I used to work at a gym and there were a lot of douchebags who went to this one because it was uppity and where all the pantagonia jacket wearing white men go (I'm white myself) and well there was this one dude who was always so nice and I would talk to him every time I saw him before he went to do his runs on the track. And I would always tell him how big he looked and how cool his tattoos were (he's straight but one of those sensitive straight people) and I'm kinda straight (I hate vaginal sex, anal sex, and oral sex. Pretty much every way you could fuck) but I get feely around dudes and get little crushes on them. And so he was so nice and one day I asked for his number and he gave it to me and a few weeks later I quit my job because I hated my manager and I never ended up texting him. Eventually I got a new phone and lost his number. But today I remembered him and googled his first name (which was kinda a rare/uncommon name, his highschool he told me he had went to (we are both 23) and the sport he did in high school and I found his full name. I searched it on insta and found him and dmd him saying I found him through phone contacts.

I just wanted to still be friends with him, but I didn't know how else to do it without coming off as a creep