I had to throw my own mother-in-law out of my restaurant because of comments she made about me regarding me divorcing my wife. And I had to yell at one of my own staff members
Posted Oct 15, 2019 19:45 by anonymous
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So I'm head chef at a restaurant in Sacramento. Cooking is my passion and I absolutely love what I do and plan on one day getting my own Michelin Star. But recently, me and my wife have been going through a rough patch that's lead to us pursuing an amicable divorce at the moment. It sucks and I'm sure you reading this probably don't care about a divorce, and I don't blame you. It's actually more complex than it seems. But, after we both calmed down and took some time apart from each other to get our heads straight, we're going through with it and are on basically friendly terms. That, and we had a talk with our son about what's happening. He was obviously heartbroken and thought it was his fault, but we reassured him that we'd still be there for him as his parents, and I think he's slowly starting to get the picture.
Anyway, this post is about my wife's she-devil of a mother. She never liked me when I was dating my now ex-wife and she especially hates me now. But I've managed to brush her off simply because I know this isn't about her nor does it concern her. But last night, she had the fucking gall to burst in during dinner service and try and make me look like a fool by airing out me and my wife's dirty laundry. I had told my staff about what was happening and they all were understanding. She'd say "You make me sick what you did to her" and "You're a heartless bastard" and yada yada. Eventually I had enough and told security to escort her out.
But one of my staff thought it was funny how crazy she was and didn't take the situation seriously enough and actually antagonized her to make her yell at me some more. So shortly after the demoness was out of the building, I turned around to the chef that thought it was a joke and said something along the lines of "I don't want you engaging people like that, especially when they make comments about ME and my family. I don't like comments like what you said. It makes us look like a bunch of amateurs. Had you ignored them, I wouldn't be here raising my voice at you. We're here to do a job. If you can't handle that, kindly leave" and I went back to the pass.
I wasn't exactly boiling/fuming, but I was pretty damn close. I don't regret what I said to either my mother-in-law or my coworker, even if it put them on the spot and made them feel embarrassed. I spoke with the owner of the restaurant shortly after and he understood what happened and wasn't upset at all.
I just felt like getting this out there and get it off my mind.
Commented Apr 29, 2020 22:22 by anonymous
Should have fired the guy
Commented Mar 4, 2021 03:42 by Idlewyld
You didn't have to throw her out. Apparently you had to throw the woman you promised to love forever out of your life, because you like putting your thermometer in company sauce. You need therapy. You sound like an incompetent chef, an entitled lover, a lousy husband, and a bad son. You set a poor example for your staff and your son.
Funny how in a very long anonymous post, you decided not to send those yummy morsels of what you actually did out here. Could it be you feel ashamed of your behaviors? Hmmmm
Go back and read what you wrote, pretend it was not you who wrote it. You said, "it didn't concern her." Really? It concerned her so much, she came and yelled at you in your job. She sounds very concerned to me. You wrecked her daughter's life. You hurt your own son, her young grandson. And what exactly was the nature of your relationship with the antagonistic worker? What did you do to spark that brushfire, Chef?
Let me guess: Now you regret losing your wife, your family, and your son won't talk to you. Your restaurant shut down. No one who worked there keeps in touch. You know why?
YOU WERE THE PROBLEM, SIR CHEF
Commented Mar 4, 2021 03:46 by Idlewyld
“Should have fired the guy”
He never said it was a guy. He said a chef. Probable a chef he had an affair with.
He also said it was his restaurant, then admitted he did not own it.
Commented Mar 4, 2021 03:47 by anonymous
“Should have fired the guy”
He can't . He's not the owner. And could find he's the one in the shit.
Commented Mar 4, 2021 03:49 by Idlewyld
Chef, you couldn't even anonymously say WHAT you were accused of doing!! That is very interesting.
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