This is my first post ever and I can barely keep it together to type it out.

This time last year I (M35) came out as pansexual. When I did I felt like a burden had been lifted off my shoulders, I was a new man. 6 months ago "Sarah" a transgender woman the same age as me was hired and we hit it off, of course this was over Teams since we were both [email protected] One day on impulse I asked her to lunch, since we lived in the same town, and it was amazing. She was bombastic, people craned their necks to watch her walk by, she looked like a model, and she has one of the dirtiest senses of humor I've ever known (a few times I almost spit wine out of my nose which made her laugh harder.) Her laugh is something I can listen to all day and never get tired of. And the chemistry? It was like sodium and water, I was so glad I picked a restaurant only a few minutes away from my apartment. Since then not a day has gone by when we haven't talked on the phone for hours, or made out like teenagers in the back of one of our cars, or had sex I had only thought existed on PornHub! Our coworkers good naturedly complain about the lovey-dovey comments we say to each other in the group chats.

I realize we're still in the early days but I've never had a relationship like this before, and I just had to tell the world!