I've had big boobs since the 6th grade and I'm now a 25 year old adult. I am so tired of having a large chest. I can tell you with a 1000% certainty that I never desired wearing a bra. I hate bras and I go out of my way to not wear them, but sometimes I have to wear them because my chest would be too noticeable in public without them. To add insult to injury, the prettiest bras are made for women with small chests. There are so many pretty blouses that I've had to skip out on wearing/buying because my chest was too big to fit in them. I hate how men look at my breasts instead of my eyes when I'm purchasing my items at stores. I hate the fact that if I want to workout I'd have to wear a bra, which is one of the things that is keeping me from working out (I know I'm going to experience some level of discomfort). I hate the fact that when I express my displeasure of having large boobs with the people closest to me, all they have to say is "BuT MeN LoVE ThOSE THaNgS" or "dO YoU KNoW HoW MAny WoMEn WoULd KiLL to HaVe BoobS LiKE YoUrS". I literally couldn't care less about a man liking my breasts, in fact I stopped dating because it seemed like all the guys I was meeting only cared about sex. I am more concerned about my own comfort. As for what other women would kill for...I'm not those other women. I'm me. Like I just want a completely flat chest, that way I could basically live life without worrying about how my boobs look.