“I gave birth to you so I can do what I want”
Posted Sep 1, 2020 02:47 by anonymous
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Mother touched/rubbed my bare stomach today when my shirt raised up a little bit to expose it. She thinks it’s expressing “love” but I hate being touched like that. It irritates me and it pisses me off that she feels entitled to that. She KNOWS that I don’t like it.
When I grab her hands and push her away she realizes my irritation and says “that’s my stomach. I gave birth to you so I can do what I want”.
This story has repeated itself over and over my whole life. Whether it be touching my butt or my stomach or WHAT EVER. No boundaries, whatsoever.
She’s not doing it in the inappropriate way that it comes across — the way I’m explaining it (with so little context) makes it sound much more horrifying than it actually is.
Regardless, she is crossing a boundary. She doesn’t respect that I am my own individual person (hence the “I gave birth to you so I can do what I want”). And she feels entitled to touching me — even though she knows I hate it.
It doesn’t stop there. She can barge into my room whenever she wants and brush it off when I tell her to knock before coming in. It’s always a joke when I stand up for myself. I’m “taking things too seriously”.
Since she gave birth to me, apparently I have no right to privacy or boundaries surrounding physicality.
Commented Sep 1, 2020 03:04 by anonymous
She is right as she gave birth to you so she can do anything to you at her will. On the other hand, you once shared her vagina and tits and hence you have the right to do anything to her body as you wish. Tell this to her and watch her reaction. She wants to have sex with you, probably!!
Commented Sep 1, 2020 03:50 by anonymous
Turn the tables on your mother! Start touching and rubbing her as well - in particular her ass, her tits ands her pussy - and kiss whenever you can. Also, barge in on her as often as you can, especially when she in the shower or her bedroom. It is a win-win situation for you: your mother will either stop touching you or you will end up having sex with her.
Commented Sep 1, 2020 05:22 by anonymous
That you can't appreciate the connection between emotional warmth and physical intimacy is proof that she didn't do this often or early enough.
Commented Sep 1, 2020 05:45 by anonymous
“That you can't appreciate the connection between emotional warmth and physical intimacy is proof that she didn't do this often or early enough.”
That’s a good point. I can’t remember a time that my mother was not very affectionate with me.