Started chatting online with this girl from a south asian island country. We immediately hit it off and made great plans once we could meet. Chats become erotic and sexy talk followed. Fast forward a year or so and she comes to visit on her holiday. I had initially promised to let her stay over, but when I saw her, the spark just wasn't there. Her personality seemed different, she looked different from her previous pictures and not attractive at all... We had coffee the first evening and I met her the next day for lunch, but shortly after that I made up an excuse to leave and bailed on my earlier promise of letting her stay over... It just didn't feel like we were a match. Her way of talking was nonchalant, seemingly uninterested in everything I said. I have no regrets going back on my offer.