So last Saturday I went to a theme park with my friends. And I finally got to meet one of my best friends little sister. Throughout the night we were all having a good time and just having fun. The next day my friend texts me that one of my other guy friends has been texting her little sister. Now it doesn’t seem all that bad until she tells me what he’s saying to her.

He’s saying things like “ wow you looked really pretty last night I couldn’t stop looking at you.” And the one that really got me “how do you kiss?” Mind you this guy friend has a gf. His gf is super sweet and so I don’t wanna tell her Bc I’m not trying to ruin her relationship.

So I go to one of my other really good friends who is also friends with this guy. I tell her what he’s saying to our friends little sister and she defends by basically saying “ Oh well that’s just how he is” I was soooo surprised that she said this Bc she’s the type of person to stick up for girls when this happens.

And I get that she’s been friends with the guy for a long time but that doesn’t excuse his behavior. Because in my opinion since he has a gf he shouldn’t have been saying these things in the first place. And I’m telling her this but she keeps saying that our mutual friends little sister shouldn’t have been flirting with him to begin with. Which she wasn’t. And saying that she should tell him that she’s uncomfortable and block him.

And she did tell him she was uncomfortable and he still wouldn’t stop. So she says well “it doesn’t register in his brain” but that’s not how that works. Because things don’t register in our brain if we don’t want them to, so really it’s just him not wanting to take no for an answer.

So who’s in the wrong here?

TLDR; friends little sister is being hit on by a male friend. Tells mutual friend to tell him to stop but she just makes excuses for him instead.