As the title says. I made a report on a very inappropriate comment this person said towards me at work and normally I’d laugh it off but I was very uncomfortable and having a very bad day. We all sat in a room with supervisors and managers because it ranged on a sexual remark and was a very straight forward harassment comment. I go back and forth on if I made the right call because now some coworkers are treating me badly and I hate to be a tattle-tell but I was and am at my wits end with the matter. I had a falling out with a relationship that I had with a different coworker who I found out is with someone who is just trying to smear my name out of mania or envy or just malice. And he was friends with so called coworker I reported. I care for everyone at my work but now they probably just think I’m a snitch. But I could take the abuse anymore or very rude and painful comments. Usually I’d shrug them off but I’m now setting boundaries for myself. But now work is going to feel draining and this outside person with my ex is going to try everything he can try and turn it around on me. I’m just looking for advice on if I did the right thing or if I should have just been quiet. The harassing has been going on for nearly a year at my workplace and I’ve had enough. I have severe anxiety and am just tired of being walked on. My ex is also enabling the behavior because come to find out she enjoys the drama and unfortunately seeing me hurt. I loved and trusted this person but found out she was cheating on me so I broke it off. Come to find out she has NPD which I should have seen sooner but really cared for this person. So of course by calling her out, she has turned damn near everyone at my job to be against me. I am just very confused and my ex and her current bf are tormenting me either online or behind my back to my very close friends. I really do not know what to do.

Tl;dr reported a coworker for a very inappropriate comment which I don’t normally do that made me uncomfortable and now people are treating me like shit.