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I’ve been dating this guy for 3 years, but for some reason I only get horny and crave having sex with my ex-bf than my actual bf. I rarely ever have sex with my bf because I don’t get as aroused having sex with him than I did with my ex.

Posted Feb 4, 2019 19:27 by anonymous
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  • Commented Jun 20, 2019 11:16 by anonymous

    Sounds like you need to fuck your ex and see if it is still the same.

  • Commented Sep 15, 2019 20:03 by anonymous

    Why are you with him then, once a week should be the minimum to have sex.
    If you have to be begged to give it up then he's gonna find another just as surely as your talking to your ex seems so normal to you.

  • Commented Oct 21, 2019 04:23 by anonymous

    cheating sucks

  • Commented Nov 30, 2019 10:04 by anonymous

    the sex with the ex can be at least from two things:
    he may have the pheremone chemicals that add to your arousal, and your current bf doesn't.... if that is the case, your bf needs to bring excitement in other ways.
    also your ex may have an attitude and technique that works better for you...
    was he dominant and rough !? was he gentle, what !? write it down for yourself.... once you figure out what ex did that bf can do, you can tell your bf.
    "help me forget my bf by doing this more"

    accept that this may not get worked out, so you can be surprised and happy if it does, and not depressed if you have to end a relationship because the 'chemistry' isn't there.

    if you were a person for whom kindness, support and stability were enough, then the chemistry issue wouldn't be an issue

    but it is

  • Commented Mar 12, 2020 04:51 by anonymous

    Another fat slob loser trolling.

  • Commented Apr 18, 2020 13:27 by anonymous

    After separating from my ex wife, it was difficult for me to get hard when I was with new girlfriends. I would picture my ex to get hard and just think about her during sex. I accidentally called out my ex's name once but the girl I was fucking didn't notice.

  • Commented May 13, 2020 15:32 by Raphael Michaels

    Stop having sex with your bf and ex. Your bf is conquered so jes not a challenge...hes boring to you. Your ex seems to be the opposite. Either way stop having sex with them. Its sin and youre wasting yours and there time.

  • Commented May 28, 2020 01:31 by lillyanna12202

    “cheating sucks”

    communication rules just open your mouth and let the words out

  • Commented Jun 27, 2020 02:02 by anonymous

    It sounds to me like you are using your current boyfriend for something. Does he have money or give you things? Why would you stay with him when you are not attracted to him?

  • Commented Jul 1, 2020 23:54 by anonymous

    My wife had a lover for 3.5 years and couldn't wait to get into bed with him. They did everything you would see in a porno movie but that all finished some years ago and now my wife refuses to have sex with me ?

  • Commented Jul 16, 2020 00:35 by newday55

    “My wife had a lover for 3.5 years and couldn't wait to get into bed with him. They did everything you would see in a porno movie but that all finished some years ago and now my wife refuses to have sex with me ? ”

    I know what your saying 'cause I can relate. Wife even fell in love with a guy she met at a swinger's club. She also had the hots for at least a couple other exes. When I put a stop to it all there was nothing left for me. Some women just naturally give the best part of their lives to others and have nothing left to give their supposed life partner. And wonder why we look for an exit.

  • Commented Aug 11, 2020 15:18 by anonymous

    “My wife had a lover for 3.5 years and couldn't wait to get into bed with him. They did everything you would see in a porno movie but that all finished some years ago and now my wife refuses to have sex with me ? ”

    Congrats eh!

  • Commented Sep 10, 2020 09:39 by anonymous

    If your current boyfriend feels more like a friend, and not a lover, then let him down easy and move on.

  • Commented Nov 14, 2020 01:47 by anonymous

    You sound like you are not a good person to be in a relationship with. The problem is with you, not with your boyfriend.

    People often lose the initial attraction that they have in a relationship. Some people are able to find ways to get the relationship to sustain, and others can't. Your ex is your ex for a reason. Just leave your boyfriend and go back to your ex and let us know how that works out.

    Life is not like a greatest hits album. You pick one person to be in a relationship with at a time. You can't have one person for companionship and another person for sex. So cut the boyfriend loose, and when you have grown up, then try to find a good relationship.

  • Commented Dec 19, 2020 21:45 by anonymous

    You're a slut. Your current BF should dump you.

  • Commented Dec 20, 2020 10:09 by anonymous

    Had a bf I loved break up with me for a few months. I got with another guy and his dick was amazingly similar and would have sex with him just to imagine it was my old bf. only thing was the new guy came way to fast to make me orgasm.

  • Commented Apr 22, 2021 09:30 by anonymous

    My gf isn't into sex either, and for a year my begging just got worse, and for a bit I was worried we'd break up over it. I suggested I go into locked chastity so that it would be up to her to initiate anything. That was 6 yrs ago. I usually only wear the cock cage when I go out without her, but even though I'd fuck a cactus right now, our sexual tension has been redirected, and I'm enjoying less stress, less worry about our sexuality. I know she's slept with other men since I got locked up, and I know I am not like other men. but I also know she's not leaving me for cock.

  • Commented Apr 24, 2021 20:25 by anonymous

    “Stop having sex with your bf and ex. Your bf is conquered so jes not a challenge...hes boring to you. Your ex seems to be the opposite. Either way stop having sex with them. Its sin and youre wasting yours and there time.”

    Must be a Christian or other religious nut crying that sex is a sin.

  • Commented Apr 26, 2021 00:27 by anonymous

    F 22. I had a weird situation with Chrissy a girlfriend of mine. She missed getting a good fucking from her EX. She liked when he'd mouth fucked her and came on her face. She made a plan for me to cover for her while she told her Robin her now boyfriend that she was going to see her mom who lived 2 hours away and she might sleepover. I was supposed to go and watch Netflix with her boyfriend. This happened for 3 months then her boyfriend and I started fucking. It was a cool relationship. Chrissy would go fuck her Ex I'd go over and fuck her boyfriend. He said I gave way better blowjobs than his girlfriend and I even swallowed for him. We fucked so good that her boyfriend finally would say to Amber isn't it time to go see your mom for the month. Chrissy says yeah ok I'll see if Amber will come over and watch Netflix. I'd played it up really good. I'd pretend to hum and haw. Chrissy would say please, please come over to see Robin. She'd leave get her slut fucking froom her Ex and I'd get to fuck her boyfriend.


  • Commented Jun 12, 2021 09:54 by anonymous

    u should tell our current boyfriend how u are feeling maybe u all could get together and try having 3sum if our boyfriend is anything like mine he will be up for it aswell it was the best thing that happened to me plus I get to suck on both of there cocks and I love get fucked in both holes at same time by them

  • Commented Jun 12, 2021 10:00 by anonymous

    ..just another example of the grass is always greener. and girls can never have enough shoes.

  • Commented Jul 13, 2021 01:05 by anonymous

    It makes since, I still have ex-girlfriends come to get a good mean dick. Because their current nice husband material boyfriends can't lay it right.

  • Commented Jul 21, 2021 23:18 by anonymous

    It's really hard when i broke up with my cheating EX.I usually like to be a happy go lucky person,but after that day my life seemed over.I remain silent,less interested in any of the things around me,but realizing that he wasn't even worthy of my love still gave me the strength to move on.after going through hard times with his cheats and lies,feeling sometimes that i was wrongly accusing my man.thankfully my friend gave me contact to a reliable hacker who helped me hack his phone and exposed all that he has been doing behind me,this hacker gave me access to all his phone activities without touching his phone,only then was my doubt cleared, and i was able to strengthen up and move on...If your partners commitment is really in doubt,just contact' [email protected] gmail . c o m' or text on WhatsApp + 1 484 540 - 0785. ,he is a legit hacker..There should be No reason to cheat,be it emotional or what-so-ever.

  • Commented Jul 23, 2021 06:19 by anonymous

    I had an ex that would just show up some nights and I could never say no to him. He had some sexual control over me. Had sex with him when single, dating and engaged. Last time we had sex was about 2 weeks before my wedding and the only reason I probably stopped is because he pretty much ghosted me. I think he did that for my sake but it’s been 3 years and I think of him almost every time I have sex with my husband.

  • Commented Jul 23, 2021 06:27 by anonymous

    I'm engaged to be married in two more weeks. My fiance owns a thriving business. We've been dating for four years. My ex before him was a lazy bum but in bed he would totally rock my world. I would have never broken up with him if he would have worked steady and stopped fucking around on me.
    Over the years I have hooked up with him weekly for bootie calls. His big dick is like a drug and I can't and don't want to give it up. He lives with a woman now, she is like I was, crazy about him and has no idea he screws around. I didn't known he messed around for the first couple years.
    I told him once I'm married I have to be more than extra careful so we don't get caught.

  • Commented Jul 23, 2021 06:35 by anonymous

    “I had an ex that would just show up some nights and I could never say no to him. He had some sexual control over me. Had sex with him when single, dating and engaged. Last time we had sex was about 2 weeks before my wedding and the only reason I probably stopped is because he pretty much ghosted me. I think he did that for my sake but it’s been 3 years and I think of him almost every time I have sex with my husband. ”

    That's hot! You should look him up. ;) Have you cheated with other guys since you've been married?

  • Commented Jul 23, 2021 06:39 by anonymous

    “I'm engaged to be married in two more weeks. My fiance owns a thriving business. We've been dating for four years. My ex before him was a lazy bum but in bed he would totally rock my world. I would have never broken up with him if he would have worked steady and stopped fucking around on me.
    Over the years I have hooked up with him weekly for bootie calls. His big dick is like a drug and I can't and don't want to give it up. He lives with a woman now, she is like I was, crazy about him and has no idea he screws around. I didn't known he messed around for the first couple years.
    I told him once I'm married I have to be more than extra careful so we don't get caught. ”

    Nice! Do you enjoy being the other woman? Where do you fuck him--I assume you both live with partners. Gonna try to do him on your wedding day? LOL

  • Commented Jul 24, 2021 06:10 by anonymous

    “I'm engaged to be married in two more weeks. My fiance owns a thriving business. We've been dating for four years. My ex before him was a lazy bum but in bed he would totally rock my world. I would have never broken up with him if he would have worked steady and stopped fucking around on me.
    Over the years I have hooked up with him weekly for bootie calls. His big dick is like a drug and I can't and don't want to give it up. He lives with a woman now, she is like I was, crazy about him and has no idea he screws around. I didn't known he messed around for the first couple years.
    I told him once I'm married I have to be more than extra careful so we don't get caught. ”

    Hot! Have you cheated with other guys too?

  • Commented Sep 27, 2021 10:21 by anonymous

    “My wife had a lover for 3.5 years and couldn't wait to get into bed with him. They did everything you would see in a porno movie but that all finished some years ago and now my wife refuses to have sex with me ? ”

    Nigga you’se a bitch. Leave that hoe and stop being a bitch.

  • Commented Sep 27, 2021 10:24 by anonymous

    “My gf isn't into sex either, and for a year my begging just got worse, and for a bit I was worried we'd break up over it. I suggested I go into locked chastity so that it would be up to her to initiate anything. That was 6 yrs ago. I usually only wear the cock cage when I go out without her, but even though I'd fuck a cactus right now, our sexual tension has been redirected, and I'm enjoying less stress, less worry about our sexuality. I know she's slept with other men since I got locked up, and I know I am not like other men. but I also know she's not leaving me for cock.”

    You’re also a bitch nigga. What is with you dumbass beta males letting these hoes ruin you. For fucks sake. If the bitch aint giving then fuck that hoe.

  • Commented Nov 9, 2021 16:06 by anonymous

    My ex fiance was cheating on me but I had no proof and I felt crazy and paranoid at that time, I even felt I was losing my mind. I needed closure badly and I hired  {[email protected] l. c o m} although it's unethical and it's something I had to do. just tell him i sent you... Though I am not proud of what I did but I had no choice, I was almost driven to the brink of suicide , he can also  improve dept on credit cards..you can also call or text him on  617 402 2260

  • Commented Nov 13, 2021 15:10 by anonymous

    For one thing, your ex is your ex for a reason. He is a ex! If you see him out, just say hi if you have too, that's it. No being friends, no nothing else..... nothing more than that..

    Second,,, your current bf isn't cutting it for you, tell him. Either he change, show more interest, or move on, find someone else that can hold your interest.
    Find your happiness, find your satisfaction.

  • Commented Dec 6, 2021 10:14 by anonymous

    I was the nice guy in this for 17 years. My Ex-Wife stopped having sex with me and it would be infrequent when we would have sex (twice more than a year). I stayed because I loved her for the first 10. Then I stayed for the kids. Then I took the kids and divorced her.

    I now make 6 figures, have full custody of my kids, and her last spousal support payment is this next June. I get a 4k payraise when I'm done paying her spousal support. She's fucked in 6 months.

    Meanwhile, I became a dominant sexual partner because of the emasculation i suffered from. If I can't throat fuck my gf, tie her up and flog her ass till its pink, or pull her hair and choke the shit out of her while we're fucking..then I'm not dating.

    So do yourself and him favor. You are emasculating him, and that is mental and emotional abuse. YOU ARE THE ABUSER!

    Break up with him, otherwise, when karma come back around he won't have any sympathy for you. My ex is fucked in 6 months, and other than the feelings of guilt for my kids. I can't wait to watch this train-wreck.

  • Commented Mar 9, 2022 07:58 by anonymous

    So you’re dating someone but fking your ex? You’re a total piece of shit that should have her teeth kicked. Sluts like you make getting into a relationship just not worth.

  • Commented May 23, 2022 11:52 by anonymous

    Cuckold him then? Cuckolding is a turn on for many guys you can help him along by introducing threesum porn MMF, or "accidently" leave a tab open with cuckolding porn on so he can discover it, maybe not the humiliation sub type but normal shared girlfriend porn? If you love him and want to stay with him and also want to bang another guy then you will have to cuckold him, or get him into swinging if you are ok with him doing other girls, if not cuckold him and keep him loyal ?

  • Commented Jul 13, 2022 23:54 by anonymous

    I met my husband and was fooling around with him for almost three years before I broke up with my ex, moved out and started openly dating my husband. We didn't date long before we got engaged and my ex got suspicious. He called me out on it, and I didn't deny it that I had been cheating on him before we broke up. He felt that he should get to cheat with me like my fiancé did to him. I laughed it off, but he was so serious, he forced himself on me. It was completely non-consensual, but it was also mind-blowingly hot. He got his wish, and the shoe was on the other foot until I got married.

    Once I was married, I tried really hard to keep him away and off me, but he got determined again and forced himself on me. Again, it was HOT! OMG, I wish it wasn't so hot! I told him now that I was married I was never going to consent. But I was never going to call the cops if he forced himself on me AND my husband never found out. He started leaving me alone after he got another woman. Then he really left me alone when he was locked up for beating on his girlfriend too hard.

    That ex did more than occasionally force himself on me though. I kind of got hooked on cheating sex. So even before he got locked up, I had started messing around at work. My FAVORITE time was when my husband took me to the same vacation as a guy friend that took his wife. Since we were away on vacation my husband got us to swap partners at a sex club there. The thing was the couple we swapped with was my guy friend and his wife. We had sex with each other right in front of our spouses and they didn't know we were already cheating with each other.

  • Commented Jul 18, 2022 02:31 by ShivBubbleButt

    Girl tell me about it. I had this with my now hubby and my ex. Ex and I agreed that my pussy is sacred and just for hubby, but that my asshole belonged to my ex. So he started fucking me in the ass with his huge cock. Something hubby has never ever done. It made sense as ex is hung like a donkey and was the first guy to get me properly addicted to anal. Plus I can’t get pregnant from it so it’s win win.

    Sometimes after he’s cum in my ass I’ll leave the cum in there and make hubby eat my ass. So hot!

    Shiv x

  • Commented Aug 24, 2022 19:17 by anonymous

    lock your hubby in permanent chastity, let him know you own him. He already gets his reward from you or he'd have left by now. Once 3 months are up, let him know you need a real man at times, and let him watch..

  • Commented Sep 19, 2022 14:17 by anonymous

    Cuckold your Bf, make him suck your ex's cock. That would be so Hot. I want so bad to cuck my husband. The guy Im sleeping with could give a shit. He fucks me, really fucking good. Then he leaves and goes home to his cunt wife and 3 bratty kids.

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