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God I can’t do this. I can’t do this I can’t do this I can’t do this

Posted Sep 23, 2018 20:07 by anonymous
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  • Commented Sep 23, 2018 20:17 by CandyCane

    You can do it. It'll take time, but you'll get over it. You might be right, it feels like 99% of the time it's another person that entered the picture before breakups happen.

    I've been though what you're feeling now a few times. It works like a sickness, nothing will make things better, it just takes time to feel better.

    Once you're ready, start looking to date other people. It helps bride the emotions and gets your mind off things. I like being friends with my ex's, but it rarely ever works out.

    Be strong, you have to look forward now. Distract yourself. Enjoy the single life for a while. Just for the love of God don't beg him to come back...

  • Commented Sep 23, 2018 20:23 by anonymous

    The best way to get over a guy is to ride another guy.

  • Commented Sep 23, 2018 20:58 by anonymous

    Get over it crybaby

  • Commented Nov 24, 2018 11:38 by anonymous

    Similar thing for me, except I'm the boyfriend, and the ex is now engaged to a guy who literally tried to kill me just for being with her.

  • Commented Dec 1, 2019 22:24 by anonymous

    your description of how much importance he has in your life compared with how he distanced himself from you DOES NOT MATCH.
    there is an element of delusion in this on your part, or on his.
    I'm guessing you are over romanticizing this relationship, and giving up any belief in yourself in favor of idealizing your boyfriend, who, by the way, has shown himself to be a jerk.
    if you build your castle on thin ice, this shit happens, the ice breaks and it all falls down.

    let it fall, and seek help. the amount of delusion in your posting shows that you are either still in adolescence and your brain isn't balanced with maturity yet, or you have biological or family of origin issues that skew your sense of social reality.

    Probably you grew up on social media, which can be fun, but is not a place for growing healthy minds.

    take a break from social media, and people who live exclusively on it.

    not everyone survives on social media, some become social media victims... don't let yourself be one.
    real life is much better, if you are failing social media.

  • Commented Jul 19, 2020 13:30 by anonymous

    Listen, from a been there, done that perspective, the previous comments were correct. You idealized your boyfriend and put him up on a pedestal. I understand the hurt, but he is human and no human can be someone else's everything. Your side of the relationship had delusional aspects because you never expected him to be human and make a mistake/have a different plan for his life/ want something else.
    Try and see this as him finding his happiness and in time, forgive him for having the ability to break up with you, instead of cheating on you.
    If you were perfect for each other this wouldn't have happened, so you weren't perfect for each other. Perfection doesnt exist. If you are in high school, realize 99.9 of high school relationships fail. Stay single til you are in a position to have a mature relationship and take this time to learn to love yourself.

  • Commented Jul 19, 2020 13:33 by anonymous

    “Listen, from a been there, done that perspective, the previous comments were correct. You idealized your boyfriend and put him up on a pedestal. I understand the hurt, but he is human and no human can be someone else's everything. Your side of the relationship had delusional aspects because you never expected him to be human and make a mistake/have a different plan for his life/ want something else.
    Try and see this as him finding his happiness and in time, forgive him for having the ability to break up with you, instead of cheating on you.
    If you were perfect for each other this wouldn't have happened, so you weren't perfect for each other. Perfection doesnt exist. If you are in high school, realize 99.9 of high school relationships fail. Stay single til you are in a position to have a mature relationship and take this time to learn to love yourself.”

    And I would like to add, he wants to date her and have you around as a "back-up", he clearly doesnt respect you and you deserve someone who will do so. He will do the same thing to you again if you let him, only this time he wont break up with the other girl. You will be his main, with a life time of side chicks. There is no need to do that to yourself. Don't fall for his charm He isnt worth it.

  • Commented Jul 19, 2020 13:37 by anonymous

    Take some real advise sweety. If you're basing any point in your relationship on how much you guys communicate on a social media app, you're not ready for relationships.

  • Commented Jul 19, 2020 14:03 by anonymous

    It's called LIFE. You better get used to it. If this is the worst thing that ever happens to you (unlikley) you will have had a blessed life.

  • Commented Feb 24, 2021 09:49 by anonymous

    TIME HEALS WOUNDS

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