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Can a husband rape his wife?

Posted Jan 15, 2018 00:09 by anonymous
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  • Commented Jan 15, 2018 19:13 by anonymous

    “It's not rape. ”

    Sure it is, dipshit. Due to the medication, she could not give consent. And in all 50 states, spousal rape is a felony.

  • Commented Jan 15, 2018 19:25 by anonymous

    “Great idea - they should destroy any chance of future happiness, sell their house to pay legal fees, and destroy their children's future to make a political statement. Technically it's rape. Realistically it's crazy to pursue something like. Bizarre letter-of-the-law fanaticism makes it hard for victims of violent rapes to get justice or to be taken seriously.”

    it is wrong to keep the marriage together if the husband feels it is his right to rape the wife. if for no other reason then the fact their kids will pick up this mentality. And pressing charges will teach his children the truth which is women are human have rights feelings and their body is theirs regardless of marital status. You are a complete idiot to think staying with her husband whom has shown a complete lack of respect for her even as a human is a good idea. do your mother a favor and shoot yourself. And rape is rape whether it is your husband using yo without your consent or an ex or stanger holding you down and taking what you want.. both send the same emotional abusive message. its your body but I can take it when I want. you have no rights or value. You should recognize this as a major issue and how would you feel if it was your mother or sister being used like that? If your okay with it then you should be turned into a eunice as you are not real man nor do you have a the mental capacity to be a father

  • Commented Jan 15, 2018 19:29 by anonymous

    “NO, you are changing the definition simply because you dont like it...but the definition is "against her will"... so again...this wasnt against her will”

    she didn't want to have sex and even went to bed fully clothed to emphasize that . She was unconscious and used. Since you in no way gave consent and actually took steps to make it difficult that can be easily used to prove she in fact DENIED him. SO you can twist this anyway you tiny warped mind wants to. But in the eyes of the law it was rape it was against her will and he should be prosecuted.

  • Commented Jan 15, 2018 20:13 by anonymous

    I am a married mom, and I will say that technically, in most if not all states, it is rape, when a husband has sex with his wife without her consent. I will add that most vows include the statement that you give yourself freely and willingly to your spouse, which I would argue includes those late night quickies. I assume it is safe to say you were mad at your husband and when you learned he had sex with you while you were asleep and still mad, that made you feel violated or like he took advantage of you. Keeping in mind your vows, he went to bed with you and had sex with you, instead of finding someone else to do it with. And to be perfectly honest, if you are considering the legality of what happens in your marital bed, then maybe you should get a divorce, because that is not what marriage is about.

  • Commented Jan 15, 2018 21:34 by anonymous

    You gave consent when you said I do

  • Commented Jan 15, 2018 21:38 by anonymous

    They way I see it he owns you and you own him. If you both were to
    divorce surely you would get half of everything even stuff that's not
    yours. While the husband would get nothing, so look at it as him getting
    what's his. Besides it's your duty and job to fuck him whenever he
    wants it unless you want him fucking someone much younger and
    prettier than you.

  • Commented Jan 15, 2018 21:39 by anonymous

    “You gave consent when you said I do”

    That won't hold up in court, fuck face. He would be convicted, sent to the pen, and have his ass destroyed by his 6'5", 300lb cell mate who has AIDS.

  • Commented Jan 15, 2018 21:56 by anonymous

    “she didn't want to have sex and even went to bed fully clothed to emphasize that . She was unconscious and used. Since you in no way gave consent and actually took steps to make it difficult that can be easily used to prove she in fact DENIED him. SO you can twist this anyway you tiny warped mind wants to. But in the eyes of the law it was rape it was against her will and he should be prosecuted.”

    so "taking steps to making it difficult" in your little mind is DENYING sex.... shut the fuck up bitch.... have you ever played hard to get? oh so they raped you too?? yeah right bitch...keep reaching, what you are sayign is wrong and you know it

  • Commented Jan 15, 2018 22:12 by anonymous

    If us men deny our woman sex, then they obviously assume we're
    fucking another woman. But if a woman denies a man sex then
    that's OK. Twisted bullshit rules that always favor the woman.

  • Commented Jan 15, 2018 22:31 by anonymous

    My wife decided to deny sex and to use it as a weapon. I forced myself on her with all my strength. She fought me with all she had but I was able to overpower her and have my way with her. She said it was the best sex we ever had and loved it. This is why guys get confused because women love aggressive alpha males.

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 00:00 by anonymous

    “My wife decided to deny sex and to use it as a weapon. I forced myself on her with all my strength. She fought me with all she had but I was able to overpower her and have my way with her. She said it was the best sex we ever had and loved it. This is why guys get confused because women love aggressive alpha males. ”

    True but that's just too much work when they could just
    lay there.

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 01:37 by anonymous

    “That won't hold up in court, fuck face. He would be convicted, sent to the pen, and have his ass destroyed by his 6'5", 300lb cell mate who has AIDS.”

    The courts have better things to do than sorting out whether drunken married sex involves consent or not. It's hard enough to prosecute violent rape, never mind this silliness.

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 02:16 by anonymous

    “so "taking steps to making it difficult" in your little mind is DENYING sex.... shut the fuck up bitch.... have you ever played hard to get? oh so they raped you too?? yeah right bitch...keep reaching, what you are sayign is wrong and you know it”

    your lack of a actual reply shows your lack of intelligence. Big deal you can cuss and put a couple simple words together. neanderthals like yourself eventually end up in jail and servicing or raping other morons that get locked up as well. You are no longer living in a cave and it is no longer to hit a woman on her head and drag her to your cave and make her your slave/wife. ANd get this straight I am a male and would beat the shit out of you face to face. I just happen to be intelligent enough to know I don't want to take anything from a woman she doesn't freely give. I am also smart enough to know just saying I do doesn't mean she does for the next 50 or 60 years. She still has the right to control access to her genatalia. Idiots like you make me ashamed of my gender

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 02:22 by anonymous

    “If us men deny our woman sex, then they obviously assume we're
    fucking another woman. But if a woman denies a man sex then
    that's OK. Twisted bullshit rules that always favor the woman. ”

    if we deny them sex an they accuse you of cheating you got other issues besides not being in the mood to work on. Just like if she has a headache it doesn't automatically mean she just got off your best friends dick either. Communication is fundmental in any relationship and key in solving issues as they arise. Taking your mates body when they haven't agreed and or if they say no is wrong on every level. (the exception is for those couples that have discussed this in the past and agreed to it being okay.. and those females into roleplay and enjoy the fantasy of a gentle/slight rough rape play) and even if your husband doesn't beat you and throw you around if you have told him no and he still forces himself on you it is rape. Rape is the act of taking a person against their will without consent. Violence plays a role in many rapes by strangers and that is terrible but it doesn't undermine the act of rape even in a marriage .

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 06:11 by anonymous

    A man has the right to have sex with his wife if she refuses, its his right to fuck his wife whether she want to or not, what she wants doesn't matter

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 13:15 by anonymous

    My wife has mounted me at night when I'm asleep and have an erection. I guess I should have called 911 and had her dragged off to prison.

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 14:09 by anonymous

    “The courts have better things to do than sorting out whether drunken married sex involves consent or not. It's hard enough to prosecute violent rape, never mind this silliness.”

    LOL! You clearly don't know how royally biased against men the court systems are in this country.

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 14:33 by anonymous

    “legally it would depend on the state. like in Virginia the answer is no. but in most of the states YES that is rape. You have to give consent(you couldn't legally as you were passed out /even a mumbled yes from incoherrant partner is not legal). Also the fact that you went to bed fully clothed which according to your own statement is not the norm was a indication that sex was not welcome. The question is have you washed away the evidence and do you have any (undies with his cum in them) that you could give the police. If not then you have no case but yes you were raped and next time you know to call the police before you clean up.”

    Your legal analysis is completely & totally flawed ... In all 50 states this would not be considered rape. No District Attorney (with 1/4 of a brain) would file rape charges in this matter based upon the facts as recited by the OP.

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 14:37 by anonymous

    “If you weren't awake to consent or refuse, you were raped.

    And if he continues after you say "No", you were raped.

    Press charges against your husband because he has no right to rape you.

    And whatever he did to make you unhappy with him before he raped you does not give him any right to rape you.”

    More defective analysis ... Hypothetically, if she said "No" ...Then it would be rape. ... In all 50 states this would not be considered rape. No District Attorney (with 1/4 of a brain) would file rape charges in this matter based upon the facts as recited by the OP.

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 14:41 by anonymous

    “"Without consent" is the legal definition: "Unlawful sexual intercourse or any other sexual penetration of the vagina, anus, or mouth of another person, with or without force, by a sex organ, other body part, or foreign object, without the consent of the victim."”

    You need to read the statutory definition of rape in your jurisdiction and the case law that pertains to that particular statute ... Reading the latest politically correct / feminist definition of rape from Wikipedia doesn't work!

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 15:13 by anonymous

    “My wife has mounted me at night when I'm asleep and have an erection. I guess I should have called 911 and had her dragged off to prison.”

    I usually send my wife flowers after a middle of the night boner ride like that.

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 15:14 by anonymous

    I don't know if that's rape or not. Did you tell him to stop? Resist? If not it was legal marital relations.

    My now ex-wife said she had issues with me and the issue was she wanted to name my son that she was carrying in her womb her former boyfriend's name. I refused.

    I asked her for sex and she said no. I waited a few more days and when I asked her again she said no.

    I quit asking her and one day she had to go to the hospital and she lost the baby. I was not destined to have a child.

    I didn't ever have sex with her again. I didn't want to get her pregnant and a short time later after she was healed up and back at work I left her and eventually divorced her.

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 15:14 by anonymous

    “LOL! You clearly don't know how royally biased against men the court systems are in this country.”

    I understand. In employment law, women are regarded as brilliant. In matters of sex and family, women are regarding as helpful victims.

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 15:52 by anonymous

    “They way I see it he owns you and you own him. If you both were to
    divorce surely you would get half of everything even stuff that's not
    yours. While the husband would get nothing, so look at it as him getting
    what's his. Besides it's your duty and job to fuck him whenever he
    wants it unless you want him fucking someone much younger and
    prettier than you. ”

    Or she could get someone younger and hotter than him. That was a ridiculous statement.

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 15:54 by TheCajunPhoenix

    “More defective analysis ... Hypothetically, if she said "No" ...Then it would be rape. ... In all 50 states this would not be considered rape. No District Attorney (with 1/4 of a brain) would file rape charges in this matter based upon the facts as recited by the OP.”

    It is not defective!

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 15:57 by TheCajunPhoenix

    “When a woman marries a man, her body becomes a marital asset. It is no longer just hers and he can use it if he wants. You are wrong. ”

    I am right!

    My body is still my property, no matter what!

    The same for a woman who marries!

    And if you're gonna spew that nonsense about a married woman's body being a 'marital asset', which it is not, then say the same thing about a married man's body being a 'marital asset'!

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 16:02 by TheCajunPhoenix

    “I don't know if that's rape or not. Did you tell him to stop? Resist? If not it was legal marital relations.

    My now ex-wife said she had issues with me and the issue was she wanted to name my son that she was carrying in her womb her former boyfriend's name. I refused.

    I asked her for sex and she said no. I waited a few more days and when I asked her again she said no.

    I quit asking her and one day she had to go to the hospital and she lost the baby. I was not destined to have a child.

    I didn't ever have sex with her again. I didn't want to get her pregnant and a short time later after she was healed up and back at work I left her and eventually divorced her.”

    The OP didn't give consent because she was drunk or asleep, so it was still rape.

    And as for you and your ex-wife, neither of you is destined to have a long-term relationship let alone marriage with anybody because of what you just described.

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 16:04 by TheCajunPhoenix

    “A man has the right to have sex with his wife if she refuses, its his right to fuck his wife whether she want to or not, what she wants doesn't matter”

    What the man's wife wants does matter!

    A wedding ring is not an all-access pass for the man to have sex with his wife whether or not she wants to and vice versa!

    You are a sexist pig who has no respect for human rights!

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 16:08 by TheCajunPhoenix

    “They way I see it he owns you and you own him. If you both were to
    divorce surely you would get half of everything even stuff that's not
    yours. While the husband would get nothing, so look at it as him getting
    what's his. Besides it's your duty and job to fuck him whenever he
    wants it unless you want him fucking someone much younger and
    prettier than you. ”

    Marriage is not ownership!

    And unless the wife or the husband is a prostitute or a porn star, having sex is neither a duty nor a job!

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 16:09 by TheCajunPhoenix

    “Or she could get someone younger and hotter than him. That was a ridiculous statement.”

    Agreed. Marriage is not ownership. And sex should never be considered a duty or a job.

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 21:18 by anonymous

    OP, So you woke up in the morning fully clothed again, or did you just forget you didn't go to be naked?

  • Commented Jan 16, 2018 21:52 by anonymous

    “They way I see it he owns you and you own him. If you both were to
    divorce surely you would get half of everything even stuff that's not
    yours. While the husband would get nothing, so look at it as him getting
    what's his. Besides it's your duty and job to fuck him whenever he
    wants it unless you want him fucking someone much younger and
    prettier than you. ”

    Yeah, it goes both ways. When you want sex he needs to give it up too. And if he can't get it up, he needs to eat you out. But you can't complain if he fucks you anytime he wants.

  • Commented Jan 17, 2018 00:09 by anonymous

    “Your legal analysis is completely & totally flawed ... In all 50 states this would not be considered rape. No District Attorney (with 1/4 of a brain) would file rape charges in this matter based upon the facts as recited by the OP.”

    Oh dang. Look what we got here fellas. It's a first year law student.

  • Commented Jan 17, 2018 00:32 by anonymous

    “I am right!

    My body is still my property, no matter what!

    The same for a woman who marries!

    And if you're gonna spew that nonsense about a married woman's body being a 'marital asset', which it is not, then say the same thing about a married man's body being a 'marital asset'!”

    I have never ever known a man to complain that his wife raped him because he woke up to find her sucking his dick or riding his boner. Men don't pull that bullshit. This is a uniquely female ploy for attention.

  • Commented Jan 17, 2018 01:23 by anonymous

    Hell no that's his pussy. If you don't want him fucking you what's your excuse? You're too tired or have a head ache? You just don't like the fact you don't have control over your pussy. I bet you use it as leverage to get your way with him. I'm glad he got at you. Good job guy

  • Commented Jan 17, 2018 03:19 by anonymous

    “I am right!

    My body is still my property, no matter what!

    The same for a woman who marries!

    And if you're gonna spew that nonsense about a married woman's body being a 'marital asset', which it is not, then say the same thing about a married man's body being a 'marital asset'!”

    In your case, you are right. Only because nobody, and I mean NOBODY, wants that your body or your shitty trash attitude.

  • Commented Jan 17, 2018 03:26 by anonymous

    “It is not defective!

    Your pussy is certainly defective, why wouldn't your logic. Stanky Gash!

  • Commented Jan 17, 2018 06:06 by anonymous

    I have had sex without my wife's consent, if we are in bed I get top of her pushed her legs open and fucked her, I didn't ask she didn't say stop I just did it, when we are alone in the house only yesterday we were in the kitchen I bent her over the kitchen table, lifted her skirt and pulled her panties down and fucked her with out asking, she didn't resist or tell me to stop.
    Is that classed as rape? I would appreciate an answer.

  • Commented Jan 17, 2018 11:09 by anonymous

    I did one night after work, she didn't want sex and I was ready to go, dropped her to the floor and pulled her shorts off and tore the panties off her, then rammed my cock into her and blew my load. left her there on the floor.

  • Commented Jan 17, 2018 11:15 by anonymous

    Im sick to death of females crying rape when they cop a tude with a guy or regret having sex with a guy.

  • Commented Jan 17, 2018 11:57 by anonymous

    If you haven't given consent, or can't consent, then it's non-consensual intercourse. Most people would call that rape. I call it babysitting my step-daughter.

  • Commented Jan 18, 2018 07:28 by anonymous

    “well if rape is having sex with a woman "against her will"... then by definition the answer is NO... because you never said you didnt want to”

    Her husband still raped her the husband was mens rea at the time of the rape. it is still classed as rape. This is like date rape. The woman as had a drink he falls asleep the man forces himself on her.

  • Commented Jan 23, 2018 15:39 by anonymous

    Absolutely! I rape mine everyday when I tell her I love her, because I don't.

  • Commented Mar 12, 2018 00:06 by anonymous

    “I did one night after work, she didn't want sex and I was ready to go, dropped her to the floor and pulled her shorts off and tore the panties off her, then rammed my cock into her and blew my load. left her there on the floor.”

    I would love to be your wife.

  • Commented Apr 25, 2018 20:55 by anonymous

    In 2013 my husband came home from three years of rehab after MRSA caused his spinal cord to be partialy crushed and severed, He came back with the decision things were not going to be In any way like they had before that happened, That I was going to consider him before all in our life, His paralisys wet from the tops of his legs down leaving him fully capable to have sex. This was not something any one thought would happen, when he came home both able to have sex and walk with the help of a cane, we knew with his combat training in both the army and navy and his martial arts training that when he was angry he was also deadly with just his bare hands and feet.

    Before he became ill we as a family and community had spent 24 years trying to get him to willingly cooperate with more important needs and wants than his, this included using the offer of sex as the reward for continued cooperation This failed in 200 and 2001, the first time was over the milliniall holiday leaving for Bavaria with his family and friends of the family we had to have him taken into custody to be taken to work out of a jail cell from the 23 of December 1999 to the 2nd of January 2000 to keep him from disrupting lesser seniority plans because he did not want to work another holiday and go to Baveria with me. The holiday started out with two deputies telling him to shut up they had no charges and he was not going to mirandized and there was not a statement of judgment against him. he was just going to have to work, and to make sure he was going to be a guest of the county. He flattened both deputies and had to be tassed with the new hand tasser's to his knees issued to two other deputies, on his way to thie car in cuffs I turned into a traitor bit**.

    When we returned on his birthday the 5th of January we were coming back with a proposal that he take from the 5th to the 24th off in exchange for the milliniall, we would celebrate his birthday, Christmas and the new year on the 5th, 6th, and 7th on the seventh drive 4 hours to a B and B on the straights of Mackinack start our marital life as we should have 18 years before. It was an offer to peacefully resolve the last 18 years and start a nice life without strife with our neighbors, over things like holidays, vacations, job positions and shifts.

    We returned to insult and scorn We had called his union president and asked him to arrange the time off using my husbands personal time, he told us that somehow we had to get my husband to let bygones go. Convince him that we would never force him to work again when he had the right to the time off with his 25 years seniority, The next year he turned four of the counties most connected by family into four critical care pateints when we were not able to get him to try it our way. I had never known the amount of damage he could cause with his hands, feet elbows and even his head. It took him less than one minute and then he kicked the front door in on me and told me if I ever tried to get him hurt for my society friends again he would lay me in the next grave. My ankle was broken and four men with better social and family connections hurt over a job bid and shift ( years later over a vacation he's dislocating my shoulder and trying to murder his father because he did not give his permission to cancel our berth on the orient express.

    Three years latter when my affair partner sweept his cane he beat him so badly after fracturing his scull. He was put in the regional mental health for evaluation. and two weeks later sent home on an evening I was invited to a dinner by my husbands father when he came home. I ran into his chest getting ready, and suddenly felt I was in a deadly situation when he said from the second he came home he was the final and only judge and arbiter of what promises were kept under his roof and what he was allowed was his and his alone to decide and I was keeping the hundreds of promises made and broken since we married before any others were kept. I as begging him to pick any where he wanted and we would meet him in four hours he did not have to be so angry we could finally work through thing starting then I said only a four hour wait and maybe things could get some kind of settlement acceptable to all. He said there was only one mans arm I would be on at any time after he came home and that was his and he did not care what we wanted I was going nowhere but where he wanted. I took for the door in terror knowing that his intention was going to be his and only his way then when my dress shredded all over the living room I could see that there was not going to be a negotiation for what was coming so I started begging that it did not have to be that way As he forced me to the floor and forced my legs apart I pleaded with him please no not that way he was hurting me.

    He wanted to add insult to injury when he threw me the phone and said the number is 911, don't clean up for the rape kit. don' pick up for scene photos. He said lets get everything in the public eye and when he went to prison he would go with his head up and lets see if me or his family would ever hold ours up in public again Epecialy when it came out we had kept him in virtual slavery for 31 years. Stole his life. What he had earned with his back sweat and sometimes blood. Lets see how fast his pay would go to the government for retirement and disability in fines and how long I could survive on nothing.

    I went to see the ADA assigned to women's advocacy ands she saw everything.. she said he raped me once, how many decades had we his family and I raped him, out of his life. She said he staff saw everything we had done and frankly it made all of them ill.

    Nothing was meant to happen as it had we hoped that he would accept just staying on second shift permanenlty take times nobody else wanted I should have had the sex life he wanted when he came home from the navy in 1985.

    The last five years therre has been nothingg in cooperation or try and understand other points of veiw its his way or hurt.

  • Commented Apr 25, 2018 21:08 by anonymous

    I always heard if your married it's not rape.

  • Commented Jul 22, 2018 17:06 by anonymous

    “Perhaps you should reconsider your drug use mixing pills and alcohol.”

    This has to be the shittiest comment yet.

  • Commented Jul 22, 2018 17:12 by anonymous

    Stick a big dick in ass stupid question of course it’s not rape! This is why guys kill their wives thinking this way feminists need to just die drink gas and light a fucking match

  • Commented Jul 22, 2018 17:18 by anonymous

    It is a type of rape because you didn't consent. My wife told me one time when I wanted so that she would divorce me if I made her do it. I divorced her instead.

  • Commented Jul 22, 2018 18:22 by anonymous

    “When a woman marries a man, her body becomes a marital asset. It is no longer just hers and he can use it if he wants. You are wrong. ”

    actually that depends on where. In most parts of the united states that is not true. If the couple has discussed this and she has agreed that sex while sleeping is allowed then no rape has occurred. However by legal definition what the OP described is legally RAPE. True she didn't say no but her being fully dressed as well as her hubbys knowledge that she was mad at him is pretty much saying no pussy tonight. She was unconscious and therefore not given a choice hence the legal definition of rape. This is true of the circumstances when a woman passes out at a party and men use her as sex toy. They are legally raping the girl. Now in Virginia the laws are different bedroom play is given a very wide definition and if was in bedroom then all is good. But the wife can take advantage as well and some have beating their husbands by tieing them up while sleeping and taking a bat to them. HUsband couldn't press charges as wife claimed he loved rough sex and it just got carried away. Be careful what you play with it could kill you in the end

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