He basically has always been awful to me. Sure, he’s been through a lot because he experienced traumas early on, but so did I. I never did anything to him to warrant how he treated me. He never showed me any respect, took my money whenever I tried to save.. he even sexually assaulted me several times as a child (I’m 7 years younger than he is, it wasn’t innocent exploring). I have ongoing mental health struggles due to the trauma he caused me. He got therapy when myself and my other sibling never did as kids, he was so terrible he always got attention while I was well behaved and therefore left to be alone. He’s in and out of jail with a new baby and a shitty girlfriend. I decided to go NC and I hope I never speak to or see him again. It bums me out that I’ll never meet my nephew, but I have to put myself first. He only brings misery wherever he goes. I’m so much happier without him in my life.