When I was in school I would only date girls who were in my year, and as I got older I only dated girls 2 years younger, then 3 years, turning down girls who were younger regardless of beauty, connection, compatibility.

When I was 23 I turned down a 19 year old who went on to date a 30 year old... he fucked her around and left her. This annoyed me because my stupid rule, if ignored could have changed that.

I’m currently talking to a 19 year old and I do feel a way as she’s young, but she’s dated guys my age before according to her... half of me thinks it’s not right, the other half is saying if it’s not me it’ll be someone else so... yeah