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how do I overcome my fear of going to a store and buying women panties. I’m a dude and I’m buying them so I can wear myself but I feel guilty and ashamed when I try to pick them out and have women stare at me.

Posted Dec 29, 2018 12:48 by anonymous
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  • Commented Dec 29, 2018 13:32 by anonymous

    Order them online.

  • Commented Dec 29, 2018 14:56 by anonymous

    Travel out of town and just Buy them

  • Commented Dec 29, 2018 14:58 by anonymous

    Yes, order them online stupid fucker.

  • Commented Dec 29, 2018 15:52 by anonymous

    Who gives a fuck what they think. I buy My panties,Garter-belt and stockings . Where ever I find the nicest ones.

  • Commented Dec 29, 2018 18:48 by anonymous

    Like the others have posted, order online and either have it shipped or pick up in store. I ordered panties and a cute skater dress and picked up in store. You might be wise to select a store in a different area from where you live. Good Luck and have fun dressing!!

  • Commented Dec 29, 2018 18:50 by anonymous

    You do realize they sell stuff on the Internet, right? (eyeroll)

  • Commented Apr 28, 2019 06:45 by anonymous

    I go to Victoria’s Secret. I’ve read that place was established with men in mind, hoping that guys would feel comfortable coming in there buying stuff for their wives/girlfriends and the salesgirls would make suggestions as to what a woman would like or look good in. They get commissions, I think. The first time I went there by myself I was looking at the pretty thongs and a salesgirl came over to help. She asked me “what size is she?”, and I said, “well actually these are for ME!” She smiled and said “no problem”, and showed me where there were more like that, and where the special sale items were, and she came back a few times to check and see if I was finding everything OK. She was a very sweet and helpful girl. A LOT of guys today wear women’s underwear, but we sort of don’t want it to become common knowledge among our family and coworkers. Some of the adult toy stores and adult book/video stores also sell pretty women’s underwear, and these places are accustomed to EVERY kind of person coming in there to buy sexual aids of every description. They don’t even bat an eyelash. But I don’t use my credit card there as I’d rather not have a record of it.

  • Commented Feb 14, 2020 12:19 by anonymous

    Truthfully peole rarely pay any attention to what other people are buying. I feel funny when I do that but realize if I act like it is just shopping I have no problems.
    My wife loves it when I buy women's panties and even a bra

  • Commented Feb 14, 2020 12:27 by anonymous

    Have your mother by them for you.

  • Commented Mar 24, 2020 12:59 by anonymous

    Besr bet is going online. That being said I have bought a few lacy thongs at Target then used the self checkout. I really don't care what people think, especially I'd I'm horned up while buying the items ( au contraire I get a bit of a thrill out of it ;) )

  • Commented Apr 14, 2020 12:03 by anonymous

    I think it is best to go into the store, pick them out and buy them yourself. We deserve to be seen and let people know we are sissy's. The humiliation is good for us.

  • Commented Apr 14, 2020 12:11 by anonymous

    “I think it is best to go into the store, pick them out and buy them yourself. We deserve to be seen and let people know we are sissy's. The humiliation is good for us. ”

    It does make my heart race, picking out panties in a store, bringing to the checkout, and standing there while the clerk rings them up. So much part of the thrill of being a sissy is right!!!

  • Commented Apr 14, 2020 12:19 by perfectstranger

    Go commando much better than wearing any undies at all. Love the way my junk feels bouncing around freely.

  • Commented Apr 14, 2020 13:26 by Gena-Baby

    eBay from China only $3-4 each!

  • Commented Apr 14, 2020 13:43 by anonymous

    Not being a fag or weirdo I buy them all the time for the ladies Just buy some gift wrap paper and even a cheap birthday card. They know they wouldn't fit me anyways when they can see my giant meat bulge and know with my great looks and personality I don't date fat pigs. If your old lady is hot I've probably bought her panties and other lingerie and had her swinging on fat cock. Tough luck to all you little dick dudes.

  • Commented Jun 28, 2020 21:19 by anonymous

    “Not being a fag or weirdo I buy them all the time for the ladies Just buy some gift wrap paper and even a cheap birthday card. They know they wouldn't fit me anyways when they can see my giant meat bulge and know with my great looks and personality I don't date fat pigs. If your old lady is hot I've probably bought her panties and other lingerie and had her swinging on fat cock. Tough luck to all you little dick dudes.”

    You´re one or the other!

  • Commented Jun 29, 2020 00:28 by anonymous

    “Besr bet is going online. That being said I have bought a few lacy thongs at Target then used the self checkout. I really don't care what people think, especially I'd I'm horned up while buying the items ( au contraire I get a bit of a thrill out of it ;) )”

    I know what you mean. I like to buy panties and thongs at WALMART and take them to a check out with a cute young girl at it. She doesn’t know if they’re for me or my GF, wife, whatever, but it excites me to think that she might think I MIGHT be one of those guys that wears panties and thongs!

  • Commented Nov 10, 2020 10:17 by anonymous

    “I go to Victoria’s Secret. I’ve read that place was established with men in mind, hoping that guys would feel comfortable coming in there buying stuff for their wives/girlfriends and the salesgirls would make suggestions as to what a woman would like or look good in. They get commissions, I think. The first time I went there by myself I was looking at the pretty thongs and a salesgirl came over to help. She asked me “what size is she?”, and I said, “well actually these are for ME!” She smiled and said “no problem”, and showed me where there were more like that, and where the special sale items were, and she came back a few times to check and see if I was finding everything OK. She was a very sweet and helpful girl. A LOT of guys today wear women’s underwear, but we sort of don’t want it to become common knowledge among our family and coworkers. Some of the adult toy stores and adult book/video stores also sell pretty women’s underwear, and these places are accustomed to EVERY kind of person coming in there to buy sexual aids of every description. They don’t even bat an eyelash. But I don’t use my credit card there as I’d rather not have a record of it.”

    Exactly! V S is the place to go. The women will help you with no funny looks. Adult toy stores are also great for buying panties and toys with no funny looks.

  • Commented Nov 10, 2020 10:24 by anonymous

    OMG the feeling of embarrassment is so much part of the thrill of buying sexy satin girly things. I love browsing the panty sections at Kohls, Macy's and even Walmart. I love picking out the perfect sexy pairs and feeling my face glow red hot and my heart pound when I go to check out. It is nice to be able to do that again as malls re-open.

    I do buy lots a pretty panties online herroom dot com. But still love the thrill of buying in person.

  • Commented Dec 16, 2020 00:27 by anonymous

    My first time at VS I was embarrassed so I asked the sales clerk if she could gift wrap the thongs and panties, to imply they were for my girl. She did ask if I wanted to look at some pretty bras to match, but I told her my girl prefers to go braless.

  • Commented Dec 28, 2020 12:14 by anonymous

    I get a thrill out of buying my panties at Target or Kohls. I have told check out women a few times that they were for me and one even told me her husband wears them too. My wife knows I wear them and has even told 2 of her gf's. When they come over they smile at me knowing I am wearing panties. It gives me a thrill!

  • Commented Dec 28, 2020 12:18 by anonymous

    “I get a thrill out of buying my panties at Target or Kohls. I have told check out women a few times that they were for me and one even told me her husband wears them too. My wife knows I wear them and has even told 2 of her gf's. When they come over they smile at me knowing I am wearing panties. It gives me a thrill!”

    Me too. I buy online but I still love browsing the panties at Kohls and even Walmart. So many pretty styles and colors. Sometimes I pick out a few pretty pair and put them in my cart just to wheel around with them in my cart. I get a rush when the checkout girl folds them and puts them in the bag while looking at me.

  • Commented Dec 28, 2020 12:33 by anonymous

    I have a similar issue-- I'm into preteen girl's denim the way some guys are into panties. But I don't want buying it to show up listed at the bank, as online would have to be, nor do I want the weirdness of being seen-- a distinctive looking grown man out alone-- buying it. Any ideas for ME?

  • Commented Dec 28, 2020 12:35 by anonymous

    Men have been cross dressing for thousands of years for all kinds of reasons. It’s not a secret. It’s common. And as long you are paying it’s the stores job to just take your money and get their profit.

    And the women who work in lingerie stores ALL know that men do this already.

  • Commented Dec 28, 2020 12:35 by anonymous

    “I have a similar issue-- I'm into preteen girl's denim the way some guys are into panties. But I don't want buying it to show up listed at the bank, as online would have to be, nor do I want the weirdness of being seen-- a distinctive looking grown man out alone-- buying it. Any ideas for ME?”

    A little denim skirt does indeed sound quite sexy

  • Commented Dec 28, 2020 12:44 by anonymous

    “A little denim skirt does indeed sound quite sexy”

    MWM here with an understanding wife.
    I have a very short and tight denim shirt.
    When I got it I look so sexy in it with a tight top.
    I don't think I can fix in it anymore. LOL

  • Commented Dec 28, 2020 12:47 by anonymous

    “A little denim skirt does indeed sound quite sexy”

    It is. And some little shorts. I've had both before. My dream is some sexy sandblasted jeans fit for about an eight to ten year old-- but have never gotten my hands on a pair. My ULTIMATE fantasy is to know the girl and somehow either have her GIVE me some of her stuff, or get away with stealing it somehow-- but I know both are off the table-- so I'm stuck buying.

  • Commented Dec 28, 2020 13:20 by anonymous

    “Men have been cross dressing for thousands of years for all kinds of reasons. It’s not a secret. It’s common. And as long you are paying it’s the stores job to just take your money and get their profit.

    And the women who work in lingerie stores ALL know that men do this already.”

    Interesting perspective. Never thought about it that way. i only know there is something almost magical about stepping into a pair of satin panties.

  • Commented Dec 28, 2020 13:50 by anonymous

    The shame and fear are natural when you're doing something you should be ashamed of and being afraid that someone will see you.

  • Commented Dec 28, 2020 13:59 by anonymous

    “The shame and fear are natural when you're doing something you should be ashamed of and being afraid that someone will see you.”

    And yet the natural desire and pleasure persist. It's ALMOST as if that social pressure... *Gasp* ...ISN'T NATURAL!!!

  • Commented Dec 28, 2020 14:24 by anonymous

    “And yet the natural desire and pleasure persist. It's ALMOST as if that social pressure... *Gasp* ...ISN'T NATURAL!!!”

    Desire and pleasure are over powering!

  • Commented Dec 28, 2020 14:32 by anonymous

    “Desire and pleasure are over powering! ”

    Know why? Because they're the natural things you're SUPPOSED to want! Ever notice the people keeping us from them are all miserable assholes? THEY'RE FUCKIN' REPRESSED!!

  • Commented Jan 22, 2021 14:13 by anonymous

    If you must, online is a good option. But I've been wearing women's underwear for a long time. There is a certain thrill that makes my underwear purchase that more exciting when I shop in person.
    Friendly advise. Know your size. Know your brand and style. Most panties are sized by number. Others use the S/M/L,etc sizing. Sizes 2+ XS size 3, 4+ S are 5 and 6+M
    7 and 8=L. 9 and up are plus sizes. Anyhow, knowing what you are looking for helps so you don't look confused. (And you cannot try on underwear in the fitting room. However if you already have panties on, it's fun to go in the fitting room with some pants and work in a good jack off session!)
    I also like to go to an adult store that sells lingerie. If a woman is at the counter I love to mention that the underwear is for me. Even ask for advise. (One time I had gone in and found a very nice nightie that I bought. The female cashier remarked that she liked the way the material of the slip felt. I said yeah, I know. I can't wait to have it on. Then I mentioned that I like wearing women's underwear and she said a lot of men do.)
    Lastly, try to dress in plain clothes when you shop. I happen to be a big fan of my Alma Mater (high school.) I own a lot of their hats and shirts I wear to games. But hats I often wear to maty places, as some people wear pro sports caps.
    Now my Alma Mater happens to be a prominent all boys Catholic high school. So I don't wear those caps when I'm looking for panties and pantyhose...
    And I'm always ready with the, "They're for my wife" retort if I'm asked.

  • Commented Mar 1, 2021 09:55 by anonymous

    In NYC we have a phrase: "Fuck you care?" Who cares what anyone else thinks? Is there any law that says a dude can't go buy panties? Grow some teeth and some balls, my friend. A man goes out in the world and does what he (legally) wants. Everyone else is a mouse.

  • Commented Mar 1, 2021 09:56 by anonymous

    I heard there was this thing called "The internet" that "people use" to "buy shit."

  • Commented Mar 14, 2021 16:26 by anonymous

    I love buying my panties and pantyhose at the store. Other shoppers don't care what you are buying. And if you are worried about being spotted in line, you can use the self checkout. Simple. (I know it's a bit nerve wracking at first, but you will get used to it.) Have fun young man...

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