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I just found out that my mother cheated on my father and got pregnant by two other men on two separate occasions. I also just found out that my ex was cheating on me with my close friend. I don’t know how to process this. Any advice is appreciated.

Posted Sep 6, 2019 23:30 by anonymous
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  • Commented Sep 6, 2019 23:44 by anonymous

    Your moms a slut your ex's are sluts and your on the way there

  • Commented Sep 7, 2019 01:47 by anonymous

    Well you are learning the truth, which is good. You can’t do anything meaningful with lies, because they aren’t real. It’s painful when the veil is first ripped off. Your mom like many people lies to themselves as bad as they lie to anyone else. Never lie to yourself, that is my first advice. That will always cause trouble and harm to you. Being Christian is fine, but much of the modern incarnation of it has major delusions, and requires you deny reality, the reality of nature, in order to follow it. That causes a split in personality. She didn’t/doesn’t really believe in it. Women have a nature, and men have a nature. To live a good life our natures must be controlled, to a point. With moderation things are best. Old traditions had a lot of wisdom, to balance these natures and control things that left unchecked could destroy us. So this is my second advice: Don’t change your morals and ethics despite other people’s behavior. Your ethics and morals protect you from making bad life choices that may end in regret or worse. Your dad is a good man, and so should you be, but make a better choice in the wife department. Last advice: It will take time but learn to trust again. Some trust is required for good, genuine interaction. There are many people that aren’t good dating/marriage material but there are some who are. The west, America, has done incredible damage to society, and turned women into thoughtless self absorbed ignorant whores in the main. You can go foreign to find a good woman, don’t rule it out. And central/Eastern European women are quite beautiful. Or you can go Asian if that is your style. But good women are out there, that want a family, want to be part of a team. That wi be faithful. Also: make money kid! Do it early, but not at the expense of your whole life or later you will cry for your lost 20s. Money isn’t everything but there is a certain amount needed to live a good life, and have freedom to do as you wish. Also read the book: Culture of Critique.

  • Commented Oct 5, 2019 04:27 by fijiboy2014

    you are old enough to get a grip with your own life. Stop worrying about others and work on yourself. Nobody is perfect in life. You will also make wrong choices in life just like everyone else. The best one can do is learn from others to make better choices for themselves. And get on with their life……

  • Commented Oct 16, 2019 10:10 by Raphael Michaels

    Check out "Rollo Tomassi" and " Donoavan Sharpe" on Youtube. They specialize on female behavior such as your mothers and your ex

  • Commented Feb 2, 2020 15:03 by anonymous

    It is time for you to understand reality. Sex with the same person gets old and boring after a while. Your mother was in need of more sex than she was getting from your dad so she went and got it.
    Your girlfriend is young and wants to experience sex with different guys to help her know different ways to be satisfied.
    Remember sex is not always about love. Sex is a biological need. Love is an emotion.
    When you get married remember that your wife may have sex needs beyond what you can provide. Do not confuse that with love.
    You will need to accept that and continue the love and ignore the extra sex. Millions of men are cuckolds and many are raising other men's kids.
    If that happens to you just live with it ans suck it up. Remember it is very common and there is no harm in being a cuckold.

  • Commented Feb 2, 2020 16:50 by anonymous

    It happens all the time, get over it.

  • Commented Aug 10, 2020 08:27 by anonymous

    It is obvious you are upset about this but let me try to help. Remember that sex is a very strong drive. Everyone needs it and we are all tempted. Married or not, the urge is always there. Both men and women have this same urge. This has nothing to do with love. When we love someone we want to have sex with them but we also want sex just for the fun of it. So, my advice is to accept this for what is was. Just the satisfaction of getting sex when the urge was there. Do not think badly of people for being normal.

  • Commented Aug 10, 2020 08:52 by anonymous

    You have put up a wall around you and its understandable with all the shit you've dealt with.
    Now DON'T judge your current girlfriend on what your mother and x-girlfriends have done to you. If you continue dwelling on the past of the bad things that have happened to you by other people then you'll never be able to form a loving trusting relationship with anyone.
    Put the past behind you and keep moving forward.

  • Commented Oct 11, 2020 06:59 by anonymous

    What’s to process? The human males genetic imperative is to breed. Often. A woman’s cycle affects her thinking and behavior especially while ovulating. You seem so upset about what is a very natural and hormone driven response. Why all the drama? It’s fucking nature! Get over yourself.

  • Commented Oct 30, 2020 15:47 by anonymous

    Agree with some of the commenters that "this is normal." But it ain't normal to get pregnant and have abortions with multiple people. That's total irresponsibility and not OK. But on the same hand, you can't judge all women by the two in your life who've gone outside your expectations. And expectations are a very subjective thing. You can't project yours onto everyone else's behavior either. So just because you didn't like what someone did you can't start expecting everyone to do the same. As for you and your future wife, communication is the key. Always is in marriage and most relationships. Talk to your GF and tell what your expectations are. If she isn't down for the strict limits then you both can move on and find someone different who believes as you do. But I have to also say, if you and she "agree" to each others CURRENT expectations you also have to agree to any future discussions to determine the expectations in the future. You will find as you age that your expectations will indeed evolve and might include extra marital fun if both of you agree to it at that point. The key is to communicate, now and forever.

  • Commented Dec 2, 2020 13:29 by anonymous

    Sex is a very strong emotion. My father molested me until he died. My mom knew, but didn't want to lose the financial security. I was extremely promiscuous. I found I could get any man I wanted- married or not. I learned to enjoy the moment. Be happy! Fuck who you want.

  • Commented Dec 7, 2020 22:02 by anonymous

    Here's the best advice that you may ignore and others may mock, but if you follow it, it will be the best thing you ever do: repent and accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Then read the New Testament one chapter a day and understand what our Lord wants from us. Believe and follow His Word. This way you will be saved from hell, and the Lord can give you peace and wisdom to deal with all your problems. Only if you trust in the Lord and believe His Word. You don't need to go any specific kind of church or follow any religion. You just need your Lord and His Word. Do this and ask Him for whatever you need, be it wisdom, peace, or guidance.

  • Commented Dec 18, 2020 12:35 by anonymous

    Tell your mother that if she gets real horny that you will lick her pussy for her & u will fuck her in her pussy & her arse she may love the idea of her son fucking her lots of mothers do well I bet a lot of parents or family members think about having sex with their siblings. Or family members

  • Commented Dec 18, 2020 12:48 by anonymous

    Me & my brother and sister grew up around nudists we use to go to nudist camp sites so from a early age we would see our parents and their friends naked we use to see lot of different men's & boy hard cock & lots of different pussys young & old we would even see people having sex or masterbating & our parents would see us masterbating & we see them fucking they use to do a lot of swinging so we see our parents fucking by others. we also use to have sex from early age nothing was ever forced on us we would have family sex & nude gang bangs

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