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Am I being unreasonable? I do not want to teach my kids how to drive but I expect them to be moved out once they turn 18. Whether that be in a group home or on the streets, they say they don't want to live in a group home or be homeless.

Posted Dec 28, 2018 17:49 by anonymous
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  • Commented Dec 28, 2018 18:02 by anonymous

    You’re bat shit crazy.

  • Commented Dec 28, 2018 20:13 by anonymous

    Wtf who does this are you a troll?

  • Commented Sep 30, 2019 04:58 by Olig22

    That's possibly the most unreasonable thing I've ever heard. In my opinion this is child abuse and if you haven't already achieved it then in the future your children will have serious mental health problems and will resent you.

  • Commented Oct 11, 2019 15:28 by anonymous

    Nope, you are fucked up in the head.

    Again, stop living in the 1950's. The world had CHANGED, it had gotten much worse and thanks to assholes like you it will not get better.

    You know what, I hope the government and/or the bank takes your house and leaves you on the street.

  • Commented Oct 24, 2019 23:14 by anonymous

    “That's possibly the most unreasonable thing I've ever heard. In my opinion this is child abuse and if you haven't already achieved it then in the future your children will have serious mental health problems and will resent you. ”

    You are supposed to teach your child to be independent... your method kick them out the nest, fly, crash and burn
    No Fks given!

  • Commented Dec 24, 2019 13:38 by anonymous

    Ok, I understand the sentiment but you are most certainly being unreasonable.
    Listen to yourself, how the heck do you expect them to get to a spot that they can move out if you don't teach them to drive of pay someone else to do that?

    In today's world, and for most of the last century having a job has meant having the ability to get there. It's rare that a person can find a job within walking distance these days.... and let me get this right, you seem to be congratulating yourself for homeschooling them yet you have neglected a critical part of their education, not only driving but also doing basic maintenance on their vehicle.

    If you drive, you should know how to check your fluids, tires (wear and pressure) wiper blades, belts and hoses etc.... IMO you should be able to do some of this stuff, even if you have it done. I'm retired but it always made my job easier dealing with a "dad" type who knew something about his and his families vehicles because he knew I wasn't BS-ing him and also he could relate when I would say something like "Your belts are marginal, If you're driving this and you keep an eye on them you can get some more life from them but if it's your wife or daughter I would probably change them now , especially if they tend to drive some distance"

    I have serious doubts about you ability to educate, hopefully I'm mistaken but it looks to me that it's possible you've failed in your educational endeavor. If that is the case you really can't complain if they stay for quite some time. That may not be a bad thing as you may see the day come when you appreciate that one or two is around to help you in your times of need. So you may have a change of heart.

    Yeah buddy, we all get old... if we're lucky.

  • Commented Mar 12, 2020 09:47 by anonymous

    i agree, troll. You are inconsistent.

  • Commented May 5, 2020 21:12 by anonymous

    Lol you're a mistake of a parent

  • Commented Oct 9, 2020 08:50 by anonymous

    I started to type a bunch of witticisms but i decided to let this one go. Grow old, be alone, and DIE alone. end of story,

  • Commented Jan 11, 2021 10:20 by anonymous

    is 1 female? ill teach her how to be a good sex doll to me and never work and be spoiled!

  • Commented Jan 30, 2021 09:14 by anonymous

    No, you're not being unreasonable.
    But you are being a TROLL.

  • Commented Feb 14, 2021 09:55 by anonymous

    You are a fucking moron. I’m hoping the karma that is to be thrust upon you is debilitating.

  • Commented Mar 5, 2021 04:12 by anonymous

    jfc YES you're being unreasonable. you're a fucking idiot. you're trying to push the metaphorical birds out of their nest after clipping their wings. at least hire a driving instructor or some shit

  • Commented Mar 29, 2021 02:08 by anonymous

    your one sorry piece of shit, id beat your ass face to face.

  • Commented Mar 29, 2021 02:58 by anonymous

    I see nothing at all wrong with how you manage your affairs. My son worked after school so I bought him a bicycle which he paid me back. He graduated high school, didn’t want to go to college so I put him out. He got a job with a school mate at the factory in town, they shared rent. When he got the money he bought a car, his friend taught him to drive. He seems to be doing well. He’s 25 now and has saved a lot of money. He had a girlfriend but he learned they are expensive. He said “dad, they don’t care how much food cost, they order the most expensive thing on the menu” I had to laugh. We didn’t spool him with cellphones, he had to pay for extras if he wanted extras. He has bought all his own clothes since he was 16. He takes care of everything he has, he understands how expensive things are. He still rides his bike to save money. His roommate moved out and got married. My son said the guy is always broke since he got married.

  • Commented Mar 29, 2021 04:00 by anonymous

    “your one sorry piece of shit, id beat your ass face to face.”

    No you wouldn’t. You’re like a baby bird, all mouth and ass.

  • Commented Aug 13, 2021 16:49 by DirtyCool

    You know who's going to take care of you when you're too old to do anything, right?

  • Commented Aug 13, 2021 16:52 by anonymous

    The OP is a troll describing himself. Also he posts all the liberal bullshit on this website 24 hours a day 7 days a week.

  • Commented Aug 13, 2021 16:53 by anonymous

    I figured it was my duty to support my kids five years. After all, they came to be because I was horny. I threw them all out on their 5th birthdays.

  • Commented Nov 14, 2021 19:09 by anonymous

    You sound like my mom. They will be fine. Just don’t expect them to come around with your grand kids. I moved to the opposite side of the country and she has seen my kids 2x. They are in middle school now.

    She wouldn’t even let me have a job every time I would get one and she would find out. She would be complaining to the manager that I was a minor and they needed her permission for me to work. So don’t do that at least. It sounds like your a little more reasonable. It’s not your responsibility to teach them to drive? Let them get a job and pay for drivers ed like the rest of us. And just stay out of their way lol don’t kick them out the day the child support check stops after getting them fired from 4 jobs.

  • Commented Jan 16, 2022 13:14 by anonymous

    Kids stay at home until thy are a leased 40 now.

  • Commented Oct 24, 2022 13:28 by anonymous

    You must be born again! This is how to do it:

    We must realize that God exists
    We must realize that He created us.
    We must realize that God has a personality.
    We must realize that because God created us; He has the right to tell us how we are to live our lives.
    We must realize that God has communicated those instructions to us in the Bible.
    We must realize that God has created a Heaven; where all those who die in holiness go too. And they enjoy eternal bliss with God throughout all eternity; and a Hell, in which the devel and all of his angels and all those who do not obey the Gospel of Christ go to; and suffer insurmountable pain throughout eternity.
    We must realize that we have violated the instructions that God has given us. And because we have violated those instructions; we deserve to go to Hell. Because God requires us to keep his commands perfectly in order to get to heaven.
    We must realize that we; in our own strength cannot keep God’s requirements. And thus we habitually break Gods commands. And thus are unable to save ourselves from Hell by our own ability.
    We must realize that despite this; God loves us and wants to save us from Hell. And have intimate fellowship with us.
    We must realize that in order for God to accomplish this; He sent a part of Himself to the earth to live in a mans body; to teach us more of His laws; and then lay His life down for us. We must realize that Jesus Christ came to die on a cross to appease Gods anger that He has toward us because of our disobedience; and to set us free from sins bondage through the Blood that was shed; water baptism; and Holy Spirit baptism. So that it is now possible to walk in obedience to His will.
    We must confess our sin’s to God; agreeing with him that what we have done in the past that was contrary to His will is wrong and promising to never do those things again.
    We must ask God to forgive us based upon the blood that Jesus shed for our sins. (i.e. disobedience to His laws.)
    We must ask Jesus to come into our hearts and take up residence within us as our Lord. Promising to be submissive too Him in all things! Willing to forsake everything of this world that displeases Him! We must surrender our wills completely to Him! No longer to live our lives for ourselves; but for Him! To be wholly pleasing to Him in all things.
    We must then be submersed in water. (e.g. baptized.) So that we can participate in the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. (In a spiritual sense.) And for the remission of our sins. (i.e. deliverance from sins power.)
    We then must be baptized in the Holy Spirit. You will know that this has happened when one of the nine manifestations of the Holy Spirit are operating in your life on a regular basis.

  • Commented Oct 24, 2022 13:51 by anonymous

    you need to teach them the life skills that they will need to make it in society before you kick them out. that means that you need to teach them how to drive and help them get their drivers license. you need to teach them how to earn money. how to handle money responsibly! etc. if you dont do those things then you are a horrible monster if you want to kick them out into the world unprepared for it!!

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