I hate when people claim to be "super lonely" all of the time, but they have friends and leave the house to hang out with them. I literally have NO friends, I only leave the house for work, and I have no friends at work.
Posted Jun 11, 2019 21:50 by anonymous
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It just really hits hard when you wake up to no notifications and go on Snapchat and see people hanging out with friends, having a good time. The same people who claim they don't have friends and are lonely all the time always have at least one person they talk to and hang out with. I've isolated myself and I have no friends at all. The only notifications I get are when some random guy that I've never met or talked to in my life is hitting me up to "hang out" (which automatically translates to "all you're good for is sex, other than that you're on your own.")
I did have a few friends before I started dating. Unfortunately I dated assholes who made me cut off my male friends and my female friends left because I wouldn't listen to their warnings about my boyfriends being abusive, they probably thought I was too stupid to be friends with. After 2 years I decided to stop dating, I had/have a very low self esteem and didn't see why I should even try when I kept attracting bums and assholes. I had one friend, but she and I stopped hanging out because her boyfriend kept dropping hints and flirting with me making me uncomfortable (they were in to group sex and I was just a target to them).
It fucking sucks but what sucks more is seeing the people who claim to be lonely have friends offer to take them out and have fun, when I publically claim I'm lonely I just get men that I don't talk to offering to let me come over.
Commented Jan 25, 2022 17:07 by anonymous
Go get a boyfriend and you'll be less lonely. Maybe one of those guys who are wanting to hook up-just make him wait for sex until you get to know him and see if you like hanging out with him first. If you get to be friends and have fun you can have a friend and a boyfriend in one. Thats what I do. I have a problem where I am seen by the world as beautiful, and I have a knockout body and so no women want to really be my friend. They pretend to be my friend then slowly do what a therapist told me is called the slow fade, where they just slowly disappear and she said I needed to hang out with beautiful, thin women with money like me. Well, good luck finding that I can't. Even when I think my friend who has money, and is attractive will stick by me she cancels plans with me 50% of the time and just leaves me with no plan for that night and I don't like it. So, I have a boyfriend and I told him he has to be my best friend too. He's fine with that.
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