know how it feels to be in that fog. But that doesn’t mean I’m good at being a friend to another person with depression.

Idk what to do