I’m sick and tired of constantly being a target to men and I’m even more sick and tired that people see this as something that can’t be changed or isn’t worthwhile addressing
Posted Sep 8, 2019 23:09 by anonymous
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I understand this site is mostly men and that a good portion of those men probably won’t truly understand how ridiculously prominent this is until they’ve walked in a female’s shoes.
I make this post cause I got my first apartment and my dad literally came in and made sure it was “pervert proofed” as he called it.
So like the awesome dad he is, he switched out my door screws and added an extra lock cause the original one isn’t a deadbolt, this is standard and not unique to my situation of course. But then he started looking for *camera infrared* cause I guess male landlords will put cameras to spy on female tenants. He also checked for microphones as well. I was disgusted when I found out through my dad that one of his coworkers had gone through the court process cause her pervert landlord had been spying on her. Disgusted..but not surprised.
Let’s continue with other ways I’ve had to “pervert proof” for the majority of my life.
At my old job, women weren’t allowed to carry things to people’s cars or trash to the dumpster alone. You had to use a buddy system. Why? Cause a chick at a BestBuy down the street had an attempted kidnapper when he asked her to help with a computer tower.
I cannot go to gas stations past 10pm. I don’t go because 3 times now I’ve had very creepy and threatening experiences with guys trying to “hit on me” when really they’re just belligerently telling me to ride with them. Two of those times I’ve been threatened.
Obviously in college there’s a 101 ways women are advised to protect themselves. Travel in groups, always watch your drink, don’t go home alone, use a friend instead of an Uber if possible and if you have to use Uber make sure it’s your driver and that you can jump out if he turns on you. Etc etc.
In highschool my mom always told me to sit at the front of the city bus so that the driver can help me when a man inevitably creeps on me, threatens me, or flashes me. Two of those things did happen within a year later. Bonus points, she told me to always make sure I’m not being followed when I get off as well. Thankfully I haven’t been.
In middle school I started to get hit on when I hit puberty and this is when I faced the brunt of male perversion at *twelve* years old and had to learn techniques to dodge it which is despicable.
Now it’s rubbed in my face now that girls are used as symbols of commodities for advertisement. What I mean by this is when girls my ages get their tits pushed out and are plastered next to whatever product that needs to be sold. There’s a radio ad I hear constantly for a bar that says “college girls go here” as a form of advertisement and it’s so gross and predatory.
I hate it. I really do. I understand most male violence is on other guys, but women get the brunt of male perversion and it’s terrible and needs to change. Societal values have changed before and this isn’t an exception. I know if we start frameshifting what is acceptable and normal that less people will do it. Won’t be gone forever but perhaps I wouldn’t have to be constantly plagued by this scenario.
Obligatory “not all men” in case someone hasn’t deduced that reading this.
Thank you for listening
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Commented Sep 8, 2019 23:42 by anonymous
Women are for sex, that's all. Nature gave you tits and a pussy to please men. That's the way it is, has been and always will be. Sex is what you're built for and all you're good for. So shut up, undress, lay down and spread your legs.
Commented Sep 9, 2019 01:56 by anonymous
lmfao the moron that responded before me should kill themselves for being born without a brain.
Anyways, I'm a guy with many female friends and I hear alot of this crazy shit that happens to them. It's definitely a dangerous world out there for women and you have my sympathy's but know that not all men are creeps and weirdo's, just most of them. Times are changing but ever ever soo slowly. Stay strong, stay safe.
Commented Jan 29, 2020 09:18 by anonymous
Once you get good and well fucked, you won't be so fearful and judgmental.
Sex is part of preserving the race, and our future doesn't care how its citizens were born.
just.go.with.it.
Commented Dec 6, 2020 21:38 by anonymous
Your classes in women's studies have taught you that if you whine enough, you can win an argument, and you can. But that doens't mean that you will be right, just that the person you were arguing with gave in because they didn't want to hear you whine any more.
There have always been men who took advantage of women, and there will always be those men. Whining about it won't change it. Nothing you say will change it. All this whining does is make it harder for men who do try to be respectful, because they end up having to take the blame for the guys who just don't care.
Commented Dec 6, 2020 22:01 by anonymous
“Your classes in women's studies have taught you that if you whine enough, you can win an argument, and you can. But that doens't mean that you will be right, just that the person you were arguing with gave in because they didn't want to hear you whine any more.
There have always been men who took advantage of women, and there will always be those men. Whining about it won't change it. Nothing you say will change it. All this whining does is make it harder for men who do try to be respectful, because they end up having to take the blame for the guys who just don't care.”
Women are for sex, that's all. Nature gave you tits and a pussy to please men. That's the way it is, has been and always will be. Sex is what you're built for and all you're good for. So shut up, undress, lay down and spread your legs...
Commented Jul 9, 2021 16:20 by anonymous
An ugly woman wrote this. Nobody has EVER hit on her.
Commented Jul 9, 2021 16:31 by anonymous
“An ugly woman wrote this. Nobody has EVER hit on her. ”
Even ugly and fat women get hit on you stupid sexist pig. You're gross.
Commented Apr 21, 2022 23:47 by anonymous
I am almost 100% sure you are suffering from some things that happened to you in one or more of your Previous Lives. I recommend going to a person who does Past Life Regression, and get help.
Commented Jul 20, 2022 01:40 by anonymous
Sorry this happened. Your family sounds paranoid. I would never do that. You must know a lot trash men. That is not honourable. I love sex but I also have self control & I love romance. I definitely had one night stands but I would love fall in love with woman (first one broke my heart).
Real men aren’t sneaky like that.