I never got to talk about my rape to anyone, only small bits to my therapist, but I think it's time for me to reflect on what happened, so here's my story of how it all began and ended. I hope that this helps me move on.
Posted Nov 27, 2019 16:17 by anonymous
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To those who read it, thanks for listening to my story, any comments are welcomed.
When I was 15 (2013), my cousin (m, 20 at that time) had moved from Mexico to live with my grandma. We got along really well, he was the first cousin that I actually felt comfortable being around. He was like my best friend, he treated me well, like a sister, always by my side and all that. He was someone I could trust.
In December of 2013, we moved into a 4 bedroom house, where he ended up moving into as well. He slept in my brother's room, the room next to mine, but my brother was always working so he was rarely at home, thus it became my cousins room. We would play wrestle, we'd go shopping together, I would tattoo him with sharpie, and we would play games together, watch movies, he was the only family member that knew about my depression and that I was self-harming, he was the only person I could talk to... we got along really well... which is how I ended up being his.
A week before Valentine's day (2014), we were in the kitchen talking, when he had asked me for my number, of course I gave it to him cause he's my cousin so I didn't think much of it. Then later that night, we're both in his room talking, he gets a phone call so we're both just lying down next to each other on his bed, which then became more like snuggling I suppose. I didn't think much of that either, my family has always been super lovey-dovey hugs and sh\*t, so it didn't seem like a red flag to me. But then, in the middle of the night when everyone's asleep, he texts me and then he sneaks into my room, and he stood on the ladder of my bed, (I had a loft bed at the time), and we're talking, I'm like half asleep so for most of it so I wasn't exactly responding. I don't know what we were talking about, but it must of been something along the lines of him being interested in me and liking me, cause at the end of the talk he touches my lip and gives me small kiss... and did this thing where he rubbed his thumb on my palm (I later found out that this means that they want to f\*ck, so yeah if a person does that, thats what it means).
A couple days past Valentines, (he and my brother went to work so they were gone the days before), he comes to my room again and we talk and then he asks me to come down from my bed, he kisses me, we're making out and I'm scared as fuck thinking my parents are going to hear what's going on, so I try to push him away and tell him no, but he continues and so make out session continues and then he brings up how he wants to f\*ck and I tell him no, and he continues to pressure me, telling me it'll just be the tip, and he starts to undress me and I keep trying to push him away but he keeps insisting and he gets me down, I think he had me on my knees, and he sticks it in and it hurts and I tell him that it hurts but he continues, and then we here someone getting up, so he quickly gets up and sneaks back to his room, and I go to the bathroom to make it seem like everything was normal. In the bathroom I noticed I was bleeding, I didn't know that you bleed from tearing the hymen, so when I got back to my room, I texted him saying that he made me bleed. I don't remember the rest of that night.
After that, every night he'd come to my room, half asleep or awake, he was there talking to me, running his fingers through my hair, giving me kisses. I know it's all wrong but at the time it made me feel special, my family was always putting me down for my issues, calling me weak and hopeless, attention seeking... he was the only one that treated me well... I didn't realize that he was most likely grooming me. During the day, I spent most/all of my time in my room, away from family, dealing with my depression, and so he would come up several times a day to hangout with me, which then led to him fingering me, mostly by surprise, I would be doing my homework or some sh\*t and he would just start touching me, grabbing my boobs, wanting to make out.
The sex happened when he had the opportunity and then it became a routine, like a schedule. During the weekends, when it's just me, him and my younger brother at home, those were "our" days, other than that night times, he'd sneak in, and well I already become accustomed to what he wanted. Like I was programmed just for him. I'm not going to deny that I didn't enjoy some of it... cause at times having a "relationship" felt nice, I didn't feel so alone and isolated. Outside of home, he would treat me like his girlfriend, he loved to show me off basically, and I was not to fond of that, I didn't want people knowing or finding out, but it felt nice that he considered me so. He'd always tell that he loved me, he'd call me "mi amor", his love. Every time he came home from work, he'd come up and give me a kiss and we'd talk.
After a while, maybe two months after it began, I wanted it to end, I kept telling myself I would call it quits, that I was no longer going to be doing anything with him. I knew it was wrong and I feared getting caught, I wanted it to stop. My mom had set up a physical for me (not related to this, just a check up), and I was answering those survey questions, you know about abuse, suicide, that kind of stuff, and I answered as honestly as I could. In the doctor's office, my mom brings up how she's worried that I may be anorexic (I rarely ate, even as a child, I would throw away my food, my parents would have to force me to eat), so the doctor asks me some questions and then she asks me about my answers on the survey thingy. I tell her about my depression and I showed her the areas where I would cut, and she asks if I'm sexually active and I say yes, and then she's like with whom, boyfriend, guy(s), and I just say boyfriend... kept my mouth shut about what was happening. So I end up getting 5150'd (72 hour hold which became a week and a half for me) and I told myself, when I get back home, it's over. No more.
I get released and it's cold, and the only sweater my mom had in her car belonged to my cousin, so I put it on, and when we got to my Grandma's home, he was there hanging out and comes and gives me a big hug, and talks about how adorable it is that I'm wearing his sweater, and then continues to tell me if I received his texts, he was texting me everyday while I was in there, but we weren't allowed to use our phones, so it was off and so my phone didn't receive any texts from anyone. And so back home, I do put an end to it for a little while, but he was so persistent I gave in. This continued for over 6 months.
This is where it begins to become non-consensual, and I am no longer the only one he's "with".
The routine, every weekend, in the morning before noon (noon is around the time my dad get's off work), if I don't go downstairs on my own he'll come up for me. (My mom was getting suspicious about him so she made him sleep in the living room). So every morning on Saturday and Sunday, I had to go downstairs, if I didn't he would come to my room for it. In the evenings my mom began telling me to lock my bedroom door, so I did, he would text me when he's coming up, or he'll lightly knock on my door. If I don't open he'll knock a little more... I began to pretend to be asleep, night sessions were no more. The mornings sucked, it was a job, I was his doll, his toy, I was everyone's doll, I had no control of my life, I no longer had anyone, and the person that I did have was no longer that same person to me, he never changed, he treated me the same way, but I knew, I knew now what was going on, and how I was being used...
He would come home bragging about how all the girls that he works with have a crush on him, (it may seem like he was exaggerating but he wasn't, he had them all wrapped up his finger)... so know he wasn't home during the day anymore, he got a second job as well, he was gone, so it began to slowly diminish. Except the weekends!
I tried and tried to avoid him during the weekends, but it never stopped. I would stare at the ceiling, the couch, anything but facing him. I would cry, I wouldn't moan but that just made him go harder, so I had to fake it for him. I'd just be there, not moving, him doing all the work, and I'm just reflecting on every thing, so many thoughts going through my head... I couldn't have guy friends, I couldn't date, I couldn't even mention a guy, I was his... only his.
Now don't go on thinking I never sought help from anyone. I tried and tried to tell my parents that I didn't like him living with us, that I didn't understand that if they too didn't trust, why haven't they kicked him out? Why is my mom constantly complaining about him, but yet she lets him live with us. Why is it that he's f\*cking in the car of his girlfriend right in front of out house? I tried to convince them, I tried to push them, but they would't.
But then in August, my dad finally decided to kick him out after I kept bringing it up. He told him he kicked him out because of me! Like No!!! You're not supposed to tell him that! So at work, we ended up working together, he had asked me about and I just lied to him and said I didn't know.
So after it was practically over, at work he'd still try to hold my hand, he'd brush up against me, and still sweet talk to me. And then it really f\*cking ended and he left me alone, he was also trying to push me and another coworker to date... not gonna lie, I was flirting with the guy, and we both talked a lot on the job... but again I was 16 and that guy was about the age of my cousin.
Any ways, the end! I got a new therapist in May 2015 and I told her about being molested as a kid, (so I went on a vacation with my mom and grandma to Mexico to visit family, I was about 5 years old, and a cousin (older like teens/pre-teen) and he was kissing me, (tongue, you know couple kissing not like little pecks on the cheek), and he was telling me how pretty I was and during a game of hide n seek with my two other cousins, he found me and got on top of me and that's all I can remember... everything after that is pitch black) but yeah I mentioned that and then mentioned the rape (oh yeah my therapist believes it's the same cousin for both occasions), any ways... she had to file a report because it was recent and I tried taking everything back and told her I wanted it, that I consented, tried to do whatever I could to keep my family from knowing. Therapist ends up having to talk to my dad, they asked me if I wanted to go to the hospital, I was texting my friends cause I thought I was going to go back, but they said I could sleepover for the weekend. So I hangout with my friend.
The week after a cop pulls up to our house, (I saw the cop show up a couple days before, but we were leaving driving past them), so the officer comes up and I open the door, and I tell her my parents are upstairs and I'm just thinking like what the f\*ck is going on, and the cop says she has to speak to us, and so she speaks to me alone first, I couldn't recollect my memories properly for her so I go through my journals after she goes downstairs to talk to my parents, and I can hear my mom acting like is she knew nothing at all, like if she didn't have those suspicions, she knew something was going she just didn't know what exactly, but yeah I can hear them talk and I'm reading my journal and I began to feel like shit, I hated myself, so I began cutting my arms, legs, I couldn't see what I was cutting or how deep, 'cause it was all covered in blood. the police officer comes back up and see's that I'm covered in blood and calls for an ambulance and she's like why did you do this, and my dad runs up and he's like what did you do, why, and then my mom comes up and she holds me and is like yelling in my ear asking me why... and yeah...
So ambulance and firefighters, and I'm on a gurney in front of all my neighbors, covered in blood, my face was covered in blood too, and ugh! So hospitalized again. And then I do the interview and we find out from a police officer that my Cousin wasn't home when they went to interview him. Turns out that mother f\*cker ran away back to Mexico. Oh! and he married a coworker that I had been wanting to warn about him, but we didn't have the same work schedules so I never had the f\*cking chance! And that was it, they couldn't do anything.
Now for the past, 5 years (I'm 21 now), I've been trying to cope, been diagnosed with PTSD and a bunch of other ones... but what he did and how he was able to manipulate me, it still fucks me up... I can't seem to move on, no matter how much therapy I've received, he's there... affecting my relationships, affecting everything about me...
I don't want him in my mind, I don't want to think of him when I'm with someone else. I'm in my first real relationship and these past two months, this whatever I'm going through or reliving, it's taking a toll on me and I feel like I can't trust my boyfriend. I feel like I won't ever be able to be okay in a relationship...
That's my story, I know it's long, but I needed to let these memories out, they're driving me crazy. I've begun to self harm again... I want this to be over.
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Commented Nov 27, 2019 16:41 by Wizard
Please get into therapy. Any rape treatment program can refer you to a no-cost therapy agency. Self harm is dangerous and can be helped with therapy. What you have described is classical child rape stuff.
Commented Feb 23, 2020 11:53 by anonymous
If you want to have a good life, then you can have one. You will always remember what happened to you, but then you can put those memories away, and get on with your life. You are VERY strong, otherwise you wouldn't have survived this long. If you want to turn your life around, and start having a good life, you CAN do it! I am praying for you. God Bless, and Namaste.
Commented May 30, 2020 03:21 by anonymous
I read full story. All the best girl. I wish you overcome it soon.
Commented Jun 19, 2020 09:00 by anonymous
You are more precious than all this stuff that you’ve been through. Somebody’s got a great plan for your life. I’m sure it’s hard to see that through all the hardships you’ve faced, but I’ve been through something very similar. You have a testimony in the making.
Hoping and praying that you’ll find peace and strength.
Jeremiah 29:11
Commented Jun 27, 2020 02:41 by anonymous
If you work long enough and hard enough, you will be able to get past most of this. It will always be present, but it can represent a smaller part of who you are as time goes on. But it will not fix itself magically. It will require you to work honestly with a therapist for a long period of time.
Best wishes to you in successfully moving on from this.
Commented Oct 11, 2020 17:45 by anonymous
I'd love to kill him.
Commented Dec 19, 2020 23:01 by anonymous
You really are an evil narcissistic manipulative dumb bitch. You might fool all these people but anyone with common sense and intelligence can see right through you. You're a sick person. You weren't raped by your cousin you liar. Every bit of your story is bullshit to make you look good. Like you're just a poor innocent victim, when in reality it's clear you were just a jealous bitch that started shit and got revenge. I don't know if you realize it or not, but you're not that smart. Any intelligent person can pin point everything wrong with your sob story.
Females like you make me sick. As soon as someone does something you don't like you go into victim mode and try to distance yourself. "Oh poor me... my cousin stuck his dick in me after I whispered no but let him fuck me anyway." And then you even tried to help him hide it from your parents so you guys wouldn't get caught. That's not a rape victim does you stupid evil cunt. How dare accuse someone of rape to make yourself look good. You clearly weren't raped you sick bitch. You willingly fucked him for years and even admitted to liking it. But because he started fucking someone else, you got jealous and wanted him thrown out. Not because he raped you, but because he was fucking other girls. You think people are too stupid to see through that?
"Don't think I didn't try to tell my family because I did."
LOL. No the fuck you didn't.You never told your parents shit about that. Why? Because you know he didn't rape you. You know you were a willing participant. You probably instigated the whole thing. A real rape victim doesn't sit there at hint at things. A real rape victim doesn't care if the rapists fucks other people. You were emotionally attached and felt hurt because he fucked other girls. It's all in your bullshit story once you strip away the "poor me I'm such a victim" nonsense.
People like you are fucked up. You're probably so good at playing the victim that you should walk around with your own body chalk. Dumb bitch.
Commented Dec 19, 2020 23:11 by anonymous
My girlfriend used to cut herself in a past relationship and it makes me sad to see those marks on her arms. Try not to ruin your future by ruminating over your past
Commented Jan 3, 2021 04:40 by anonymous
Umm... "and he starts to undress me and I keep trying to push him away but he keeps insisting and he gets me down, I think he had me on my knees, and he sticks it in and it hurts and I tell him that it hurts but he continues, and then we here someone getting up, so he quickly gets up and sneaks back to his room, and I go to the bathroom to make it seem like everything was normal."
So you told him no and he forced you...but you go to the bathroom to make things seem normal so you won't get caught. hmmm
"and so he would come up several times a day to hangout with me, which then led to him fingering me, mostly by surprise, I would be doing my homework or some sh\*t and he would just start touching me, grabbing my boobs, wanting to make out."
So he would come to you several times a day to finger and make out... but it was mostly by surprise... uh huh. Surprise its my 5th time here to finger you. What a surprise.
I call bullshit. None of this was rape. It sounds more like you just got pissed off and decided to be vindictive because you felt used. And to make yourself feel better about being a slut, you want to accuse him of rape. Even though he didn't rape you at all. That's pretty fucked up.
Commented Apr 9, 2021 09:47 by anonymous
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Commented Apr 9, 2021 10:06 by anonymous
I wish there was something I could do to assuage your pain and nightmares. I'm a survivor of being battered repeatedly by a step-father, and at one point I had to deal with the cops when a teacher saw the bruises and puncture wounds. I'm still struggling, and deeply hate my mother for supporting it when I was young, and then pretending she never knew it happened years later, after asshole left her ass for another woman.
The deepest betrayals are always family.
Commented Apr 11, 2021 02:09 by anonymous
“You really are an evil narcissistic manipulative dumb bitch. You might fool all these people but anyone with common sense and intelligence can see right through you. You're a sick person. You weren't raped by your cousin you liar. Every bit of your story is bullshit to make you look good. Like you're just a poor innocent victim, when in reality it's clear you were just a jealous bitch that started shit and got revenge. I don't know if you realize it or not, but you're not that smart. Any intelligent person can pin point everything wrong with your sob story.
Females like you make me sick. As soon as someone does something you don't like you go into victim mode and try to distance yourself. "Oh poor me... my cousin stuck his dick in me after I whispered no but let him fuck me anyway." And then you even tried to help him hide it from your parents so you guys wouldn't get caught. That's not a rape victim does you stupid evil cunt. How dare accuse someone of rape to make yourself look good. You clearly weren't raped you sick bitch. You willingly fucked him for years and even admitted to liking it. But because he started fucking someone else, you got jealous and wanted him thrown out. Not because he raped you, but because he was fucking other girls. You think people are too stupid to see through that?
"Don't think I didn't try to tell my family because I did."
LOL. No the fuck you didn't.You never told your parents shit about that. Why? Because you know he didn't rape you. You know you were a willing participant. You probably instigated the whole thing. A real rape victim doesn't sit there at hint at things. A real rape victim doesn't care if the rapists fucks other people. You were emotionally attached and felt hurt because he fucked other girls. It's all in your bullshit story once you strip away the "poor me I'm such a victim" nonsense.
People like you are fucked up. You're probably so good at playing the victim that you should walk around with your own body chalk. Dumb bitch. ”
Hi Cuz. Reaching out from Mexico? Your transparent attempts to manipulate your cousin are no longer affective. Give it a rest. You are definitely broken if you feel the need to control like this. Get YOURSELF some therapy. To quote you. . . Bitch!
Commented Apr 12, 2021 14:52 by anonymous
I dated a woman that told me she was raped. Long story short, she was in a gang bang that she resented after it was over and then called it rape. That's not rape, that's feeling remorse from a bad decision you made and now want to feel empowered and less slutty by calling it rape and seeing a therapist.
It does sound like you were molested, but it sounds like the sex was consensual incest, however, you being underage, that's where any legal action would have it being called rape. Unlike my ex-gf, and even though your story is tripe to a degree, yes; you were raped.
This story reads funny. I hope if this happened, especially the last parts, because the beginning parts don't make sense, but continue to get therapy. I would not be dating if you are having those issues, that's not fair to either you or your new boyfriend, you need help. Not his help.
Best of luck to you. Not all males are bad.
Commented Jul 10, 2021 17:46 by anonymous
“You really are an evil narcissistic manipulative dumb bitch. You might fool all these people but anyone with common sense and intelligence can see right through you. You're a sick person. You weren't raped by your cousin you liar. Every bit of your story is bullshit to make you look good. Like you're just a poor innocent victim, when in reality it's clear you were just a jealous bitch that started shit and got revenge. I don't know if you realize it or not, but you're not that smart. Any intelligent person can pin point everything wrong with your sob story.
Females like you make me sick. As soon as someone does something you don't like you go into victim mode and try to distance yourself. "Oh poor me... my cousin stuck his dick in me after I whispered no but let him fuck me anyway." And then you even tried to help him hide it from your parents so you guys wouldn't get caught. That's not a rape victim does you stupid evil cunt. How dare accuse someone of rape to make yourself look good. You clearly weren't raped you sick bitch. You willingly fucked him for years and even admitted to liking it. But because he started fucking someone else, you got jealous and wanted him thrown out. Not because he raped you, but because he was fucking other girls. You think people are too stupid to see through that?
"Don't think I didn't try to tell my family because I did."
LOL. No the fuck you didn't.You never told your parents shit about that. Why? Because you know he didn't rape you. You know you were a willing participant. You probably instigated the whole thing. A real rape victim doesn't sit there at hint at things. A real rape victim doesn't care if the rapists fucks other people. You were emotionally attached and felt hurt because he fucked other girls. It's all in your bullshit story once you strip away the "poor me I'm such a victim" nonsense.
People like you are fucked up. You're probably so good at playing the victim that you should walk around with your own body chalk. Dumb bitch. ”
You are really a piece of shit to think that is right
Commented Aug 23, 2021 08:08 by anonymous
Frankly I think you got mad because you wanted him to keep fucking you.
Commented Nov 17, 2021 07:56 by anonymous
“You really are an evil narcissistic manipulative dumb bitch. You might fool all these people but anyone with common sense and intelligence can see right through you. You're a sick person. You weren't raped by your cousin you liar. Every bit of your story is bullshit to make you look good. Like you're just a poor innocent victim, when in reality it's clear you were just a jealous bitch that started shit and got revenge. I don't know if you realize it or not, but you're not that smart. Any intelligent person can pin point everything wrong with your sob story.
Females like you make me sick. As soon as someone does something you don't like you go into victim mode and try to distance yourself. "Oh poor me... my cousin stuck his dick in me after I whispered no but let him fuck me anyway." And then you even tried to help him hide it from your parents so you guys wouldn't get caught. That's not a rape victim does you stupid evil cunt. How dare accuse someone of rape to make yourself look good. You clearly weren't raped you sick bitch. You willingly fucked him for years and even admitted to liking it. But because he started fucking someone else, you got jealous and wanted him thrown out. Not because he raped you, but because he was fucking other girls. You think people are too stupid to see through that?
"Don't think I didn't try to tell my family because I did."
LOL. No the fuck you didn't.You never told your parents shit about that. Why? Because you know he didn't rape you. You know you were a willing participant. You probably instigated the whole thing. A real rape victim doesn't sit there at hint at things. A real rape victim doesn't care if the rapists fucks other people. You were emotionally attached and felt hurt because he fucked other girls. It's all in your bullshit story once you strip away the "poor me I'm such a victim" nonsense.
People like you are fucked up. You're probably so good at playing the victim that you should walk around with your own body chalk. Dumb bitch. ”
She was a child.
Commented Nov 17, 2021 09:49 by anonymous
You are a crazy spic whore.
Commented Mar 5, 2022 14:31 by anonymous
“Hi Cuz. Reaching out from Mexico? Your transparent attempts to manipulate your cousin are no longer affective. Give it a rest. You are definitely broken if you feel the need to control like this. Get YOURSELF some therapy. To quote you. . . Bitch!”
You have got to be kidding right? How in the fuck would her cousin the supposed rapist know to come to this specific website. Then out of all the stories, and confessions he happened upon this one. Then without names deduced it was him, then took the time to write the aforementioned response. All without being told or rather threatened that she would out him by writing her "story" only for the purposes of receiving closure? You are the worst detective ever. Don't quit your day job.....
Commented Mar 5, 2022 14:46 by anonymous
“You are really a piece of shit to think that is right”
You are oblivious if you think it isn't. The commenter is reading between lines of dialog that you have to be blind not to see. This story either isn't real at all or it is more then likely the way the commenter not the OP explains it. Too many holes in story.
Here is a little food for thought. All of this happened and not one family member, here or in Mexico, has done anything to make him pay for it? His wife, who knows the OP, is totally cool with it? If that were your daughter, sister, neice, grand-daughter, etc. And the events occurred like she is writing, would you just let it go?
The police, her parents, her brothers, and the rest of her family have already heard and lived it alongside her yet not one person has been institutionalized besides the OP on not one but 2 different occasions?
And the victim of countless rapes, and torture, is upset that he is having sex with his new girlfriend in the car outside of the house? Does that sound like how a victim would react? Because I'd he's banging his new girl outside the house the victim lives in, why is she upset? To the point that she is telling on him? And trying to get him kicked out? It's more likely a victim would be relieved that the "rapist" isn't in the house, in her room, "raping" her anymore! Duh! Everytime he has consensual sex with his new girlfriend is one less time she would be victimized correct?
Please explain how all of the above are more likely then what the commenter originally wrote? And if you still believe her obviously fictional story then do yourself a favor and slap yourself in the face.
Because if what she is claiming happened, actually happened, then every thing I mentioned after my food for thought comment would also have to be true....
Commented Mar 5, 2022 14:51 by anonymous
“She was a child.”
A consenting one! Statutory rape doesn't exist in my locale after the age of 16 years old. 16 years old is old enough to operate a motor vehicle, get emancipated, and begin your working life. Many countries it's old enough to consume alcohol. In many states still old enough to get married even.
Maybe, on the wrong side of the morality line that's drawn in the metaphorical sand, but none of that constitutes being raped! Or a situation that was even remotely close to what the OP is claiming is a "rape"
Commented Mar 5, 2022 15:05 by anonymous
“Frankly I think you got mad because you wanted him to keep fucking you.”
This! Nothing more need be said?
Commented Mar 5, 2022 15:09 by anonymous
“If you work long enough and hard enough, you will be able to get past most of this. It will always be present, but it can represent a smaller part of who you are as time goes on. But it will not fix itself magically. It will require you to work honestly with a therapist for a long period of time.
Best wishes to you in successfully moving on from this.”
It didn't happen the way it's being told. Read between the lines of bullshit
Commented Sep 13, 2022 13:51 by anonymous
“It didn't happen the way it's being told. Read between the lines of bullshit”
It was daddy doing her.she feels guilty that she enjoyed it.
Commented Sep 13, 2022 14:02 by anonymous
“A consenting one! Statutory rape doesn't exist in my locale after the age of 16 years old. 16 years old is old enough to operate a motor vehicle, get emancipated, and begin your working life. Many countries it's old enough to consume alcohol. In many states still old enough to get married even.
Maybe, on the wrong side of the morality line that's drawn in the metaphorical sand, but none of that constitutes being raped! Or a situation that was even remotely close to what the OP is claiming is a "rape"”
Sit back enjoy,we know she was talking about daddy
Commented Sep 14, 2022 21:07 by anonymous
Underage individuals are nonautonomous meaning they are unable.to sign contracts or GIVE CONSENT....I do not care if you disrobed & got into his bed..
Full stop
I believe involving cops & social workers makes everything far worse .they..inflames everliic4ything often traumatizing the victim several times...You'll remember the Pigs far more than your rapists....I used to work in this field...I would get downright excited when police involvement was minimal meant the kid had.a damn good chance of processing the PT's experiencewhat went dow while developing skills & boundaries for the future....Kids are super resilient..
The case is hapless & doomed when cops & CPS step all over shit...Then I get raging mad dads demanding to know if his kid is now a now a fucking fag or not... The kid is asking why he is a victim all of a sudden what was he to have survived...
And invariably he's pissed that the only family member who even heard him is being called the devil & arrested .
Kids world has blown up all eyes on him and EVERYONE IS SUPER PISSED.... they have described it like all of a sudden hVing a terminal illness but noone will tell you what it is or treat it...
To a well groomed victim selected due to his neglect it is UNFATHOMABLE.that his only buddy hurts kids...
Hope I am clear this is a subject I DESPISE...dont get me started on adult rape victims...Shit just heard of this rock. Band gangrape.tourbus Spokane... The 5 foreign nationals let go NOT because they were vindicated...The DA is free to grab them at will if the vict8m ever feels strong enough to get raped 100x worse publicly on international front pages
...rough draft sans glasses SorryNSorry