Me and my ex girlfriend have a loosely intertwined friend group, and are still somewhat friends but after we broke up she started dating a girl from her past, who has a lot of issues and had made Emily (the name I’ll give my ex) really upset in there previous relationship. I wanted to warn Emily about Julia (the name I’ll give my ex’s girlfriend) but I knew it wasn’t my place, even though I had gotten to know her and her past quite well when we dated, so I told a mutual friend who I am much closer with then Emily is, and she agreed that it both wasn’t my place and was a bad idea for them to date. So I just went on with my life until yesterday when I got a text from Freda (the name I’ll give to the mutual friend) saying that Emily was single, I feel really bad because Emily is really upset about the break up and even tho we are ex’s she’s still my friend and I do care about her but there is nothing I can do to make her feel better I can’t even text her and say I’m sorry because I only found out from Freda.

I don’t really know why I’m posting this here I just needed to talk about this somewhere and none of my friends want to here me talk about how I knew that my ex’s relationship was doomed and to be clear im not trying to be like ha I knew that would happen or that I could have warned her but she wouldn’t have listened I just Idk wanted to get it off my chest lol ig