I’m a black and dark skin girl, and Its getting really hard for me to see the beauty in dark skin because of how much the black community bashes and resents dark skin.
Posted Jan 17, 2019 17:18 by anonymous
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My whole life, lighter skin was seen as better. Its just how its always been. And it’s hard to cope with the fact that I am a part of the least desirable demographic. But it’s how A LOT of people feel about dark skin black women.
Like even look into society. In the black community, some of the most successful black women are light skin. **Also the ratio of light skin women to dark skin women in hollywood is VERY uneven, with light skin girls having a MUCH bigger ratio. **
After many years of people around me and people in society and hollywood emphasizing the notion that light skinned women are more beautiful, i myself am starting to believe that too. Its sad but its just how i feel now. If everyone likes them then they must like them for a reason right?
If there were two restaurants in town and everybody in town said “restaurant 1 is SO much better than restaurant 2” then obviously people are saying that for a reason. Maybe restaurant 2 really isn’t as good as restaurant 1. Because EVERYBODY feels that way.
So if in hollywood and on social media only lighter girls are given praise, then that’s saying something.
I feel this way after coming back from instagram sometimes. I’ve gotten so insecure to the point where I had to unfollow some light skin girls because i’m not confident enough in myself to handle their beauty, and handle the fact that I’m never gonna be seen as beautiful as them. I don’t even use my instagram app anymore, i use this other app that filters the stuff i want it to filter on instagram, for the sake of my confidence. I know it sounds pathetic but i can’t use the actual app for instagram anymore. I get so insecure seeing lighter girls.
I think my facial features would come out more if I was light skin. I feel like my dark skin takes the attention away from my facial features, and kind of ....covers them in darkness. Its gross to me. I love my facial features but I think they would look better with dark skin. Like for example, if there was mud on your car windshield, you wouldn’t be able to see the road right? But when you take your windshield wipers and clear the mud off, then you can see the road again, and the road becomes clear as day. That’s how I feel about my skin. I feel like my dark skin shields my potential beauty. I would be SO pretty if my dark skin didn’t block my beauty.
I don’t really see the fun is being a dark skinned black girl. For me, the disadvantages outweigh the advantages. The only positive thing is that we age very well, and we tend to not get lice because since out hair is thick, curly, and course, lice can’t hold onto our hair. Other than that, this shit is just a burden. I can never find any make up in my shade, there are barely any dark skinned celebrities noticed by hollywood so representation is non existent, and my shade is the least desirable. This sucks.
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Commented Jan 17, 2019 17:28 by anonymous
I'm white and I'm sorry you have this problem. I really don't know what to say as it must be tough to be judged by the color of your skin among your own people.
Commented Jan 17, 2019 18:34 by anonymous
White skin, light skin has been the preferred color for ages...being dark as night just cannot be seen as good as lighter skin. It is what it is
Commented Jan 17, 2019 18:36 by anonymous
Grace jones was a goddess! All I have to say on the matter.
Commented Oct 25, 2020 16:11 by anonymous
An African American manager of a restaurant was sued because he fired his much darker employee for having dark skin. There is an African American club in Louisiana that excludes dark Africans from membership.
As a white man I cannot understand this.
Commented Oct 25, 2020 16:18 by anonymous
I am white, my wife is black with a very dark skin tone, and is the most beautiful woman in the world. Black are the most racist of all people, not just racist of all other races, especially whites, but they are by far the most racist to their own kind. They actually believe that the darker your skin, the more stupid you are. Fuck tell that to my wife, she is a doctor, and a damn good one.
Commented Oct 25, 2020 16:54 by anonymous
Love that dark black skin. It makes that hot pussy look so nice and pink. Yummy!
Commented Oct 25, 2020 17:46 by anonymous
I have to agree. I'm biracial and can pass for white with my curly hair and lightly tanned skin. My father is from Iceland, my mother is half white, half Ethiopian. My mother was born in Ethiopia, her father was a white Dr volunteering in Ethiopia, he married my mother and brought her to the US. We traveled to Iceland every year. That's where I met my husband. My mother flat told me "you will not marry a black man from the US" but I wasn't arguing with her, I never dated one, they look so dirty.
Commented Oct 25, 2020 18:36 by anonymous
You can take a supplement called glutathione. It's what white-worshipping Asians use to look Aryan.
Commented Oct 26, 2020 12:44 by anonymous
“You can take a supplement called glutathione. It's what white-worshipping Asians use to look Aryan.”
There is also the peptide Melanotan 2; it stimulates the hormones which cause skin to produce melanin, the pigment which makes skin dark. My wife is darkskin Mexican but I wanted her black. I started her on m2 and tanning bed sessions, and within a month she had gone from her usual ruddy-reddish skin tone to true black. The transformation is amazing- all the same Latina features, jet black straight ass-length hair, gorgeous brown eyes, but now set against deep black skin. Her palms and soles stayed bright creamy white, her lips are pink against her black face, nipples and pussy lips purple they’re so black. She’s hit on now by black men all the time, and truth be told she’s gone with a few. Being a black woman with Latina features is so hot!
Commented Oct 26, 2020 12:50 by anonymous
“An African American manager of a restaurant was sued because he fired his much darker employee for having dark skin. There is an African American club in Louisiana that excludes dark Africans from membership.
As a white man I cannot understand this.”
Is that the one they call the Capital C Club? Colored vs colored. If you’re brighter than a brown paper bag you’re Colored; darker and you’re colored.
Commented Oct 26, 2020 13:56 by anonymous
It's something that I've never understood and I've seen it in other cultures where people range from slightly tan to very dark skin. IMO darker skin colors are more attractive. Rarely do I see a pale female and find her pleasing to the eye. But that's just me. The world is a strange place and I don't often understand why people have these odd preferences.
Commented Oct 26, 2020 13:58 by anonymous
“Love that dark black skin. It makes that hot pussy look so nice and pink. Yummy!”
Makes thier necks looks delicious to suck on too as I slowly make love to her , black girls have such nice necks I can’t keep my lips and tongue off her amazing beautiful neck hardly at all , I’m always sucking on her , I can’t get enough , her pussy is beautiful too as the rest of her. Amazing tall and very skinny. Hottest girl in the world. My wife
Commented Oct 26, 2020 14:13 by anonymous
you should not be so hard on yourself. I am sure that you are very beautiful
Commented Oct 26, 2020 14:15 by anonymous
You’re right, OP. Except for a few simps and weirdos, light or white women are preferred everywhere. Just accept things for what they are and work with what you’ve got.
Commented Nov 1, 2020 00:51 by anonymous
Love black woman clits and pussies
Commented Nov 6, 2020 22:44 by anonymous
Look, I'm an old white guy, so I don't know if you'll care what I think. But growing up, I KNEW the most beautiful woman on TV was the lady who played Uhura on the old Star Trek TV show, the original one from the 1960s. And she wasn't Halle Berry black, she was B-L-A-C-K.
So tell the haters to go fuck themselves. And just remember, a real man won't let some Hollywood assholes who to like or love or find sex. And that man can be any color.
Dark skin is awesome, just like very white skin is awesome. Be yourself and stay beautiful
Commented Nov 16, 2020 12:04 by anonymous
“Look, I'm an old white guy, so I don't know if you'll care what I think. But growing up, I KNEW the most beautiful woman on TV was the lady who played Uhura on the old Star Trek TV show, the original one from the 1960s. And she wasn't Halle Berry black, she was B-L-A-C-K.
So tell the haters to go fuck themselves. And just remember, a real man won't let some Hollywood assholes who to like or love or find sex. And that man can be any color.
Dark skin is awesome, just like very white skin is awesome. Be yourself and stay beautiful”
Hi Old White Guy! We’re from the same boomer generation, and between Nichelle Nichols (Star Treks “Uhura” ) and Dianne Carroll’s (“Julia”) I fell for the B-L-A-C-K women too. So much so I married one, and we managed to “swirl” out 4 gorgeous mulatto daughters and now are grandpa and grandma to 4 quadroons (daughterS who married white) and 2 dark little Zambos ( daughter who married a coal black.) Cost us some friends, gained us others, and when we get together with the family we watch he old Trek on DVD. Uhura is still hooot! She opens my hailing frequencies!
Commented Nov 16, 2020 12:33 by anonymous
In west Africa lighter skinned are much preferred, amongst the blacks. There is something deeper here than just social framing.
Commented Nov 16, 2020 12:36 by anonymous
I would love to drink your piss though.
Commented Jan 25, 2021 13:12 by anonymous
“I am white, my wife is black with a very dark skin tone, and is the most beautiful woman in the world. Black are the most racist of all people, not just racist of all other races, especially whites, but they are by far the most racist to their own kind. They actually believe that the darker your skin, the more stupid you are. Fuck tell that to my wife, she is a doctor, and a damn good one.”
Your statement about her basically says that she is a dumbass as well as a being a doctor! Plain and simple.
Commented Jul 3, 2021 12:33 by anonymous
I love dark black skin! I find it beautiful! I would marry a very dark skinned woman if that is who I fell in love with.
Commented Jul 3, 2021 12:51 by anonymous
I am a 59 year old white male, my wife is 52 black and very black skin, she is the most intelligent and beautiful woman in the world. 20 years of marriage proves that, but yes the black community is so backwards, they all so much want to be white, and how they treat their own is a disgrace, hell most of my wife's family are lighter than her, and I see it in how they have treated her.
Feel good about yourself, I am sure your beautiful, there will be someone and opportunities for you out there.