He was my first love, we were together for almost a year, and also lost our V-cards to one another. Even though he was the one to break up, I also wanted to break up with him, but the breakup ended on a relatively positive note. That was 9 months ago, and since then, we only had small talk twice - last one was 7 months ago, and that was the last time I saw him in person. When we broke up, he said he doesn't mind if we stay friends/if I ask him to hang out, but what if he doesn't think that really? I want to still have some kind of connection with him, since we were friends before our relationship, so should I ask him for coffee or something? Also in less than a year I will be moving permanently to another country and won't see him ever again, so I want some kind of reconciliation.