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Posted Oct 18, 2021 10:00 by anonymous
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  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 16:49 by anonymous

    “I was born white skin color with a penis. Biologically I'm a 5' 10" 180 lbs 54 year old white male. But my gender is a 5' 4" 100 lbs 20 year old black female.

    Anyone saying that is science based, the whole gender is whatever the fuck you want it to be, is in fact mentally retarded. ”

    ...there is a difference between an idiot telling the 'i identify as attack helicopter" joke and actual transgenderism.

    For example, are you aware that there are multiple stages during in vivo (and post birth) development in which the brain and other orgasm are impacted by sex hormones?

    Most people think it's just the gonads, but there are various other organs that respond to sex hormones during this time.

    And should one stage of development be inconsistent with the next, this could be the biological explaination for trans people.

    Now, you might think that 'of that's a freak, it's a mistake in genetics'. But guess what? Left handedness works the same way, so are left-handed people freaks or genetics mistakes?
    A century ago we thought so, and forced people to write with their right hand.

    Maybe you don't understand the science as well as you think.
    Maybe you should read more scientific articles about it instead of making the same tired old joke........

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 16:49 by anonymous

    “You're right, real science is science, and that science says there's a difference between sex and gender. :)”

    No it doesn't.

    Retard.

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 16:51 by anonymous

    “Why are you so deadset on remaining ignorant? People keep correcting you and offering you the correct information, but you seem determined to ignore them.”

    Retard.

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 16:52 by anonymous

    “Retard.”

    Correct! The stupid fuck spends his entire life on here trolling. Won't answer any questions and calls people "little buddy" and adds a :) to the end of his braindead troll comments.

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 16:57 by anonymous

    Hey Op
    What is your opinion on the more exotic NB pronouns xe/xer?

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 17:01 by anonymous

    “...there is a difference between an idiot telling the 'i identify as attack helicopter" joke and actual transgenderism.

    For example, are you aware that there are multiple stages during in vivo (and post birth) development in which the brain and other orgasm are impacted by sex hormones?

    Most people think it's just the gonads, but there are various other organs that respond to sex hormones during this time.

    And should one stage of development be inconsistent with the next, this could be the biological explaination for trans people.

    Now, you might think that 'of that's a freak, it's a mistake in genetics'. But guess what? Left handedness works the same way, so are left-handed people freaks or genetics mistakes?
    A century ago we thought so, and forced people to write with their right hand.

    Maybe you don't understand the science as well as you think.
    Maybe you should read more scientific articles about it instead of making the same tired old joke........”

    I wasn't making a joke you stupid fuck, I was simply pointing out your stupidity.

    Mission accomplished.

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 17:04 by anonymous

    “I wasn't making a joke you stupid fuck, I was simply pointing out your stupidity.

    Mission accomplished. ”

    And I explained in broad biological terms how transgenderism can exist and why it would be wrong to think of it as a mistake/error.

    And yet you continue to cling to Republican 'science' instead of you know.... Actual biology

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 17:23 by anonymous

    “And I explained in broad biological terms how transgenderism can exist and why it would be wrong to think of it as a mistake/error.

    And yet you continue to cling to Republican 'science' instead of you know.... Actual biology”

    Thanks for providing further proof of your stupidity. You just let everybody know that you think your political ideology is science.
    You didn't explain anything, you just spewed some more bullshit you've been programmed to say.

    FYI I don't vote because it's pointless and all politicians, both sides, are assholes in it for themselves.

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 17:33 by anonymous

    WHY TF YOU SO SEXY???? GOD JUST LOOKED AT YOU AND WENT “hmm but what if we make them one of the good looking ones? like then what??”

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 17:37 by anonymous

    “Thanks for providing further proof of your stupidity. You just let everybody know that you think your political ideology is science.
    You didn't explain anything, you just spewed some more bullshit you've been programmed to say.

    FYI I don't vote because it's pointless and all politicians, both sides, are assholes in it for themselves.”

    And the bit I said about how we have multiple stages during development where organs can be influenced by sex hormones just struck you as 'political ideology'?

    This is why no one bothers explaining stuff to you idiots
    You think viruses are fake, vaccines don't work, and that transgenderism isn't a thing despite ALL of these things having mountains of scientific evidence.

    Even children are more capable of learning than you.

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 17:45 by anonymous

    “Retard :)”

    Yes you are :)

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 17:50 by anonymous

    “And the bit I said about how we have multiple stages during development where organs can be influenced by sex hormones just struck you as 'political ideology'?

    This is why no one bothers explaining stuff to you idiots
    You think viruses are fake, vaccines don't work, and that transgenderism isn't a thing despite ALL of these things having mountains of scientific evidence.

    Even children are more capable of learning than you.

    retard

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 17:53 by anonymous

    Fucking retards males have a penis it's a fact and females have cunts it's a fact follow the science

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 17:57 by anonymous

    “And the bit I said about how we have multiple stages during development where organs can be influenced by sex hormones just struck you as 'political ideology'?

    This is why no one bothers explaining stuff to you idiots
    You think viruses are fake, vaccines don't work, and that transgenderism isn't a thing despite ALL of these things having mountains of scientific evidence.

    Even children are more capable of learning than you.

    You mixed in a minuscule amount of actual science in with a bunch of bullshit in that comment you're referring to. This is typical of someone that has no fucking clue of what they are talking about. Then you finish it off with baseless false assumptions about me.

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 18:19 by anonymous

    “I wasn't making a joke you stupid fuck, I was simply pointing out your stupidity.

    Mission accomplished. ”

    The only stupidity you succeeded in highlighting was your own.

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 18:21 by anonymous

    “The only stupidity you succeeded in highlighting was your own.”

    You suck at trolling. Just like everything in your life.

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 18:49 by anonymous

    XY : male
    XX : female
    There is no such thing as non-binary. You’re delusional and mentally sick.

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 18:52 by anonymous

    “Why are you so in denial about settled facts? Do you also think the earth is flat and we faked the moon landings?”

    According to Armstrong we did

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 19:00 by anonymous

    “Yes, it describes sex, no argument here. What it doesn't do is tell you anyone's gender.”

    There’s no such thing as gender. Only sex. If you were born male I will NEVER call you a she/her. If you aren’t a group of people I won’t call you they/them. I don’t pander to liberal delusions, sorry.

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 19:04 by anonymous

    “Kinda funny cause everyone in my life accepts me lol
    I’m pretty happy too :) I have a great job, great friends and family, a loving partner, and the cutest dog ever! I hope you achieve happiness too :)”

    They accept you for fear of persecution

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 19:41 by anonymous

    “There’s no such thing as gender. Only sex. If you were born male I will NEVER call you a she/her. If you aren’t a group of people I won’t call you they/them. I don’t pander to liberal delusions, sorry. ”

    And there are more than two sexes
    Male, female and intersexed.

    So not a delusion, just sound science.
    Maybe pickup a textbook once in a while

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 19:43 by anonymous

    “XY : male
    XX : female
    There is no such thing as non-binary. You’re delusional and mentally sick. ”

    And xxy and xyy
    So yeah such a thing as non-binary.

    Pick up a textbook once in a while
    Or is being educated too 'liberal' for you?

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 19:44 by anonymous

    How does it feel to be totally fucked up in the everything? Society is never going to accept your mental illness. Move to San Fran. The place of sickness, earthquakes & a barn for ten million dollars. Enjoy.

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 19:49 by anonymous

    Hey op,
    What's the oddest slice of life type thing that's happened to you due to being NB (let's exclude the bigotry cause that fucking sucks).

    Like I've heard of trans folks passing on a pretty pencil case cause they worry about being too 'girly'
    Anything like that?

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 19:51 by anonymous

    “How does it feel to be totally fucked up in the everything? Society is never going to accept your mental illness. Move to San Fran. The place of sickness, earthquakes & a barn for ten million dollars. Enjoy.”

    How does it feel to hate everything that's different from you as a distraction from realizing that your life is shit?

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 20:11 by anonymous

    “You guys know that xxy and xyy are possible right?
    So a person can be intersexed,
    So for those that cry 'BiOlogY SayS tHeRe Are OnlY Two GenDErs'
    Need to fucking study a bit more biology

    Also actual biology notes the difference between sex and gender.

    Once again republitards dont give a shit about the actual facts because it hurts their feewings

    Get fucking bigoted snowflakes. Go back to your safe space,(I wanna say... Alabama?)”

    Why feel the need for the Alabama comment? Spent 5 years there and now I'm in Tennessee.......mostly because none of these southern retards know enough shit about shit to be useful without "damn Yankees" to tell them how to do shit right. But anyway......

    I'm a proud, gun toting, Republican who also likes sucking cock. At 52, I consider myself an old white guy. I also sometimes wear women's clothing, because I hate pant but respect my children enough to not subject them to my naked ass. Why am I considered the enemy? Because my brethren are idiots?

    I don't deny the science behind gender, but what, exactly, does non-binary mean/represent? A little studying could get me an answer........but laziness IS something I have in common with my generally retarded Southern neighbors.

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 20:24 by anonymous

    “And there are more than two sexes
    Male, female and intersexed.

    So not a delusion, just sound science.
    Maybe pickup a textbook once in a while”

    Yeah and there’s Down Syndrome too. Those are anomalies and can’t reproduce. It’s better to terminate such life at birth.

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 20:35 by anonymous

    “Why feel the need for the Alabama comment? Spent 5 years there and now I'm in Tennessee.......mostly because none of these southern retards know enough shit about shit to be useful without "damn Yankees" to tell them how to do shit right. But anyway......

    I'm a proud, gun toting, Republican who also likes sucking cock. At 52, I consider myself an old white guy. I also sometimes wear women's clothing, because I hate pant but respect my children enough to not subject them to my naked ass. Why am I considered the enemy? Because my brethren are idiots?

    I don't deny the science behind gender, but what, exactly, does non-binary mean/represent? A little studying could get me an answer........but laziness IS something I have in common with my generally retarded Southern neighbors.”

    Well for one, many cultures outside of North America recognize more than two genders.

    With the west, people tend to be forced into a male/female classification. But (as mentioned before) some people (it's thought due to genetics or within womb development) are not exactly strictly female or male. This could be someone who is biologically intersexed, or perhaps someone who had some differences during that multistage sex-hormone linked development I was referring to before.

    So for someone who doesn't feel fully female nor male (And I mean that bodily/kinesosentically not just emotionally), what are they to do in our society that only has a binary male/female gender system?

    What I would say is that our society is beginning to understand nuance in that the binary gender system is being revised to fit reality. The problem is that you have people that fear this change, thinking that finally recognizing these individuals as different is somehow threatening their way of life when I would say that's not the case, just society shifting it's conventions to better suit reality.

    Same with the shift with gay rights. Recognizing a reality by shifting societal conventions (gay people exist, and they should have the same rights as others, and now, non-binary people exist, and they should have the same rights as others)




  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 20:37 by anonymous

    “You suck at trolling. Just like everything in your life.”

    I'm not trolling. Just trying the correct the ignorance running rampant in this thread.

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 20:38 by anonymous

    “There’s no such thing as gender. Only sex. If you were born male I will NEVER call you a she/her. If you aren’t a group of people I won’t call you they/them. I don’t pander to liberal delusions, sorry. ”

    The fact that you think reality is "liberal delusions" really says a whole lot about your intelligence LOL

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 20:51 by anonymous

    “The fact that you think reality is "liberal delusions" really says a whole lot about your intelligence LOL”

    *whispers to other liberals, gesturing toward the Republican*
    They know that singular they existed in English before the whole trans right movement right?

  • Commented Oct 19, 2021 21:11 by anonymous

    “Well for one, many cultures outside of North America recognize more than two genders.

    With the west, people tend to be forced into a male/female classification. But (as mentioned before) some people (it's thought due to genetics or within womb development) are not exactly strictly female or male. This could be someone who is biologically intersexed, or perhaps someone who had some differences during that multistage sex-hormone linked development I was referring to before.

    So for someone who doesn't feel fully female nor male (And I mean that bodily/kinesosentically not just emotionally), what are they to do in our society that only has a binary male/female gender system?

    What I would say is that our society is beginning to understand nuance in that the binary gender system is being revised to fit reality. The problem is that you have people that fear this change, thinking that finally recognizing these individuals as different is somehow threatening their way of life when I would say that's not the case, just society shifting it's conventions to better suit reality.

    Same with the shift with gay rights. Recognizing a reality by shifting societal conventions (gay people exist, and they should have the same rights as others, and now, non-binary people exist, and they should have the same rights as others)




    Neato! You typed a bunch of bullshit and act like it has any meaning whatsoever!

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 01:10 by anonymous

    “Well for one, many cultures outside of North America recognize more than two genders.

    With the west, people tend to be forced into a male/female classification. But (as mentioned before) some people (it's thought due to genetics or within womb development) are not exactly strictly female or male. This could be someone who is biologically intersexed, or perhaps someone who had some differences during that multistage sex-hormone linked development I was referring to before.

    So for someone who doesn't feel fully female nor male (And I mean that bodily/kinesosentically not just emotionally), what are they to do in our society that only has a binary male/female gender system?

    What I would say is that our society is beginning to understand nuance in that the binary gender system is being revised to fit reality. The problem is that you have people that fear this change, thinking that finally recognizing these individuals as different is somehow threatening their way of life when I would say that's not the case, just society shifting it's conventions to better suit reality.

    Same with the shift with gay rights. Recognizing a reality by shifting societal conventions (gay people exist, and they should have the same rights as others, and now, non-binary people exist, and they should have the same rights as others)




    Though that makes sense, what rights would you be fighting for? I'm not aware of any rights you've been denied, because the only label you wear is your own.

    I wear my pansexual pride t-shirt and my bisexual pride bracelet, often together, in public (even in Tennessee and Alabama), but there are no other outward signs I'm "different" from anyone else. I don't need to wear those labels for anyone but myself, for any reason other than advertising for possible sex hookups.

    I guess I just don't understand the current "label culture". If there's no chance we're going to be involved (romantically, sexually, etc), I just don't feel there is any reason for someone else to be reading my warning labels.

    There are a whole lot of closed minded individuals commenting on this thread. I am not taking a side saying one group is right and the other is wrong........I can see points and delusion on both sides. I also see that one side is more educated and the other has been socially programmed, yet I can see where some on both sides of the lines are intelligent, educated, and programmed. I, myself, have been working to eschew a literal lifetime of social programming because it goes against everything I actually believe. There is a difference between the actual science at work here and what we older people were taught in primary school. A lot of the people arguing the less open minded side seem to fall back on those primary school teachings from long ago.

    There are at least 3 sexes, and numerous genders have long been accepted by science. Why is it so hard for people to accept that not everyone is fully "masculine (male)" or fully "feminine (female) ", but that a percentage of the population falls somewhere in the middle (or totally outside) those 2 extremes? A percentage of the population falls outside the medical classification of 2 sexes, let alone societal expectations of "gender"?

    Science changes over time. We're talking about the science of the human body and mind, not geology. Hell, a lot of paleontology has "evolved" (for lack of a less ironic term) over the past 20-40 years as we study more and more.

    Maybe it's time for the closed minded to update their thinking, rather than clinging to the God and guns mentality?

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 08:03 by anonymous

    As a male, who is white and straight, I only want to pursue females. I don't give a fuck about the gay community, the trans community, the hermaphadite community, fuck them all. So to me, there are only 2 genders. All that inbetween freaky shit is just abnormalities. No different than a retard. I will never give a fuck about the feelings of hermaphadites and homos, and I surely wouldn't expect an ounce of empathy from those degenerates.

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 09:00 by anonymous

    “As a male, who is white and straight, I only want to pursue females. I don't give a fuck about the gay community, the trans community, the hermaphadite community, fuck them all. So to me, there are only 2 genders. All that inbetween freaky shit is just abnormalities. No different than a retard. I will never give a fuck about the feelings of hermaphadites and homos, and I surely wouldn't expect an ounce of empathy from those degenerates. ”

    Spoken like a true 60yo loser

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 09:02 by anonymous

    “Hey op,
    What's the oddest slice of life type thing that's happened to you due to being NB (let's exclude the bigotry cause that fucking sucks).

    Like I've heard of trans folks passing on a pretty pencil case cause they worry about being too 'girly'
    Anything like that?”

    I’ve been so scared to piss bevause im worried someone will think “thats not how a ____ pees?? INTRUDER!!” So I really prefer gender neutral bathrooms. That or the way my legs move when I walk.

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 09:04 by anonymous

    “How does it feel to be totally fucked up in the everything? Society is never going to accept your mental illness. Move to San Fran. The place of sickness, earthquakes & a barn for ten million dollars. Enjoy.”

    Go outside and touch some grass. There is an entire world outside of shithole USA. I’m actually accepted where I’m from because people have feelings here and know how to treat other people like humans. Lmao

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 09:04 by anonymous

    “XY : male
    XX : female
    There is no such thing as non-binary. You’re delusional and mentally sick. ”

    I don’t believe this man has ever been to medical school LMAO

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 09:05 by anonymous

    “They accept you for fear of persecution ”

    Oh you don’t know what it’s like to be loved? Not surprised :)

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 09:05 by anonymous

    “I was born white skin color with a penis. Biologically I'm a 5' 10" 180 lbs 54 year old white male. But my gender is a 5' 4" 100 lbs 20 year old black female.

    Anyone saying that is science based, the whole gender is whatever the fuck you want it to be, is in fact mentally retarded. ”

    And yall wonder why we hate cis white men

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 09:47 by anonymous

    retard

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 10:47 by anonymous

    “And yall wonder why we hate cis white men”

    See you mentally ill freaks are filled with hate. Us normal people just feel sorry for you fucked up screw ball whack jobs. To the person who keeps writing a book in their comments, no you're not smart no you're not 'educated' no you're not stating anything that is based in actual science. All you are is a narrow minded pervert that has a penchant for googling things for conformation bias. If some dumbass thinks the earth is flat they also can Google that and find some whack job with a degree that tells them it's flat. You little kids need to come to grips with the fact everything you find on the internet isn't necessarily true.

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 12:59 by anonymous

    “You're right, real science is science, and that science says there's a difference between sex and gender. :)”

    No, it doesn’t. Gender refers to language, since some languages give male or female articles to inanimate objects. Words can be gendered, but people only have a sex

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 17:13 by anonymous

    “No, it doesn’t. Gender refers to language, since some languages give male or female articles to inanimate objects. Words can be gendered, but people only have a sex”

    Maybe look beyond the 1st Google hit for gender?

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 17:17 by anonymous

    “See you mentally ill freaks are filled with hate. Us normal people just feel sorry for you fucked up screw ball whack jobs. To the person who keeps writing a book in their comments, no you're not smart no you're not 'educated' no you're not stating anything that is based in actual science. All you are is a narrow minded pervert that has a penchant for googling things for conformation bias. If some dumbass thinks the earth is flat they also can Google that and find some whack job with a degree that tells them it's flat. You little kids need to come to grips with the fact everything you find on the internet isn't necessarily true.”

    You bigots are the whack jobs. Most 'normal' people are just fine with trans people.

    Maybe y'all need to go to Afghanistan of you're intent on trying to make America some sort of hate-filled theocracy.

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 17:20 by anonymous

    “Yeah and there’s Down Syndrome too. Those are anomalies and can’t reproduce. It’s better to terminate such life at birth. ”

    Wow, so 'pro-life' of you.
    Get fucked bigot

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 17:25 by anonymous

    So much of this crap is exactly the same bigoted lies people used with gays and lesbians
    'oh it's a mental disorder'
    'oh it's unnatural'
    'they're disturbed perverts'

    I guess bigots gonna bigot but Jesus Christ can you at least get new material?

    I mean what kinda of mental disorder is it where you hate anything that is different from you? Did mommy not love you?
    Does your life suck and that's why you try to blame things on others?
    Just take a long look at yourself and realising that hating on the unusual isn't the answer. And realise that your bigoted views hurt you too.

    Maybe you don't get invited to family events anymore, maybe you've lost some friends.

    Stop being a bigot before your hate consumes you.

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 17:27 by anonymous

    “I’ve been so scared to piss bevause im worried someone will think “thats not how a ____ pees?? INTRUDER!!” So I really prefer gender neutral bathrooms. That or the way my legs move when I walk. ”

    I've always like the washroom sign that has a man, women, non binary, unicorn, alien with the words 'whatever, just wash your hands' cause really, that's all I care about.

    Just wash your hands.

  • Commented Oct 20, 2021 20:43 by anonymous

    So, was the "ask anything" just a troll tactic? It seems actual questions are dismissed in favor of name calling and arguing. Such is the internet.

  • Commented Oct 21, 2021 00:27 by anonymous

    “Why feel the need for the Alabama comment? Spent 5 years there and now I'm in Tennessee.......mostly because none of these southern retards know enough shit about shit to be useful without "damn Yankees" to tell them how to do shit right. But anyway......

    I'm a proud, gun toting, Republican who also likes sucking cock. At 52, I consider myself an old white guy. I also sometimes wear women's clothing, because I hate pant but respect my children enough to not subject them to my naked ass. Why am I considered the enemy? Because my brethren are idiots?

    I don't deny the science behind gender, but what, exactly, does non-binary mean/represent? A little studying could get me an answer........but laziness IS something I have in common with my generally retarded Southern neighbors.”

    You live in the south and shit on the south. Take your rye bread eating ass back north. You yankees are the reason this shit is fucked up in the first place. You simped for the negro for over 200 years. You are a bitch made white boy who moved to the south to be with real men. Race traitors are the worse.

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