I feel bad, but at the same time.. this break up is tearing her apart. It’s her first heartbreak. They were still hooking up time and time again up until now. I want to say they “officially” broke up more than a year ago, but still in constant contact. She was snooping around his social media and found out he has a new girlfriend and she was angry that they hooked up after he was in another relationship so she kept bothering him for answers.

I’ve always looked out for her best interest even if it hurts. I also have been through heartbreak as well so I’m patient with her. She’s very stubborn and doesn’t listen to me when I’m very blunt with her about this situation. So she continues to lurk through his social media, ask me what does he post here and there if she’s blocked from it. However, I never tell her anything. I don’t want her to be hurt.

I didn’t even know he was with someone new until she told me and found out herself. He was trying to be private about it and didn’t want to hurt her that he moved on faster. Which I understand.

She’s been so hurt and depressed lately over it and continued on texting him. I’m friends with him as well. Worked with him for some time. So it was never really a problem to just be straight forward with him too. I told him to block her on every social media. Every single one. Block her number as well. I think it’ll be easier on her if she has no direct contact with him whatsoever. She’ll just continue to text or call him if he didn’t do it.

I don’t like the way I do things like texting him behind her back and tell him to do all of that. But he understood and said he truly is done with her and she’s been very smothering lately. But I will always look out for her best interest at the end of the day. That’s my confession.