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I am letting a friend stay with me for two months for free. My rent is flat so she doesnt have to worry about utility bills.... BUT I THINK SHE AT LEAST NEED TO PAY ME SOMETHING... jsut for like idk items in my home that she uses.

Posted Oct 8, 2019 22:07 by anonymous
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  • Commented Feb 17, 2020 17:33 by CuriousNow

    Well, it's been MONTHS with no answer. But, FWIW, if she's still there, I definitely think you need to be up front with her. If you don't, your current (at least, as they were in OCT) feelings/questions could turn to resentment and, eventually, anger. Simply put, she is NOT paying her fair share. If it was only a month or maybe two until she got her own place, that's one thing (although she really ought to offer for that time, too). But if it's longer than two months - that's ridiculous. No one stays anywhere for free. YOU don't! Why should she? You work hard for your money, but you can only keep so much left after groceries because you have rent to pay. Why should she keep whatever she has after her groceries while staying free at your expense? A TRUE friend could not argue against that. She might be just a bit insensitive or clueless, but if it's not that, she's using you.

  • Commented Jan 24, 2021 16:07 by anonymous

    The time that you agreed to let her stay is the time that you could have negotiated asking her to pay anything. People rely on agreements you make to make their plans, and if she had known that you would ask her to pay something then she might have made a different decision. so don't ask for money. But if she wants to stay beyond the agreed upon time, then negotiations get reopened, and you can ask her then. It would also be OK to ask her to do more around your place, since that just involves her time and not her money.

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