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25M Never a girlfriend or kissed still a virgin never a date I'm fat ugly short and poor. No attractive women (20sF) like me. Nobody cares that I am miserable and no one wants to help me and no one cares about me. Can I get advice

Posted Sep 6, 2019 10:22 by anonymous
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  • Commented Sep 6, 2019 10:43 by anonymous

    Being too fat, too short, too poor, too ugly, too tall, too skinny or "too" whatever society doesn't consider as fashion or beauty norms has one advantage: when people stick to you, they stick to you who like you for who you really are, since you don't have the superficial apparatus ("good-looking, sexy, rich" etc) people generally like when they pretend to "like" someone
    It tells volume about how "loving, tolerant and fraternal" our nice little society actually is, and how deep social relations actually are

    Trust me, everyone finds someone every now and then. Sure you'll never have many friends, forget about it, but you can have a few, or even just one, and that one will matter like everything in the world to you
    And even if you don't, so what. Take on a sport, a hobby. Enjoy a nice movie or some video games. Read a good book, learn, write, develop your inner world and your inner creativity.
    There's so much to enjoy in life apart from people, who generally are huge scumbags anyway so why bother

  • Commented Sep 6, 2019 11:50 by anonymous

    What is so wrong with being with a woman who's unattractive? Everyone's looks fade eventually. Get over it.

  • Commented Sep 6, 2019 11:52 by anonymous

    Get over yourself and date ugly girls.

  • Commented Sep 6, 2019 12:04 by anonymous

    Move out of your parents basement, take a shower, and just say no to the all you can eat buffets.

  • Commented Sep 6, 2019 14:15 by anonymous

    How exactly can people help you when you're so whiney? How can you expect women to look past your looks when you reject girls you think are unattractive? If you won't lose weight then become a doctor or lawyer and maybe you can get some pussy.

  • Commented Dec 20, 2019 23:24 by anonymous

    This is probably why you have a hard time attracting anyone. You think people are going to like you or fall in love with you based on your looks. The truth is you'll become attractive based on how you treat other's first and then yourself.

  • Commented Dec 20, 2019 23:39 by anonymous

    Why do so many men think they deserve super models even if they're unattractive? There are so many women out there who want to be in relationships but they're alone because men are so fucking shallow. Smh.

  • Commented Dec 20, 2019 23:45 by anonymous

    Just go make lots of money...no end to beautiful gold digging women..young and old

  • Commented Apr 2, 2020 23:37 by CuriousNow

    Wonder if you're still looking at replies to your original post. My input? Attitude. You need to STOP TELLING YOURSELF WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU. Find this in a library or maybe you can still find it on Amazon - "The Magic of Thinking Big" by a guy named Schwarz or Schwartz or something similar. You only have so much room in your head for "stuff" so quit filling it up with NEGATIVE crap and start filling it with POSITIVE thoughts and attitudes.

    I've been there, I needed a change - positive attitude WILL make a difference.

  • Commented May 2, 2020 20:30 by anonymous

    Because women get sooooo aroused when a guy hates on himself they want to fuck his brains out.

  • Commented May 2, 2020 20:32 by anonymous

    Get an education, don't stop until you have your PHD and are a corporate CEO and sitting on the board of several other corporations. Chics dig dudes with deep pockets.

  • Commented May 2, 2020 20:35 by anonymous

    "I'm practically invisible to good looking women"

    u answered your question without even realizing it, good looking women aren't looking for ugly men, this is you're an incel & u just have never figured it put, go figure.

  • Commented May 2, 2020 20:43 by anonymous

    Learn how to yodell and come up with a kool name like " Yodelling Andy" make some albums and go on tour ,get a kool tour bus with YODELING ANDY on it . Chicks will be lining up to ride your cock

  • Commented May 5, 2020 06:49 by anonymous

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  • Commented Jun 3, 2020 06:11 by anonymous

    “yo man, FUCK THESE ASSHOLES. GET YOURSELF SOME BLACK MAGICK/VOODOO.. I AM SERIOUS. THANK ME LATER.. LOOK UP FINBARR PUBLISHER. ”

    Sound like u have tried this. What was the outcome?

  • Commented Jun 9, 2020 14:50 by anonymous

    Stop drinking sugary drinks. Eat vegetables. Go to the gym. It not only will help with your looks but also with your feeling of well being and your health. Women will be more attracted but mostly you will feel better and live longer. And actually women and men aren't as attracted to obsesity because it is a signal that a person doesn't eat well and isn't healthy.

  • Commented Aug 13, 2020 08:31 by anonymous

    Advice: bungee jump but don''t attach the line to anything solid.

  • Commented Aug 13, 2020 08:46 by anonymous

    stick with the hookers you will be happy when they leave

  • Commented Aug 13, 2020 09:21 by anonymous

    I really hope you read this. I was same 15 years ago, do what I did.

    Forget about girls, they are not relevant right now. Sort out the diet, healthily. Join a gym (when you can), go walking/running, can't afford weights at home, find concrete blocks and lift them. Clean your place every day top to bottom. Join a martial arts class, Karate is a good one for weight loss, or Arnis, or Jujitsu something that will help you build confidence make sure there are lots of sparring sessions.

    At some point in the future you will be fitter, slimmer and more confident, then you think about girls. Sort yourself out first.

    I'm now married, successful and teach two martial arts and mixed martial arts.

  • Commented Aug 13, 2020 09:40 by anonymous

    Hey man, take it from me!!! I am not bragging, but I'm a guy who's had my pick of women for the most part. I always thought I had to have the best looking cunt on the block and I have. They are the most miserable fucking cunts ever and absolutely no fun to be around. I started dating the heavier set girls and I have never been happier. They don't give a flying fuck about all that fake ass bullshit and they know how to let their hair down and fuck your brains out! I wouldn't trade one of the girls I've dated over the last 5 years for every single one of the miserable pathetic cunts I used to fuck. In fact I don't ever want to even see them again now that I've discovered what life is all about.

  • Commented Aug 13, 2020 09:42 by anonymous

    Lose weight and get a job. Two of your problems are now solved.

  • Commented Aug 14, 2020 15:30 by anonymous

    Find a therapist, find a health trainer. Those two things will be the biggest life changing decisions you can make. Seriously, 25 is not very old. You do not want to be married right now. What you should be doing is setting the tone for the rest of your life. Get your mind right with a therapist, get your body right, that doesn't mean getting ripped, it means feeling active and healthy and when you are in your late 20's/30's women will be a lot easier to talk to and mor eopen to relasionships. Hell, you can even date five years younger if you have a stable job and are mentally all there with a decent heathy lifestyle.

  • Commented Dec 26, 2020 15:17 by anonymous

    “Why do so many men think they deserve super models even if they're unattractive? There are so many women out there who want to be in relationships but they're alone because men are so fucking shallow. Smh.”

    Ugh yeah

  • Commented Jul 21, 2021 01:05 by anonymous

    This is all free to do. No cost, just a little guts and determination. I did this myself, it works over time.
    Just get yourself to average weight first. If you think losing 100 would make you slim, then just go for losing 50 at first. You may be amazed at how much more energy you will have without having to carry it around, and you’ll live beyond 40. That feeling of being healthier or looking better should also increase your confidence in your self. That’s what the attractive women are most looking for, confidence.
    Start by walking everyday, sweating while doing that is a plus, don’t push too hard, it takes time. As you get to feel a little stronger, add in short amounts of jogging, very short, and keep walking after, do reasonably amounts, don’t over exert, you’ll feel the difference. You should alway be able to talk while jogging or later running. If you can’t, slow down, or drop back to a walk. Eventually connect the jogging together to form longer little runs. Keep doing that long enough and eventually you could be running or jogging a mile or more. From that point the sky’s the limit, you can loose as much weight as you want to.
    One other thing. Look at what you eat and cut the amount in half. If you want a whopper, get a small burger instead, or cut the whoop in half and save it for the next day. Best to stop sweets as much as possible. You’ll want to do these things once the weight starts dropping.
    So get to where you look average, feel the energy you have, and try to show confidence when you interact with a woman. Combine that with being a nice guy, be patient, and you will have a chance to find a reasonably attractive girl. But remember, even though the desire for attractiveness is built into us, it’s not the all there is. You could fall for that average girl and be happier than the guy with the supermodel or cheerleader type. Actually, it’s almost guaranteed that you’ll be happier.Though nothing’s perfect, things change over time, and you try to keep adjusting.

  • Commented Jul 30, 2021 20:51 by anonymous

    Wow what a POS! Get over yourself, the world owes you nothing. “Hot” people tend to date other attractive people, or in the least interesting or successful ones. You’re none of these things, but instead of eating right/going to a gym/ working to become successful, you just wanna complain like a whiny brat. One of my friends was legit just like you, and at one point easily bottom 5% looks wise. He got in the gym, went to school and now he’s a successful, shredded, dude with an ugly face but extremely hot wife. Get off your ass and do something

  • Commented Aug 3, 2021 09:26 by anonymous

    I'd do ANYTHING sexual you could ever dream of, if you were willing to tie me up, in my hooded strait-jacket, which has a zipper across the mouth, so I can be force3d to suck your cock as long, and as often as you want...okay I'm far from a "hot girl" - not even a girl, but I would give you ANYTHING you wanted, as long and as often as you wish...not sure if this helps, but it is an actual solution to many of your problems - I don't care how overweight you are, or "ugly" - organized properly, we might never actually SEE each other during contact...

  • Commented Aug 10, 2021 02:43 by anonymous

    get yo self a bbw or a femboy
    ez

  • Commented Aug 15, 2021 11:28 by anonymous

    All the women complaining about guys wanting super models. In reality what guys call hot and attractive is average. Look at online dating stats, those with inflated egos and expectations are women, not men. Women think 80-90% of men are "ugly", and only a small minority are average to hot.
    Guys on the other hand have expectations following a bell curve, in other words, what you would expect from a realistic view.

  • Commented Aug 15, 2021 11:30 by anonymous

    Seven and eight year old girls in tight jeans and denim mini skirts Doing backbends and head stands while giggling evilly at what they know men want and exactly why they don't dare take it. Sticking out their tongues and blowing kisses and pointing at the men's obvious boners with giggling fake "shock"

  • Commented Aug 27, 2021 14:00 by anonymous

    “All the women complaining about guys wanting super models. In reality what guys call hot and attractive is average. Look at online dating stats, those with inflated egos and expectations are women, not men. Women think 80-90% of men are "ugly", and only a small minority are average to hot.
    Guys on the other hand have expectations following a bell curve, in other words, what you would expect from a realistic view.”

    "what guys call hot and attractive is average" a below-average guy like the OP should date a below-average woman, not an average woman.
    and no, guys don't call average women "hot"...they call them average.

  • Commented Aug 27, 2021 14:03 by anonymous

    “Seven and eight year old girls in tight jeans and denim mini skirts Doing backbends and head stands while giggling evilly at what they know men want and exactly why they don't dare take it. Sticking out their tongues and blowing kisses and pointing at the men's obvious boners with giggling fake "shock"”

    the FBI is keeping an eye on you

  • Commented Sep 1, 2021 11:58 by anonymous

    Dude, Sounds like you are in a rut. Lot's of good advice above. Work on your health. Eat good food. Set goals. Volunteer. Make a difference. Be a good friend. Women will find you. When women see that you have women friends, they wonder, what does that guy have? Never, never, never judge a book by its cover. Beauty fades, but a woman with a lot of heart will help you accomplish all of your goals.

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  • Commented Sep 8, 2021 04:25 by anonymous

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  • Commented Oct 8, 2021 21:00 by anonymous

    Alright, let me give you some encouragement that's also a lesson: as bullshit as it sounds, it's what's on the inside that counts. Both for you and for the girls you don't want to have to "settle" for. Plenty of girls like guys with dad bods, but those are guys with appealing personalities. Looks to me like that's something you could use some work on. Confidence helps, but, speaking from experience, I know how fucking hard that can be to develop. You just need to try and make yourself a bit more outgoing and likable. Beyond that, though, if you want someone to give you a chance, you have to give someone else a chance first. Go date an "ugly" girl. See if it goes well.

  • Commented Oct 26, 2021 04:42 by anonymous

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA you with your fucked up head deserve to die alone you ugly fat fucker loser! Do you even hear yourself?! Even if you were a skinny twig no one still would date you NO ONE all due to your retardation and mental diseases you fucktard narcissistic shit with your "attractive" "fat" women bullshit. With your fucked up head I'm surprised your dad hasn't honor killed his retarded autistic shit son. And "fat and ugly" women don't exist. Go fuck yourself and kill yourself now. You too delusional to even be alive dickhead. .i. Save girls from hurling by seeing your revolting face and head and go let a gay guy fuck you in the ass and just hope that both of you got AIDs. Fucking messed up narcissistic delusional incel retarded autistic shits ..

  • Commented Nov 18, 2021 13:31 by anonymous

    stop looking at women as a solution to all your problems, go to the gym and focus on yourself instead of how others perceive you

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