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I just want to keep my baby. It’s our baby.. how could you truly want this. FUCK YOU! for telling me that you wouldn’t be able to handle it. I don’t want to do it alone. I don’t know if anything’s going to be the same after this.

Posted Jun 19, 2019 20:47 by anonymous
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  • Commented Jun 19, 2019 21:24 by anonymous

    No loss...too many welfare kids out there anyway.

  • Commented Oct 18, 2019 18:39 by anonymous

    You don't have to if u don't want to

  • Commented Oct 18, 2019 18:42 by anonymous

    If you don't want to get an abortion, don't. It sounds like you really want this baby and he sounds like a lazy, selfish asshole. Don't let him make you get rid of it.

  • Commented Oct 18, 2019 20:05 by anonymous

    “You don't have to if u don't want to

    that is very cavalier, Money, jog, housing, loving two parents? God so many things to think of, its not easy dude, or do gooder.

  • Commented Oct 18, 2019 20:06 by anonymous

    “that is very cavalier, Money, jog, housing, loving two parents? God so many things to think of, its not easy dude, or do gooder.”

    Not many men want to marry a woman who already has a child.

  • Commented Oct 18, 2019 20:07 by anonymous

    Does anyone ever consider the child and what their life will be like?

  • Commented Oct 18, 2019 20:09 by anonymous

    “that is very cavalier, Money, jog, housing, loving two parents? God so many things to think of, its not easy dude, or do gooder.”

    People manage to have children all the time. It isn't rocket science.

  • Commented Oct 18, 2019 20:09 by anonymous

    “Not many men want to marry a woman who already has a child.”

    So?

  • Commented Oct 18, 2019 20:10 by anonymous

    “Does anyone ever consider the child and what their life will be like?”

    Yes, the op and other people in the thread have been talking about that.

  • Commented Oct 30, 2019 10:36 by anonymous

    Having an abortion doesn't make you un pregnant. It makes you the mother of a dead child.

  • Commented Nov 15, 2019 11:17 by anonymous

    Don't do it miss. The people who are urging to you to think of the child's future have no idea what that future holds. That child could be and do anything in this world. Your boyfriend is being selfish it's true, and that could make it harder, but noone thinks that the only people who do well in this world come from ideal families. If that were true noone would accomplish anything.
    Your child is special and he or she deserves a chance.

  • Commented Feb 9, 2020 20:29 by TheCajunPhoenix

    Your body, your decision.

    If you don't want to get an abortion, don't get an abortion.

    The guy is an asshole and he will be sorry when you do move on.

    And move on is your best bet.


  • Commented Apr 4, 2020 02:14 by anonymous

    DO NOT GET AN ABORTION!

    It will be the WORST decision of your LIFE!

    Yes you are lucky you got pregnant. If you DO get one, your % of being able to conceive drastically gets reduced.

    I’m sorry he sucks — but he will never grow up.. yes there will be a guy who will want you when you have a kid.

    You have been blessed — take it, be happy that you were able to and 20 isn’t too young.

    And PLEASE don’t be afraid to ask for help from friends or family— pride is a terrible thing. That’s what they (family) are there for, support. You don’t have to go it alone or do things you wish you hadn’t in order to raise and be the beat mom possible.

  • Commented Apr 9, 2020 13:01 by anonymous

    Kids should have both parents. On the other hand I think he made it quite clear he never wants that level of responsibility. You also may never get pregnant again. So I lean to abortion being a *very* serious decision that shouldn't be used as birth control. But this is a Damned if you do, damned if you don't. You have a good chance of fucking up a kid without a father. On the other hand you may end up forcing him n to be responsible. My brother in law was made to have kids when my SIL was going to need an ovary removed. She always wanted kids. He did it for her. She married him because he was fun. Now she has anxiety and panic attacks because she's lucky for him to watch the kids, let alone help discipline and take care of them. She's the only responsible one in her home. So all the stress is on her. Now he works... And helps pay the bills... But that's it. He doesn't manage his money past bills being paid, he doesn't plan and save...He would have been happy living in his parents basement if she let him. She's sideways miserable.

  • Commented Apr 9, 2020 13:06 by anonymous

    “Kids should have both parents. On the other hand I think he made it quite clear he never wants that level of responsibility. You also may never get pregnant again. So I lean to abortion being a *very* serious decision that shouldn't be used as birth control. But this is a Damned if you do, damned if you don't. You have a good chance of fucking up a kid without a father. On the other hand you may end up forcing him n to be responsible. My brother in law was made to have kids when my SIL was going to need an ovary removed. She always wanted kids. He did it for her. She married him because he was fun. Now she has anxiety and panic attacks because she's lucky for him to watch the kids, let alone help discipline and take care of them. She's the only responsible one in her home. So all the stress is on her. Now he works... And helps pay the bills... But that's it. He doesn't manage his money past bills being paid, he doesn't plan and save...He would have been happy living in his parents basement if she let him. She's sideways miserable.”

    To continue, if you want a family, you must absolutely date responsible men, more so than fun, hot, and edgy. Women everyday act shocked when their man, who they know deep down is fun only, runs off when responsibility comes knocking. Just as men classify women as just fun and marriage material. You women should classify men the same way and take appropriate precautions. Do *NOT* think they will change when you accidentally/intentionally get knocked up.

  • Commented Sep 4, 2020 20:22 by anonymous

    It amazes me that the first thing people think with an unwanted pregnancy is "kill it". What about adoption as a worse case scenario? The other posters are on point bringing up the higher probability of you you not being able to conceive after going through a medical operation to remove your unwanted child. Can we get it update on what you decided to do?

  • Commented Sep 16, 2020 21:45 by anonymous

    #1- if he is miserable like his dad, that is a choice he will make. Everyday you have to chose happiness.
    #2- never abort unless you are 100% comfortable with the situation.
    You are young and if you divorce, you can get pregnant again. BUT I will guarantee you, the love you will have for that child will far outweigh the love you had for your husband, should he chose to leave. You will not regret keeping the baby.

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