I understand priorities. of course it makes sense to spend time with your partner and make sure their partner is feeling satisfied and content with the relationship. If things are rocky, take some time to work on strengthening the relationship, even if it means you take some time away from friends in order to do so.

What I can’t understand is lying and being untruthful to your friends. We’ve been friends for a decade now, but it feels like I’m just starting to see this different side to him. It’s happened multiple times and I feel disrespected. He got a gf last year. Things are going great between them which is awesome.

This is just one of several instances. Our friend group scheduled to hang out last Monday, and he said he would come, and we even encouraged him to invite his gf so we can get to know her more. He said he’ll ask her, but afterwards he told us she got Covid last week and even though has no symptoms she probably shouldn’t go, and he probably won’t go either because he might be contagious. We respected his choice and the rest of us hung out that day. But when we got home later that day, the friend posted a picture on instagram of him and his gf on a date at the mall.

Your friends aren’t entitled to your time, if you would rather spend the day on a date with your girl, go for it. But don’t make it suspicious and lie to us about it. This fool has a history of always prioritizing his gf over his friends, and I just feel like it’s really getting to me. My other friends also feel the same way. What the hell man.