Commented Jan 19, 2018 18:26 by anonymous

Three weeks is a long time to stick with a New Years Resolution. I'm impressed!

Commented Jan 19, 2018 18:33 by JB

If you’re going to dump her because of her body you clearly don’t love her

Commented Jan 19, 2018 18:50 by anonymous

You're only interested in what she looks like , you're not interested in her . You selfish cunt .

Commented Jan 19, 2018 18:53 by anonymous

Kick her to the curb now! There's no reason to be dating a fat hawg! Too many women think once they have a lock on you, it's time to pork-out.

Commented Jan 19, 2018 19:11 by anonymous

Dump her fucking fat ass to the curb. She has to be self-motivated and the only thing she wants to do is eat like a pig. Time for the porker to go!

Commented Jan 19, 2018 19:12 by anonymous

So you go to the gym and she tried to go to please you. Big deal. I bet you could use development in your career and personality as well as other neglected areas of your life.

Commented Jan 19, 2018 19:25 by anonymous

Women only go to the gym when they want to get fucked (married or over 40) or they are trying to get a man with money who wants to fuck them (20 to 40)...thats it...yes sure there are exceptions but those 2 are the reason for 90% of women who go to the gym. I go to the gym very often and no I wont get to fuck girls in their 20s because Im not looking for a relationship and they are...women over 35 or 40... yes I have fucked 4! because they are looking to get fucked

Commented Jan 19, 2018 22:32 by anonymous

Become her feeder. Make her eat until she gains 100 pounds.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 00:01 by anonymous

“You're only interested in what she looks like , you're not interested in her . You selfish cunt .”

I am interested in her, and having sex with her. If I am not attracted to her how can this relationship last? You are judging me without even knowing me. Check your attitude.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 00:02 by anonymous

“If you’re going to dump her because of her body you clearly don’t love her”

I do love her, but it is hard to be attracted to her sexually and I really don't think I am being unreasonable by asking her to keep her commitment.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 00:03 by anonymous

“Kick her to the curb now! There's no reason to be dating a fat hawg! Too many women think once they have a lock on you, it's time to pork-out. ”

I have offered to work out with her, help her with meal prep, I really think I am going above and beyond here. She promised she would be to 115 by Valentine's day but I just don't see how she is going to make that happen at this rate. I am so discouraged.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 00:04 by anonymous

“So you go to the gym and she tried to go to please you. Big deal. I bet you could use development in your career and personality as well as other neglected areas of your life.”

You clearly don't know me at all. I am a type A personality. I never give up and work really hard to be successful in all areas of my life. I am not asking her to be like me, but to keep her commitment to me.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 00:06 by anonymous

“Women only go to the gym when they want to get fucked (married or over 40) or they are trying to get a man with money who wants to fuck them (20 to 40)...thats it...yes sure there are exceptions but those 2 are the reason for 90% of women who go to the gym. I go to the gym very often and no I wont get to fuck girls in their 20s because Im not looking for a relationship and they are...women over 35 or 40... yes I have fucked 4! because they are looking to get fucked”

I make a very good living, but I don't think she is a gold digger. She is a good person but makes about 40K a year, so she could support herself if she had to. But I think she does like the benefits of living with a guy who pays for everything so that her money can be used however she wants. The main issue here is that she promised to do something and is renegging on that promise and I find myself having trouble being attracted to her because of the obvious weight gain.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 00:07 by anonymous

“Become her feeder. Make her eat until she gains 100 pounds.”

That made my stomach lurch. Disgusting.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 00:25 by anonymous

“You clearly don't know me at all. I am a type A personality. I never give up and work really hard to be successful in all areas of my life. I am not asking her to be like me, but to keep her commitment to me. ”

OK - but here are some other characteristics. You're also critical, unyielding, and feel you are always right. You look for relationships in which you are the teacher and the other person is the student who needs to be fixed. And your relationships will fall apart because the other person doesn't meet what you see as your high standards. Your life will be happier when you find someone who is your equal and you accept her as she is.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 07:45 by anonymous

“OK - but here are some other characteristics. You're also critical, unyielding, and feel you are always right. You look for relationships in which you are the teacher and the other person is the student who needs to be fixed. And your relationships will fall apart because the other person doesn't meet what you see as your high standards. Your life will be happier when you find someone who is your equal and you accept her as she is.”

You are actually pretty right about me. I do have high standards. Not sure about the teacher part or needing people who need to be fixed. When she and I first started dating she was smoking hot, but has let herself go. I just want her to get back to having enough respect for herself and me to be in shape. I am thinking more and more though that you are right about me finding someone who is more my equal and isn't going to slack off and be content with mediocrity.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 07:48 by anonymous

“I am interested in her, and having sex with her. If I am not attracted to her how can this relationship last? You are judging me without even knowing me. Check your attitude. ”

Fuck off , you are just selfish. A number one cunt.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 08:56 by anonymous

Women need to wise up. They are going to all end up old and alone if they don't keep themselves looking good for us. No self respecting man needs to settle for a fat fuck. There is too much hot younger in shape pussy to be had.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 15:52 by anonymous

I absolutely refuse to put up with a lazy girlfriend. Make sure from the start that she is a high achiever. It also helps if she is vain. A vain woman will not let herself get fat. Dump the current loser and get yourself an upgrade. You deserve better.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 15:57 by TheCajunPhoenix

Your GF deserves better than a disgusting body-shamer like you!

Commented Jan 20, 2018 16:00 by TheCajunPhoenix

“Women need to wise up. They are going to all end up old and alone if they don't keep themselves looking good for us. No self respecting man needs to settle for a fat fuck. There is too much hot younger in shape pussy to be had. ”

Fuck you and you body-shaming attitude!

It is not my job to be a perfect doll for assholes like you to use and abuse as they see fit!

We women, myself included, deserve to be treated with dignity and respect no matter how much we weigh!

Your negative body-shaming attitude guarantees that you will never have a real relationship with a woman!

Commented Jan 20, 2018 16:02 by TheCajunPhoenix

“I do love her, but it is hard to be attracted to her sexually and I really don't think I am being unreasonable by asking her to keep her commitment. ”

The 'but' undercuts your protest and reveals that you only value your GF as a sexual object and not as a person.

If you really loved your GF, you wouldn't make her feel like she is not sexually attractive for you just because she doesn't like going to the gym.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 16:05 by TheCajunPhoenix

“OK - but here are some other characteristics. You're also critical, unyielding, and feel you are always right. You look for relationships in which you are the teacher and the other person is the student who needs to be fixed. And your relationships will fall apart because the other person doesn't meet what you see as your high standards. Your life will be happier when you find someone who is your equal and you accept her as she is.”

That's the OP's problem. He won't find a woman who is his equal because no woman will ever measure up to his unreasonable and impossible standards.

And no self-respecting woman, myself included, wants to be subjected to that.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 17:37 by anonymous

“Fuck you and you body-shaming attitude!

It is not my job to be a perfect doll for assholes like you to use and abuse as they see fit!

We women, myself included, deserve to be treated with dignity and respect no matter how much we weigh!

Your negative body-shaming attitude guarantees that you will never have a real relationship with a woman!”

Good thing its not your job, cause you completely suck at it.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 21:53 by anonymous

“The 'but' undercuts your protest and reveals that you only value your GF as a sexual object and not as a person.

If you really loved your GF, you wouldn't make her feel like she is not sexually attractive for you just because she doesn't like going to the gym.”

It's not all or none you know. I can love her and not be sexually attracted to her because she is getting fat. Sexual attraction and love are two different things. I suppose you would rather I stay with her because I lover her and then fuck some hotter chick on the side? I think it is better to break up with her than cheat on her.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 21:54 by anonymous

“That's the OP's problem. He won't find a woman who is his equal because no woman will ever measure up to his unreasonable and impossible standards.

And no self-respecting woman, myself included, wants to be subjected to that.”

You are wrong Cajun Phoenix. I know lots of women who are highly driven, motivated and in shape. He will absolutely find a woman whose ideals and goals match his own.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 22:16 by anonymous

Dude, move on. She obviously doesn't value you. How long are you gonna put up with her bullshit? Seriously. Either give her 30 days to get her ass in gear or get her ass out. You've wasted enough time.

Commented Jan 20, 2018 23:57 by JB

“It's not all or none you know. I can love her and not be sexually attracted to her because she is getting fat. Sexual attraction and love are two different things. I suppose you would rather I stay with her because I lover her and then fuck some hotter chick on the side? I think it is better to break up with her than cheat on her. ”

If you love someone like really really love them you will be sexually attracted to them no matter what. And for the people out there saying girls need to look good what about you half of the men above 30-40 are bald fat and ugly so shut the fuck up!

Commented Jan 21, 2018 00:10 by anonymous

if you love her you would not push her to go to a gym. a gym is for wimps love her for who she is not her weight. you are fat shaming the poor woman grow up and be a man not a fucking pussy that goes to a gym and then she slows down you want to get rid of her.

Commented Jan 21, 2018 00:28 by anonymous

“I make a very good living, but I don't think she is a gold digger. She is a good person but makes about 40K a year, so she could support herself if she had to. But I think she does like the benefits of living with a guy who pays for everything so that her money can be used however she wants. The main issue here is that she promised to do something and is renegging on that promise and I find myself having trouble being attracted to her because of the obvious weight gain. ”

You need to kick her to the curb ... She's going to pork-out and you'll be known as a "Hawg-Rider!

Commented Jan 21, 2018 00:32 by anonymous

“Fuck you and you body-shaming attitude!

It is not my job to be a perfect doll for assholes like you to use and abuse as they see fit!

We women, myself included, deserve to be treated with dignity and respect no matter how much we weigh!

Your negative body-shaming attitude guarantees that you will never have a real relationship with a woman!”

The fat-ass "Queen of the Hawgs" is back! rotflmao! Sooowee! ... Soooowee!~ ... Look at me, I'm obese and I'm beautiful! rotflmao!

Commented Jan 21, 2018 00:44 by anonymous

“If you love someone like really really love them you will be sexually attracted to them no matter what. And for the people out there saying girls need to look good what about you half of the men above 30-40 are bald fat and ugly so shut the fuck up! ”

What bizarre fantasy world are you living in. This is not a romance novel, this is real life. Part of the reason we fall in love is physical attraction. What are you, a 12 year old idealist with no life experience?

Commented Jan 21, 2018 00:47 by anonymous

“if you love her you would not push her to go to a gym. a gym is for wimps love her for who she is not her weight. you are fat shaming the poor woman grow up and be a man not a fucking pussy that goes to a gym and then she slows down you want to get rid of her.”

Spoken like a real fat Hawg! Gee, women who are obese are beautiful! rotlfmao! ... Go eat another big bowl of ice cream!

Commented Jan 21, 2018 00:49 by anonymous

The fatter she gets, the more she'll stink ... Fat women can't reach every part of their body to wash it.

Commented Jan 21, 2018 00:52 by anonymous

I'd be embarrassed to be seen in public with a fat woman!

Commented Jan 21, 2018 01:02 by anonymous

Make damn sure you don't get her pregnant! ... Even if she says she' on the pill, use a condom! You're in a classic situation where she's going to try and trap your ass by getting knocked up! ... Then, she'll really pork out and she'll keep on porking out until she's the size of an elephant!

Commented Jan 21, 2018 10:32 by anonymous

“I'd be embarrassed to be seen in public with a fat woman! ”

I am embarassed to be seen with her. I find it disrespectful to me that she doesn't care about the image we portray as a couple.

Commented Jan 21, 2018 10:33 by anonymous

“Make damn sure you don't get her pregnant! ... Even if she says she' on the pill, use a condom! You're in a classic situation where she's going to try and trap your ass by getting knocked up! ... Then, she'll really pork out and she'll keep on porking out until she's the size of an elephant! ”

I don't think she will try to do that. But good to be aware of.

Commented Jan 21, 2018 10:34 by anonymous

“I am embarassed to be seen with her. I find it disrespectful to me that she doesn't care about the image we portray as a couple. ”

You know what they say about fat women and mopeds. They're both fun to ride until your friends see you.

Commented Jan 23, 2018 19:27 by anonymous

You've already lost her, dude.
She's already fucking a guy who likes her for her, makes her feel beautiful, and probably makes more money than you.. and you're too stupid to figure that out. Good for her. We don't need people like you procreating.