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I hate my mother and I hate myself for hating her. I hate that I’m expected to forgive her and I hate that her birthday is tomorrow and I feel obligated to once again invalidate my feeling by putting on a happy face and seeing her.

Posted Sep 24, 2019 00:15 by anonymous
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  • Commented Sep 9, 2020 20:29 by anonymous

    "But nothing too bad." Bullshit, she's a fucking bitch. I hate both of my parents, they never asked for forgiveness, and while I act like it's in the past, I know that they are scum. I'm past letting the anger destroy me, but I know they're scum. My concern is how to not treat their funerals like celebrations, at least not until afterwards; how to not smirk, how to not laugh, around all their family and friends.

  • Commented Nov 4, 2020 17:59 by anonymous

    You don't have to love her. You don't have to respect her as a parent if you think she doesn't deserve it either. But you do need to respect her as another person. If hatred gets in your way too much just make up an excuse and don't go. If not just be really formal and cold. Plus do consider everything though so that your judgement would be fair like were you a kid that did dangerous things that might have made her angry or who was it that stayed up all night when you were kid when you were sick? If you ever were at a hospital who was with you? If a kid at school or elsewhere beat you who was it that defended you? Just be fair and know that you are now an adult. Your life no longer depends on your parents. Parent and kids relationships are complicated so take your time in resolving all that. If too hard just think to yourself "I will bear these scars but now one chapter of my life is closed and now I will reinvent myself as an adult" and live on.


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