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I cannot stand my dad’s new wife/my step mom and her son and it’s causing my dad and I to drift apart. What do I do????

Posted Nov 6, 2019 12:36 by anonymous
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  • Commented Dec 29, 2019 00:09 by anonymous

    Don’t let the fact that you don’t like his new wife affect your relationship with him. It won’t be easy, but make it a top priority. Tell him your feelings often and plan things to do without her., just with him. If you let it get out of hand it will be hard to get it back on track. That’s a relationship you want to keep as good as you can forever. She might be around for a year or 5 or whatever. Hopefully you and your dad will be friends for a lifetime. Good luck.

  • Commented Feb 6, 2020 09:46 by anonymous

    JOB NUMBER 1: "Take Care Of Yourself"

    Your father has a temporary or longer-term blindness or addiction to this woman and her dysfunction (as you describe it).
    You cannot help him beyond your honest appraisal.
    You may consider just moving out and letting him handle this train wreck on his own.
    You can call, and visit him and (ugh!) them from time to time.
    It is important to be present in their lives to honor your commitment to your family and father.
    It is not your job to act as if everything is OK and personally suffer for the fact that it isn't.

    The presence of your brother and yourself is probably moderating the worst behavior of your Step-mother and Step-brother.
    Living elsewhere may unleash them and lift the blinders from Dad's eyes, so to speak.

    Also you can test if you are just quibbling because you have someone new before you had gotten through the heart of your grieving.
    Grief and replacement of the one lost isn't always a pleasant, or recommended affair... your father may have muffed this one.

    Best of a Good Life to you.

  • Commented May 12, 2020 13:20 by Book2143

    You should let your dad cum it your mouth

  • Commented May 17, 2020 20:31 by anonymous

    “Don’t let the fact that you don’t like his new wife affect your relationship with him. It won’t be easy, but make it a top priority. Tell him your feelings often and plan things to do without her., just with him. If you let it get out of hand it will be hard to get it back on track. That’s a relationship you want to keep as good as you can forever. She might be around for a year or 5 or whatever. Hopefully you and your dad will be friends for a lifetime. Good luck. ”

    I’m a Dad in a similar situation and this advice is perfect. He has to work at it too. It isn’t easy, and you don’t have to like her just be polite and respectful and keep things with your Dad close. He will appreciate it and hopefully see your relationship as more important(I know I do).

    The energy it takes to hate causes everyone stress including you. If you let it get out of hand everyone loses.

  • Commented Jul 30, 2020 00:02 by anonymous

    video the little prick doing just that--being a prick--then show ur dad and tell him if she don;t start disciplining the little shit you will---you so done with the turd boy getting away with everything.

  • Commented Mar 17, 2021 13:51 by anonymous

    Start making love to your Dad. That will certainly bring the 2 of you closer together. And you don't have a bratty kid tugging at Daddy's shirt tails!!

  • Commented Apr 9, 2021 09:13 by anonymous

    Some people cheat maybe because they think they cannot get what they want in their partners. It's a bad thing to do, but maybe they are not prepared for rejection when they want something new to try. But of course, this reason does not justify their means. It is really frustrating when you learn that your partner cheated on you,my husband was cheating for some reason i didn't really figured out till date,but all thanks to 'hackingloop' for their investigative and hacking service that helped me gain access to all his phone activities remotely,he was surprised how i was able to confront him with so much proof of his extra-marital affairs. If ever your partner's commitment is in doubt, reach out for '[email protected] gmail . com', or you can text him on WhatsApp + 1 484  540 - 0785,tell him i referred you. and please keep everyone else out of your relationships. Don't give 'em a head start on their deceit

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